Our last episode of 2021!

In this episode we reflect on how much we've grown over the past year, reminisce on some of the highlights, and play a fun game in preparation for 2022.

This is a game you can play for your 2022 as well! But it requires you to go ALL IN on your dreams.

So play along if you dare :)

Hope you enjoy this one!

- Jordin + Josef

We got some intense relationship question cards from theskindeep.com and answered them live for you.

In this episode, we answer questions like...

(We call these our "try not to get in a fight" cards.)

All this and more in this week's episode :)

Enjoy!

- Jordin + Josef

Almost nothing is linear. Especially not relationships.

Our relationship is constantly cycling through phases of feeling close to one another and more distant. ANd individually, we are constantly cycling through our own phases of growth and healing.

How do we navigate these cycles?

How can we honor them?

How can we trust one another despite them?

How can we get clear on what part of our cycle we are in?

All this and more in this week's episode :)

Enjoy!

- Jordin + Josef

In this lovely episode, Jordin fumbles asking for a sexual need to be met.

When we first try talking about something vulnerable, we often suck at it at first. Whether that is advocating for our needs or setting boundaries--it's normal to fumble at first.

That's why it's so important to share awkward conversations like this--to model how we have learned to fumble through all the fumbling and become closer because of it :)

Enjoy!

- Jordin + Josef

What if "living your purpose" was much simpler than you thought it was?

Jordin thinks so. Josef is...interested in what Jordin has to say but also annoyed by it.

If you're looking to live your purpose and are also annoyed by how complicated (or oversimplified) people make that seem, this is the episode for you!

We also touch on living your purpose while in a relationship because, well, this is a relationship podcast :)

Enjoy :)

- Jordin + Josef

Look. Josef and I are both pretty fucking smart. We give great advice and we can see each other's blind spots like no one else can because we're around each other all the time.

But. (You knew there was going to be a but).

We resist the fuck out of each other's advice. *And* sometimes our advice for one another is unconsciously biased.

So...what's the balance? How much should we coach each other?

Enjoy :)

- Jordin + Josef

Holy shit ya'll.

Tis is the most vulnerable conversation we've ever had and we captured it for you.

It's about how Jordin is making peace with Josef being attracted to other women.

This is one of her biggest triggers that runs the deepest and has been a recurring conversation in our relationship that has never really come to a resolution.

This episode is part Two of the convo.

Enjoy :)

- Jordin + Josef

Holy shit, ya'll.

This is the most vulnerable conversation we've ever had and we captured it for you as it was happening in real-time.

It's about how Jordin is making peace with Josef being attracted to other women.

This is one of her biggest triggers that runs the deepest and has been a recurring conversation in our relationship that has never really come to a resolution.

This episode is part one of the convo.

Enjoy :)

Jordin + Josef

Healing our relationship trauma is about becoming okay with being our full selves even while we are with others.

Not hiding what is alive in us. Not hiding what is alive in our partner. But learning how to allow space for both to exist.

This is not easy. 

Josef and I have both had to evolve how we communicate in order to truly allow for all of us to have enough space in our relationship.

Nonviolent communication is how we did this. Super helpful tool.

Enjoy :)

- Jordin + Josef

Holding space for your partner is essential in relationships. But what does it mean to "hold space"?

How does the masculine energy hold space for the feminine energy? And how does the feminine energy hold space for the masculine energy?

When is it time to switch between the two and how is it possible to find the right balance?

These are the questions we vulnerably explore in our own relationship in this episode.

Hope you enjoy :)

- Jordin + Josef