This week on The Idea Of…, Bassey and Mike explore what they’re calling “parental puberty”—that strange, emotional, confusing phase when your kids are almost adults but still deeply need guidance... and groceries.

From kettlebell-induced back pain to why Black boys laughing triggers white authority figures, this episode dives into how we’re raising our kids, what age-appropriate really means, and why both Black girls and boys are being rushed into adulthood by culture, media, and misguided grown folks.

We also touch on:

• How generational trauma shapes parenting styles

• Why parents feel guilty for giving boundaries

• The disappearing middle ground between childhood and adulthood

• Shoutouts to Wu-Tang, Tyler the Creator, and the teenage logic behind crop tops

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Conversation

02:32 Physical Challenges and Personal Growth

05:16 Listener Engagement and Community Connection

08:00 Cultural Commentary on Podcasting

10:36 The Evolution of Tyler, the Creator

13:08 Black Boyhood and Black Girlhood

15:41 The Pressure on Young Girls

18:20 Perceptions of Age and Youth

20:29 The Impact of Media on Youth

23:07 Navigating Age-Appropriate Content

29:13 Evolving Parenting Styles

35:19 Navigating the Transition to Independence

40:18 Understanding Teen Behavior and Communication

43:32 The Challenges of Trust and Responsibility

47:20 The Evolution of Hip Hop and Aging Artists