The High Value Man Conversation

I’m sorry doesn’t cut it. If you are on your path to becoming a High Value Man you more than likely are also working on parts of the PAM problem. PAM can hurt peoples feelings, say or do something unconscious and be the cause of pain if he doesn’t change. 

But the truth of the matter is that we need PAIN to discover our PURPOSE.

Here’s the plan when you need to apologize. 

1. TAKE OWNERSHIP FOR WHAT YOU DID. 
2. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. 
3. ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR FEELINGS.
4. APOLOGIZE SINCERELY. 
5. TAKE ACTION. 

00:00 - Intro

01:10 - The Element Of Action

02:02 - Taking Ownership

03:22 - Taking Responsibility

05:17 - Acknowledge Their Feelings

06:49 - Apologize With Sincerity

07:42 - Taking Time To Reflect

09:54 - The High Value Conclusion

10:58 - Outro

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Former public school teacher shares his insights on masculinity and what it means to be a MAN today. Dennis is the founder and CEO of Building Men, a movement dedicated to helping men become the strongest versions of themselves – mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically.

This is an absolute MUST listen episode for any father out there committed to becoming a better man. 

The concept of Building Men started in 2005 when as a middle school assistant principal, Dennis recognized the struggles that the boys in his school were facing. The young men were experiencing disciplinary incidents, suspensions, truancy, failing grades, retention and classification into special education at an alarming level when compared to their female counterparts.

Dennis used his background in adolescent development, sociology and mental health to develop the framework for a social group to address what it meant to be a man in society. Now Dennis works with individuals, schools and organizations all over the country providing professional development, assembly programming, motivational speaking and life coaching.

Learn more about Dennis by visiting him on instagram @building.men and his website The Foundation - group coaching for young men - https://www.buildingmen.io/event

00:00 - Intro

00:55 - Building Men

06:08 - What Makes A Man

09:34 - No More Mr. Nice Guy

12:38 - Take A Look In The Mirror

18:38 - Create A Legacy

20:02 - Normalizing Vulnerability

24:25 - Turning Pain Into Growth

32:32 - Standing Together

36:22 - The 4 Questions

43:10 - The High Value Conclusion

43:30 - Outro

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PAM is the problem men! Passive Aggressive Man, Passive with his HOPES, DREAMS and DESIRES and AGGRESSIVE with his VICES. Nobody likes to be called a PAM but the truth is if you’re not LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE you are suffering from some form of PAM. 

Take Action!

PASSIVITY BREEDS CAPTIVITY!!! 

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Don’t be a GEEK with a TECHNIQUE. Stop the PUA game, the ONE photo NOT to have on your dating profile and how to play the LONG GAME to land your High Value Woman. 

This is a special episode for our single guys with Blaine Anderson, mens dating coach who has helped more than 1,000 clients learn to market themselves, create romantic chemistry, build confidence, and attract partners they're excited about.

She’s been featured on NYPost, Forbes, Vice i-D, Cosmo, and more! 

Learn more about Blaine at https://www.datingbyblaine.com/

Instagram, TikTok and YouTube @datingbyblaine

00:00 - Intro

00:24 - Blaine Anderson Dating Coach

03:19 - The Perfect Dating Profile

04:43 - Choosing Your Dating Profile Picture

05:53 - What Women Look For In Men

08:10 - The Do’s And Don’ts Of Online Dating

11:29 - Dating Advice For Passive Aggressive Men

13:30 - Grabbing A Woman’s Attention

15:56 - Get Comfortable Communicating

18:13 - Getting Out Of Your Comfort Zone

20:48 - Are Platonic Friendships Good?

27:08 - How To Stand Out

30:34 - Dating Compatibility Questions

33:58 - Books On Dating

35:49 - The Body Language Of Dating

37:03 - Keeping A Relationship Going

38:39 - Marketing Yourself

41:13 - The High Value Conclusion

42:44 - Outro

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On location at the 1st Phorm Compound in St. Louis with the former host of the #1 Business and Success Podcast The MFCEO and current host of REAL AF Mr. Andy Frisella shares his journey of faith, fitness, scaling a 9 figure + empire, the power of prayer and his perspective on what our biggest battle is right now and how YOU can BE THE MAN to make a difference. 

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As a HVM you build your value by taking on challenges, challenges are uncomfortable and the discomfort can be paralyzing… But not when you RELAX.

Here is a simple 5 STEP way to RELAX before your next big thing. 

Rest — 7-8 hours of sleep, deep AND REM, no Alcohol, no tv

Energy — Energy GROWS where FOCUS Goes / focus on HOW can I add value

Learn — Study the topic you are pursuing, PREPARATION is essential competence

Act Often — Take the momentum from one stretch and carry it forward into the next 

X — EXAMINE THE RESULTS, GET FEEDBACK 

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A High Value Man in the Making! 

A conversation on PAM, SIMP’ing behavior, the power of a compelling vision and how a 23 year old mastered the money game. 

Hear from Nick Verge copywriter, marketer and deep thinker on the topic becoming a man of meaning, making money and creating impact. 

Check out Nick Verge on Instagram and Substack @themanofmeaning 

00:00 - Intro

00:51 - Don’t Buy Your Way With Women

03:21 - Become A High Value Man

05:03 - Develop An Internal Vision

06:39 - Silence Is Golden

08:26 - Develop Meaning And Purpose

13:42 - Invest In The Future

15:18 - The Lone Wolf

20:22 - Start Solving The PAM Problem

32:04 - The Icing On The Cake

40:13 - Listen To Feedback

51:36 - A High Value Man In The Making

55:43 - The High Value Conclusion

56:36 - Outro

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Want to know what it takes to attract and KEEP a high value partner? 

In this episode we have our first guest, functional nutritionist, entrepreneur, fitness model, speaker and my lady Rachel Scheer. 

We’re talking about the FOUR steps to attract and keep your High Value Partner. 

Check her out at www.rachelscheer.com

Struggling with women, work and the world of men?
Learn how to break free and build your VALUE.

Check out www.thehvmc.com

00:00 - Intro

00:20 - The Passive Aggressive Man

01:26 - Attracting A High Value Person

02:31 - Be What You Want To Attract

05:19 - Create A List

08:34 - The Turn Offs

14:27 - How Much Work Have You Done

17:25 - Create Healthy Boundaries

27:07 - Core Values

36:39 - Swim In The Right Pond

41:04 - How To Stand Out

49:36 - Continue To Grow

53:24 - The High Value Conclusion

54:02 - Outro

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This is a FIRE episode. 

If you expect to have a 10 you can’t sedate and castrate yourself… 
If you expect to have the business and BODY of your dreams you can't be a limp, flaccid piece of flesh....

Master your urges and impulses and start RESPECTING yourself. 

Stop the PAM Problem by stopping the PORN Problem. 

Listen to this episode and let me know what you think… I share FOUR tools to BREAK FREE. 

00:00 - Intro

00:23 - A Major PAM Problem

01:36 - The Dirty Little Secret

02:24 - Respect Yourself

04:40 - Porns Affect On The Youth

06:46 - The Biggest Symptom Of Passivity

08:47 - Effects On The Relationship

09:58 - Master Yourself

11:53 - How To Break Free

13:27 - Wasting Life

15:12 - You’re Not Alone

17:03 - Clean The Space

17:56 - Outro

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Want to make more money? 
Want to meet a beautiful woman?
Want to create better relationships?

Here's how to earn your seat at the table EVERY F*CKING DAY. 

Great men surround themselves with GREAT men.

To sit at the table of GREATNESS you need to master these THREE Skills. 

Looking for a mentor? How to get your FOOT in the door? Create collaborative relationships with GREAT men? Don’t miss this episode. 

Plus I share the story of THE BOOT and how I put my best foot forward and got in with Bedros Keuilian, US Navy SEAL Ray "Cash" Care, US Marine Steve Eckert and US Swat Operator Matt Schneider. 

00:00 - Intro

01:11 – Earning Your Seat At The Table

03:11 - Salesmanship

05:10 - Believe In Yourself

06:15 - The White Belt Mindset

08:27 - Show Up With Enthusiasm

11:31 - 3 Skills Of Value For Men

12:01 - Deploying The 3 Skills

14:27 - Taking The Opportunity

17:35 - The MDK Project

18:29 - The 3 Skills Conclusion

19:46 - Outro

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