The High Value Man Conversation

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  • The HVMC: ep 37: “Take a Lap!” Part 1/3 How to Define our Purpose

    If you want a blueprint for becoming a High Value Man, grab a copy of my “5 Steps To Becoming A High Value Man” for free - https://erinalejandrino.com/


    The HVMC: ep 37: “Take a Lap!” Part 1/3 How to Define our Purpose


    This again? Groundhogs Day? Deja Vu? 


    Ever experience this “lap in the desert”? 


    Back licking your wounds in a familiar spot as you’ve been before… just a little bit older? 


    It’s probably because you missed the lesson.


    Better figure that out otherwise…. Take a lap!


    I’m breaking down the process to extract the lessons and move past the desert. 


    This is one you’re going to want to watch on YouTube! 


    00:00 - Intro

    02:25 - Purpose

    03:39 - Pain

    05:24 - Passion

    08:20 - Priorities

    10:38 - Play

    12:11 - The Golden Thread

    15:00 - Outro

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    16 min
  • The HVMC: Ep 36: My Life Update

    If you want a blueprint for becoming a High Value Man, grab a copy of my “5 Steps To Becoming A High Value Man” for free - https://erinalejandrino.com/


    The HVMC: ep 36: My Life Update


    Are you ready for a life-changing conversation? 


    In this episode of the High Value Man podcast, I share a personal update that will change the game for any man looking to live a more fulfilling life. 


    I discuss the importance of being honest and transparent with where you are in life rather than comparing yourself to others' highlight reels. 


    You'll want to listen in to hear my critical insights on overcoming the passive-aggressive man (PAM) problem. 


    To further add, I introduce a new perspective on how traditional male relationships and religious concepts can impact a man's ability to lead and operate within his masculinity. 


    Don't miss out on this game-changing conversation, and join me on the journey to becoming the best version of ourselves. 


    00:00 - Intro

    00:51 - Struggle And Challenge

    04:01 - The PAM Problem

    08:52 - A False Self

    12:50 - Learning How To Follow

    16:31 - Rebuilding

    18:52 - Outro


    #HighValueMan #Masculinity #SelfImprovement



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    20 min
  • The HVMC: Ep 35: The Path: The 4 Pillars To Becoming A High Value Man

    If you want a blueprint for becoming a High Value Man, grab a copy of my “5 Steps To Becoming A High Value Man” for free - https://erinalejandrino.com/


    The HVMC: ep 35: The Path: The 4 Pillars To Becoming A High Value Man


    Are you ready to become the best version of yourself? 


    Do you want to know the secret to leading a fulfilling life? 


    Then you must watch this episode of the High Value Man Conversation! 


    In this episode, I reveal the path to becoming a High Value Man – one who leads with impact, inspiration, and purpose. 


    This path is built on the 4 pillars.


    And I’ll share with you the principles and practices you need to master in these 4 pillars to unlock your true potential and live the life you're meant to live. 


    Watch this episode now and learn the 4 pillars of a High Value Man's life!


    #highvalueman #selfimprovement #fulfillment



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    31 min
  • The HVMC: Ep. 34: Mother's Perspective with Jean Turner

    The HVMC: Ep. 34: Mother's Perspective with Jean Turner

    Have you ever thought about the impact of growing up without a strong father figure and how it affected the woman who brought you into life?...

    Your mother.

    In the latest episode of The High Value Man Conversation, I interview a survivor, a woman who had to wear both hats of parenting, and most importantly…

    My mom.

    My mom shares her personal experience of putting her feminine in the backburner to be strong and resilient as a single mother raising me.

    She talks about the sacrifices she had to make and the impact they had on both of us.

    Join us as we share personal stories and experiences, and explore the importance of self-care and healthy boundaries in parenting.

    My Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thefitbeard/

    THEHVMC Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thehvmc/

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    00:00 - Intro

    00:58 - Who Is Jean Turner

    02:08 - The Passive Aggressive Man

    09:49 - Avoiding Responsibility

    13:20 - Put Selfcare First

    18:39 - Submission

    22:07 - Independence

    26:03 - Advice For Baby Boomers

    33:30 - A Life Of Freedom

    36:34 - Staying Youthful

    40:27 - Take Responsibility

    44:54 - A Man Of Value Is…

    48:04 - Recreate Yourself

    49:55 - Outro

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    52 min
  • The HVMC: Ep 33: Is Toxic Masculinity Real?

    If you want a blueprint for becoming a High Value Man, grab a copy of my “5 Steps To Becoming A High Value Man” for free - https://erinalejandrino.com/


    The HVMC: ep 33: Is Toxic Masculinity real?


    In this thought-provoking podcast episode, I dive into a topic that's been buzzing in recent years: toxic masculinity. 


    While there's a lot of talk about this issue, I will give you my non-BS thoughts on it. 


    I also discuss the importance of having a clear vision, living by core values, and consistently stacking victories to become your best version.


    Listen in as I challenge you to do the deep work, confront your pain, and turn it into purpose. It's time to transform and become the change you want to see in the world. 


    Join me in this conversation and take the first step towards becoming a High Value man.


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    THVMC Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thehvmc/


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    00:00 - Intro

    01:00 - Toxic Masculinity

    01:40 - What Is A Man?

    02:39 - What Is A Toxic Man?

    04:38 - Take Action

    05:52 - Face Your Fears

    09:08 - Begin With A Vision

    11:17 - Finding Your Voice

    13:57 - The Passive Aggressive Man

    15:25 - Outro


    #highvalueman #masculinity #toxicmasculinity


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    16 min
  • The HVMC: ep 32: The Narcissist Slayer — Guest Rebecca Zung
    The HVMC: ep 32: The Narcissist Slayer — Rebecca Zung


    If you want a blueprint for becoming a High Value Man, grab a copy of my “5 Steps To Becoming A High Value Man” for free - https://erinalejandrino.com/


    The HVMC: Ep 32: How to Deal with Narcissists And Win Your Life Back w/ Rebecca Zung


    Rebecca Zung: Narcissist Negotiation Expert, Attorney, Youtuber, Author, Speaker


    Welcome back to the High Value Man Conversation. In this special episode, we have a guest who is an expert in negotiating with narcissists. 


    Rebecca Zang is a US attorney and a negotiation expert with a YouTube channel with over 30 million views on slaying the narcissist. 


    She shares tips on recognizing when you are in a relationship with a narcissist, negotiating like a beast, and winning back your space. 


    She also discusses how to recognize if you might be a narcissist yourself.


    Tune in to this episode of The High Value Man Conversation and learn how to slay the narcissist!


    You can find out more about Rebecca down below…


    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/


    Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq


    Freebies for my listeners - https://disarmingthenarcissist.com/


    00:00 - Intro

    01:25 - Who Is Rebecca Zung

    04:35 - What Is Narcissism

    11:46 - Recognizing A Narcissist

    15:42 - Creating A Narcissist

    18:57 - Complex PTSD

    22:50 - Self Awareness

    24:57 - The Covert Narcissist

    30:11 - SLAY A Narcissist

    36:52 - Where To Find Rebecca Zung

    39:20 - Outro

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    40 min
  • The HVMC: Ep 31: Objective and Agenda… How to master your day as a high performer.

    Welcome to The High Value Man Conversation, the podcast where we help men unleash their full potential and live the life they've always wanted. 


    In this episode, we're going to talk about The Agenda vs The Objective.


    As men, we often feel like we need to complete everything on our to-do list to feel accomplished. But the truth is, completing everything on the agenda doesn't always mean you've achieved your objective… and more often than not many days you just don’t get it all done!


    Your objective is the intentionality behind the reason you're doing something, and it's the number one most important thing on the agenda.


    We know how frustrating it can be to feel like you're not living up to your full potential, and that's why we're going to break down the concept of The Agenda vs The Objective into three categories: the AM, the afternoon (WORK), and the PM.


    By separating your to-do list from your objective, you can show up as the best version of yourself in every moment of the day.


    Whether you want to connect with yourself in the morning, show up as a leader in the afternoon, or crush your goals in the evening, this episode will give you the tools you need to prioritize your objective and achieve your goals.


    Tune into this newest episode and join the High Value Man conversation.


    Out now on YouTube and all major streaming platforms 


    00:00 - Intro

    00:44 - Optimizing Your Life

    02:00 - The Agenda

    02:54 - The Objective

    04:42 - A Perfect Morning Routine

    06:54 - Be A Leader

    09:22 - Rest And Relax

    11:52 - Segmenting Your Day

    13:23 - Outro

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    15 min
  • The HVMC: Ep 30: Your Wife Sent Me A DM...

    You'll never believe what your wife sent me... and its not the first time. 

    MEN. WAKE THE F*** UP! What happened in the relationship? Going from desire and dedication to complete passivity inside of your love lives.

    Welcome to the latest episode, and our Valentine's Day Special where we're talking about how to SPARK that fire inside your relationship AND keep it going. 

    You started off strong,  pouring yourself into her, and dedicating yourself to discovering everything about each other, but now things feel flat, it's a chore, connecting feels like WORK. Today we're talking why, and how to move away from that dynamic.

    Do you know what happens when you stop leading your lady from the front? She wanders, wonders, and WANTS other things. As much as it pains me to say it, some men wait until divorce comes knocking on the door before realizing they have been completely Passive inside of their relationship for far too long, and by then it's too late.

    Tune into the newest episode of the High Value Man Conversation to learn HOW you should be leading your lady and WHAT you can be doing today! that will keep the fires burning inside of your love life.

    Out now on YouTube and all major streaming Platforms. 

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    00:00 - Intro

    01:25 - A DM From Your Wife

    02:45 - Putting In The Work

    07:04 - Two Becoming One

    08:52 - Getting Priorities Straight

    12:19 - Get Physical

    15:03 - Return To Day One

    16:47 - Outro

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    18 min
  • The HVMC: Ep 29: Navigating the Path to Purpose and Fulfillment w/ Bedros Keuilian

    The HVMC: Ep 29: Navigating the Path to Purpose and Fulfillment w/ Bedros Keuilian
    Bedros Keuilian: Father, Husband, Founder, Mentor, Coach, and Serial entrepreneur shares how men are a lot like German Shepards...

    Big Government and Mainstream Media have been manipulating and castrating men by convincing them that traits that make a man, a man, are bad. Bedros explains how this makes men weaker and easier to control, but with the right mentor, men can regain their strength and power.
    In today's world, young men are missing out on a crucial rite of passage that has been declining for years. This lack of masculinity is leaving a hollow feeling in many men, causing them to seek out figures like Andrew Peterson and Andrew Tate for guidance and direction.
    In this podcast episode, Bedros Keuilian delves into the importance of men challenging each other and setting standards in their relationships. The absence of these relationships is the leading cause of men turning to unhealthy vices, but with the help of a strong tribe of men, this can be prevented.

    Discover the four F-Bombs every man needs: Faith, Fitness, Family, and Finances, and learn how to find the right mentor who can guide you on your journey. Bedros also outlines the path to leading a life driven by your vocation, and shares three things you need to do first thing in the morning to be the best version of yourself.

    Tune into this newest episode and join the High Value Man conversation.
    Out now on YouTube and all major streaming platforms

     Where to find Bedros:
    Website
    : https://bedroskeuilian.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bedroskeuilian/?hl=en

    Listen ON:
    Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-high-value-man-conversation/id1634646660?i=1000590431185
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3V19SAMCes7NsaqkekHxyN?si=dyoGkJQfSPOFw0bTw_3sNQ

    Chapters: 

    • 00:00 Who is Bedros Keuilian?
    • 02:20 Looking for leadership
    • 04:35 Al Bundy Syndrome
    • 07:00 Things to look for in a mentor
    • 10:30 Vocation
    • 16:40 The Confidence/Competence loop
    • 20:30 Become the big elephant
    • 24:53 3 Levels of leadership
    • 26:00 Teaching others to think
    • 32:00 Being obedient to yourself
    • 33:30 The Project 2.0

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    38 min
  • The HVMC: Ep 28: Your Attitude Towards Dating with Emily Freeman

    The HVMC: Ep 28: Your Attitude Towards Dating with Emily Freeman
    Emily Freeman - a dating and relationship coach who specializes in helping men navigate the often-complicated world of dating. Together, they delve into the common struggles and obstacles that men face when it comes to finding love, and offer practical solutions for overcoming them. Emily emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and understanding one's own needs and desires, as a way to improve men's confidence and overall attitude towards dating.

    Tune into this newest episode and join the High Value Man conversation.
    Out now on YouTube and all major streaming platforms

    Listen ON:
    Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-high-value-man-conversation/id1634646660?i=1000590431185
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3V19SAMCes7NsaqkekHxyN?si=dyoGkJQfSPOFw0bTw_3sNQ

    Chapters:
    00:00 Who is Emily Freeman?
    05:30 Men Need Help
    09:07 Connecting with Ourselves
    18:26 Building More Worth
    23:20 Fear of Commitment
    31:21 Dating Advice
    34:36 Masculine + Feminine Polarity
    42:42 The Masculine + Love
    48:20 A Man of Value is?

    Connect with Emily Freeman:
    Website: https://www.emilyfreemancoaching.com
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/emilyfreemancoaching?igshid=MWI4MTIyMDE=
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/emilyfreemancoaching?mibextid=LQQJ4d

    Connect with Erin Alejandrino:
    WEBSITE | INSTAGRAM | YOUTUBE

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    50 min

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