How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

The High Conflict Divorce: Navigating Volatile Behavior with Megan Hunter • Rebroadcast


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We continue our hiatus as we prepare for season five. In today’s episode, we return to season three and our conversation with Megan Hunter at the Hight Conflict Institute in a great conversation about dealing with divorce with high conflict people.

Ninety percent of divorce conflict can be resolved through dialog and negotiation. But what about that last ten percent? In these situations you might find yourself interacting with partners that have moved from the frustration and grief natural in the divorce process and into what we have come to call high conflict behavior.

Megan Hunter co-founded the High Conflict Institute, an organization dedicated to this group that engages in high conflict behaviors. What is high conflict behavior in the divorce process? How do you resolve conflict when risk is high and this behavior is potentially dangerous? How do you move toward settlement when any resolution appears to be impossible? Join us today to find out.

Links & Notes

  • The High Conflict Institute
  • Guides on Divorce and Co-Parenting in High Conflict Situations
  • (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
  • (01:09) - Introducing Megan Hunter
  • (03:40) - Psychology and the High Conflict Divorce
  • (07:26) - Is High Conflict Behavior Triggerable?
  • (13:08) - Empathy and The Brain
  • (20:05) - Give them an E.A.R.
  • (29:24) - Dealing with Narcissists
  • (32:19) - The BIFF Response
  • (40:46) - The BIFF Check and the Three As
  • ...more
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