In this Thanksgiving-themed episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for an insightful, humorous, and culturally rich exploration of the holiday’s deeper meaning, pop culture impact, and evolving traditions. Kicking things off with context and vibes [00:00], they set the tone by unpacking what Thanksgiving represents today—beyond turkey, football, and family photos—for Black and Brown communities, touching on gratitude, identity, and the social expectations that come with the holiday.

The trio dives into the lesser-discussed origins of Thanksgiving [05:07], challenging myths from grade school narratives and exploring how history, colonialism, and Native American contributions are often overlooked in mainstream storytelling. This leads naturally into a lively breakdown of culinary traditions and family dynamics [09:51], from whose mac and cheese passes the test to the politics of potlucks, kitchen hierarchies, and the emotional weight food carries across generations.

By [15:05], the conversation shifts toward Thanksgiving and capitalism, unpacking how the holiday transformed into a marketing engine—from over-the-top grocery ads to seasonal branding and the economics behind the holiday dinner table. That sets up a global lens on Thanksgiving [19:56], examining how other countries interpret or remix the holiday—through diaspora traditions, Caribbean influence, and cultural adaptation.

As football enters the chat [25:02], Mandii, A-King, and Jayson explore the historical connection between the NFL and Thanksgiving, including how football became almost as essential to the holiday as stuffing and sweet potato pie. From there, they seamlessly pivot into the commercial aftermath—the birth of Black Friday [33:42], tracing its evolution from chaotic, door-busting retail mania to today’s online-driven, algorithm-powered consumer culture.

Conversation returns to food and nostalgia [39:20], where they compare Thanksgiving food preferences, from classic vs. experimental menus, and why certain dishes are sacred: no raisins in the potato salad, no shortcuts on sweet potato pie, and why fried turkey is a forever MVP. Things take a hilarious and philosophical turn at [48:43], when the group explores the ethics and absurdity of cloning pets—sparked by real-life celebrity stories and the rising cost of “designer grief.”

Finally, the episode closes on a reflective note [56:43], as they discuss gratitude, community, chosen family, and how Thanksgiving has evolved into a celebration far beyond its historical roots—emphasizing connection, culture, and conscious living in today’s world. 

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B sits down with comedian Jay Jurden for a dynamic and humorous deep dive into today’s most pressing cultural and political conversations. The episode opens with Mandii welcoming listeners and sharing updates from her week [00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion], setting a lighthearted yet inquisitive tone. She then introduces Jay, kicking off a conversation that’s equal parts sharp-witted and socially aware [00:54 Local Politics and the New Face of Leadership], as they unpack how new political voices are reshaping local communities and bringing authenticity back to leadership.

The discussion shifts as Jay reflects on his latest comedy special and how personal experience informs his work [02:05 Guest Introduction and Comedy Special Discussion], blending humor with honesty about identity, politics, and social responsibility. Mandii and Jay dive into the power of using comedy as both a coping mechanism and a form of activism [04:34 Comedy and Personal Experiences], offering listeners a behind-the-scenes look at how laughter can bridge uncomfortable conversations.

The energy picks up as the two tackle the realities of gentrification and community integration [09:19 Gentrification and Community Integration], particularly how cultural shifts transform neighborhoods and the tension between revitalization and displacement. From there, the duo unpacks the blurred line between flirting and harassment in politics [13:19 Politics and Flirting vs. Harassment], using recent stories from New York’s local political scene [16:27 New York Politics and Relatability] as examples of how power and perception influence public trust.

The conversation takes a more analytical turn as Mandii and Jay discuss the government shutdown and its ripple effects on working-class Americans [21:47 Government Shutdown and Its Impact], linking it to the larger issue of SNAP benefits and political responsibility [24:53 SNAP Benefits and Political Responsibility]. They emphasize how political decisions directly affect everyday lives, challenging listeners to think beyond party lines.

Transitioning to the digital age, the hosts dive into digital racism and AI representation [30:32 Digital Racism and AI Representation], dissecting how algorithms perpetuate bias and how emerging technologies, like AI-generated music, are reshaping creative industries. Jay shares his insights on navigating identity in a digital world where authenticity is often at odds with virality.

The tone lightens as they celebrate the vibrancy of The Bronx’s culture and community [37:33 Exploring The Bronx: Culture and Community], before taking a curious detour into “cruising” culture [38:21 Understanding Cruising: A Cultural Phenomenon], exploring its historical and social significance with humor and openness. The two then reflect on how comedy intersects with politics [40:57 Comedy and Politics: Navigating Sensitive Topics], particularly how comedians balance freedom of speech with accountability in an increasingly polarized society.

As the discussion unfolds, Mandii and Jay examine AI’s growing influence in music through the emergence of artists like Zaniyah [47:03 AI in Music: The Rise of Zaniyah], questioning what creativity means when technology starts to mimic human emotion. The dialogue seamlessly transitions into celebrity controversies [54:03 Celebrity Controversies: The Case of Nicki Minaj], where they analyze how fame, social media, and public opinion collide in shaping narratives around high-profile figures.

Finally, the episode winds down on a reflective and empowering note as Mandii shares her appreciation for dining alone [01:03:16 Dining Alone: Celebrating Solitude], turning the simple act into a metaphor for self-care, confidence, and independence. The conversation closes with heartfelt reflections on community and support [01:10:40 Closing Thoughts: Community and Support], reminding listeners that balance, boundaries, and self-awareness are key to thriving in both personal and social spaces. 

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In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B welcomes the “classmates” for a lively, interactive assembly, kicking off with a warm introduction and playful nod to community-driven conversation [00:00 Introduction to Selective Ignorance]. The episode quickly jumps into one of the most talked-about topics among women—traveling with friends—as Mandii and the group unpack the unspoken rules, expectations, and preparation involved in group trips, playfully coined the Black Girl Travel Checklist [00:58 Traveling with Friends: The Black Girl Travel Checklist].

From there, the classmates dive into moments of personal ignorance and growth, sharing candid stories that highlight how humor, vulnerability, and participation fuel real conversation [05:42 Ignorant Moments: Class Participation and Sharing]. The discussion shifts to the delicate balance between critique and disrespect in the entertainment industry, sparked by reactions to Denzel Washington’s latest film and the importance of giving honest feedback to even the most respected creatives [09:56 Critique in the Entertainment Industry: Denzel Washington's Latest Film].

This leads into a deeper exploration of the challenges of critiquing cultural icons like Beyoncé and J. Cole, and how fandom, loyalty, and cultural pressure often silence honest opinion [17:25 The Challenge of Critiquing Icons: Beyoncé and J. Cole]. Pop culture continues with a conversation about Ryan Murphy’s new show and Kim Kardashian’s acting performance, questioning talent, opportunity, and industry access [23:37 Ryan Murphy's New Show: Kim Kardashian's Acting Skills].

The group then debates movie date etiquette, unpacking expectations around the “perfect first date,” gender norms, and financial responsibility [29:21 Dating Etiquette: The Movie Date Debate]. The conversation takes an unexpected but fascinating turn into legal consequences of infidelity, discussing the rarely known law of Alienation of Affection—and whether someone can actually be sued for ruining a marriage [39:07 Suing for Infidelity: The Case of Alienation of Affection].

Mandii then pivots toward larger societal concerns, examining the crisis in healthcare education and how policy changes are reshaping student access, training quality, and future care [45:15 Healthcare Education Crisis: The Impact of Policy Changes], followed by a breakdown of Project 2025, exploring its political implications and potential impact on everyday Americans [48:41 Unpacking Project 2025].

Back in celebrity culture, the classmates analyze relationship accountability, diving into the blurred lines between privacy, morality, and public perception [51:26 Celebrity Relationships and Accountability], before exploring Usher’s legal battle involving friends, dissecting loyalty, business, and personal boundaries [59:04 Usher's Legal Battle with Friends].

The episode wraps with a spirited conversation on tipping culture, debating when tipping is appropriate, whether it's becoming an expectation versus a reward, and how service standards have evolved [01:16:58 Tipping Culture and Service Expectations]. 

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In this gripping episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B alongside super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez, opens with her signature energy, spotlighting current projects and inviting listeners into another layered and thought-provoking conversation [00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion]. She quickly shifts gears, venturing into the eerie and unsettling true crime stories emerging from Florida, examining how the state has become a breeding ground for some of the most bizarre and tragic narratives [00:55 Exploring Florida's Dark Side].

The discussion turns deeply investigative as Mandii dissects the Netflix documentary “The Perfect Neighbor,”unpacking the disturbing case, its psychological twists, and the broader themes of manipulation, gender, and societal blind spots [20:09 The Perfect Neighbor Documentary Discussion]. The true crime analysis continues with “Eileen: Queen of Serial Killers,” where Mandii explores the intersections of trauma, systemic neglect, and the blurred lines between victimhood and villainy [29:45 Eileen: Queen of Serial Killers Documentary Discussion].

Transitioning from crime to culture, Mandii examines the modern complexities of relationships, breaking down how societal expectations shape conversations around emotional vulnerability, gender roles, and attraction [41:25 Exploring Relationships: Women and Men Dynamics]. This leads into an honest dialogue on commitment, marriage, infidelity, and the realities people avoid discussing in relationships [47:25 The Complexity of Commitment: Marriage and Infidelity].

From there, she unpacks how financial independence and shifting gender roles have transformed modern relationship dynamics, particularly how women’s autonomy is reshaping expectations in love, dating, and partnerships [51:23 The Shift in Independence: Women and Financial Expectations].

The episode dives into a surprising but insightful discussion about the role of gaming and the rise of digital intimacy, exploring relationships in the era of virtual connection, online communities, and the emerging “metaverse of dating” [55:49 Gaming and Relationships: The New Metaverse of Dating].

Mandii then reacts to various celebrity opinions on music, dating standards, and relationship expectations, analyzing how high-profile commentary influences public perception and romantic ideals [01:00:16 Celebrity Opinions: Music and Relationship Standards]. Finally, she closes the episode with a reflective conversation on navigating past relationships, emotional growth, and choosing partners with future alignment, offering thoughtful insight into modern love [01:09:13 Navigating Modern Dating: Past Relationships and Future Prospects].

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In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with a candid breakdown of how the recent government shutdown has thrown travel into chaos—from delayed flights to system failures—setting the stage for a conversation rooted in both humor and frustration [00:00 Government Shutdown and Travel Chaos]. She shares her own travel nightmare, using the experience to highlight how political decisions trickle down to everyday inconveniences, especially for frequent travelers.

The episode transitions into the delicate territory of weight gain in relationships, where Mandii discusses how partners often struggle with honesty, sensitivity, and boundaries when broaching the topic [18:29 Navigating Weight Conversations in Relationships]. She unpacks the emotional complexity behind body changes, emphasizing communication over criticism and the importance of approaching loved ones with empathy rather than judgment.

As the conversation deepens, Mandii explores family dynamics during the holidays, especially for queer individuals navigating acceptance, identity, and the pressure of returning home to families who may not fully understand or respect their experiences [29:14 Family Dynamics and Queer Identity During Holidays]. She reflects on the emotional labor that marginalized people often carry during these gatherings and encourages listeners to honor their own comfort and boundaries.

The episode concludes with a thoughtful discussion on microaggressions and diversity in the workplace, where Mandii breaks down the subtle biases that marginalized employees encounter and how companies frequently fall short in fostering truly inclusive environments [36:40 Microaggressions and Workplace Diversity Issues]. She stresses the need for accountability, open dialogue, and intentional change—both in corporate culture and in personal interactions. 

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In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens up with a candid reflection on her week and life updates [00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates], setting the tone for an intimate and thought-provoking conversation. This episode blends personal storytelling, listener engagement, and cultural critique, all wrapped in Mandii’s signature humor and honesty.

The discussion kicks off with political awareness and selective ignorance [08:18 Politics and Selective Ignorance], where Mandii unpacks the challenges of engaging in political discussions in today’s hyper-polarized climate. She explores how people often choose comfort over confrontation, avoiding difficult topics to protect their peace — a concept she labels “selective ignorance.” Mandii emphasizes the balance between staying informed and maintaining emotional boundaries, particularly for those constantly exposed to online debates and misinformation.

From there, the episode transitions into a nuanced discussion on cultural sensitivity and accents [16:04 Cultural Sensitivity and Accents], where Mandii reflects on the ways language, dialect, and tone shape perception in professional and social spaces. She highlights how accents can trigger bias — consciously or unconsciously — and challenges listeners to reconsider the assumptions they make about intelligence, professionalism, or background based on how someone speaks.

Next, the conversation moves into an honest exploration of financial struggles and budgeting [20:23 Financial Struggles and Budgeting]. Mandii shares personal anecdotes about learning to manage money while balancing independence, lifestyle, and unexpected life costs. She breaks down the emotional side of financial growth — from guilt and comparison to empowerment — and reminds listeners that everyone’s money journey looks different. The dialogue resonates with anyone navigating the pressures of financial literacy and self-sufficiency in adulthood.

The tone becomes more introspective as Mandii tackles racial profiling and validating experiences [30:57 Racial Profiling and Validating Experiences], recounting personal and listener-submitted stories about bias and discrimination. She reflects on the emotional toll of constantly having to justify one’s experiences, while also calling for empathy and active listening across communities. This segment invites listeners to acknowledge the intersection between awareness and accountability — and the courage it takes to confront uncomfortable truths.

The episode concludes with closing thoughts and announcements [36:22 Closing Thoughts and Announcements], as Mandii encourages her audience to reflect on their own perspectives and the role “selective ignorance” plays in their daily lives. She emphasizes the importance of balance — staying informed without being overwhelmed — and maintaining humanity in a world that often rewards outrage over understanding.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, alongside super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez, dives into a timely and layered conversation about the fine line between critiquing and hating — and how that distinction shapes modern culture, creativity, and discourse. The episode opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], followed by a warm welcome to Selective Ignorance [00:38] that sets the stage for an engaging and introspective discussion on the culture of critique and haters [00:57].

Mandii, A-King, and Jayson unpack the difference between constructive feedback and negativity, especially within the entertainment industry. Their conversation transitions into a broader dialogue on Black art and criticism [02:35], where they examine how cultural expression often faces unfair scrutiny compared to mainstream counterparts. The tone remains conversational yet insightful as they introduce the super producer [03:37] — with A-King adding a behind-the-scenes lens to the discussion — before diving into language learning and cultural references [04:16], exploring how global influences shape both art and perception.

The hosts briefly pivot to Bad Bunny’s political commentary [06:16], discussing how artists use their platforms for activism and the public’s polarizing reactions to it. The energy stays dynamic as Mandii shares career updates and her new radio show [09:11], giving listeners a peek into her professional growth and reflections on navigating media spaces. This leads naturally into a deeper conversation about the music industry [16:24], the blurred lines between artistry and business, and the constant evolution of creative identity.

As the dialogue progresses, the hosts examine the power of social media and public perception [21:35], analyzing how online platforms amplify both critique and hate. They consider the challenges artists face when every opinion becomes public property and every misstep a trending topic. The group transitions to expectations and criticism in art [28:23], exploring how audience bias, nostalgia, and personal preference influence what’s celebrated and what’s condemned.

The conversation takes a cinematic turn as Mandii, A-King, and Jayson begin diving into film critiques [40:43], starting with Marlon Wayans’ film Him [41:39]. Mandii praises the project for its symbolism and layered themes [42:23], describing how it thoughtfully examines identity, faith, and self-reflection. The discussion briefly detours into football culture and American society [43:53], drawing parallels between competitive spirit in sports and the cutthroat nature of creative industries.

Next, the team tackles critiquing the critics [46:27], reflecting on how discourse itself can become toxic — especially when audiences conflate differing opinions with hate. This meta moment sets up their review of Spike Lee and Denzel Washington’s ‘Highest to Lowest’ [52:49], where Mandii delivers an unfiltered yet thoughtful analysis of the film’s creative shortcomings and emotional intent. They analyze ‘Highest to Lowest’ in depth [56:15], exploring how execution, storytelling, and audience expectations intersect in shaping reception.

As the discussion unfolds, they reflect on the art of critique and audience reactions [01:01:57], questioning whether social media has made honest conversation about art nearly impossible without backlash. The hosts then share their favorite films and personal preferences [01:13:43], grounding the discussion in a shared appreciation for storytelling and diverse perspectives. The episode wraps with final thoughts and an outro [01:19:17], where the trio emphasizes the value of open-mindedness, empathy, and balance when engaging with art — reminding listeners that critique, when done with care, is an act of love, not hate.

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In this episode, Mandii B and @HeyAssante discuss a variety of topics including Halloween plans, celebrity gossip, cultural discussions around the term 'ghetto'; the recent monkey outbreak, the implications of the government shutdown on EBT benefits, and the impact of AI on jobs. They
also share their experiences at the One Music Fest, highlighting performances and the
significance of the event. In this episode, the hosts review their experiences at a recent music
festival, discussing various performances, artist interactions, and personal reflections on the
event. They highlight standout moments from artists like Rashida, Busta Rhymes, and Jazmine
Sullivan, while also addressing the challenges of festival logistics and crowd engagement. The
conversation delves into the emotional impact of performances and the significance of artist
legacies, culminating in a wrap-up of their overall festival experience and thoughts on future events.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for a vibrant, unfiltered conversation that spans pop culture, politics, personal growth, and the beauty of life’s everyday moments. The episode opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], setting the tone for a thought-provoking and entertaining discussion that seamlessly blends humor, insight, and cultural critique.

The hosts kick off with current events and cultural commentary [00:51], diving into the latest headlines shaping society — from celebrity antics to political hot takes. Their witty banter and sharp analysis keep the energy high as they connect seemingly small pop culture moments to larger societal trends. The conversation naturally transitions into personal reflections and life’s joys [02:52], where Mandii, A-King, and Jayson share intimate stories about finding gratitude and balance amidst chaos. They remind listeners of the value in celebrating the simple things — from shared laughter to moments of stillness — that often get lost in the pursuit of success.

The dialogue deepens as they examine the concept of the “ride or die” mentality in relationships [05:57], unpacking how loyalty, love, and sacrifice are often romanticized at the expense of self-worth. Through personal anecdotes and cultural references, the trio explores how this mentality impacts both men and women, ultimately asking whether unconditional loyalty still has a place in modern relationships.

Moving into political commentary and social issues [12:13], the hosts tackle current events with their trademark candor, discussing how systemic challenges and shifting political landscapes influence everyday people. They then speculate on upcoming events and performances [23:51], weighing in on what fans can expect from major stages like award shows and festivals while reflecting on how performance culture mirrors broader societal values.

The conversation takes a sharp turn as they explore the price of fame and acceptance [35:52], dissecting how public figures often struggle with maintaining authenticity while catering to fan expectations. This leads into a fiery discussion on Don Lemon’s controversial statements [36:51], where the trio breaks down his remarks on race and gun ownership, examining how media narratives continue to shape — and sometimes distort — conversations about identity and justice.

From there, the group delves into the nuances of race and identity [40:08], tracing how personal background, privilege, and perception intersect in defining who we are. They expand this reflection with a conversation on immigration and belonging [43:31], acknowledging the shared struggles and cultural hybridity that form the American experience. As they explore the melting pot of American history [45:25], the hosts challenge listeners to consider how the nation’s diversity can both unite and divide, depending on perspective and power dynamics.

Shifting to a more personal lens, Mandii and her co-hosts unpack the politics of gift giving and relationships [48:35], discussing how material gestures often serve as reflections of love, validation, or obligation. The episode culminates in an honest and heartfelt discussion about navigating family dynamics and acceptance [01:03:25], where the hosts address the emotional complexities of being seen and understood — especially in families confronting issues of identity, tradition, and change.

Throughout the episode, Mandii B, A-King, and Jayson Rodriguez offer a rare balance of humor, honesty, and intellect, creating a conversation that feels both deeply personal and universally resonant. Their insights invite listeners to examine their own relationships, beliefs, and roles in shaping a more open, compassionate society.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B sits down with culture critic Barry Neal for a dynamic, unfiltered conversation that dives deep into the intersections of culture, controversy, and community. The episode opens with an introduction and guest welcome [00:00], setting the tone for a thought-provoking discussion that blends humor, honesty, and critical insight into the realities of modern media and identity.

The conversation kicks off with a cultural commentary on the Joe Budden podcast incident involving Marc Lamont Hill [01:28], where Mandii and Barry unpack the viral controversy and what it reveals about accountability, ego, and the performative nature of online discourse. They examine how the situation underscores deeper tensions within the Black podcasting space, where authenticity often collides with influence and public perception.

From there, the dialogue explores the role of conflict in podcasting [15:07], dissecting how debates, disagreements, and drama drive engagement but can also distort meaningful dialogue. Mandii and Barry reflect on the fine line between using controversy as content and maintaining integrity as creators in a rapidly evolving digital landscape.

The episode transitions into a sharp examination of classism and intellectualism within Black culture [20:22], as the hosts question who gets to represent the community in public spaces. They discuss the tension between academic voices and street perspectives, emphasizing the need for both authenticity and nuance in shaping cultural narratives. This leads naturally into a broader discussion on the complexity of Black identity and representation [38:56], where Mandii and Barry reflect on the pressures of visibility, code-switching, and how mainstream success can sometimes come at the cost of cultural authenticity.

As the conversation shifts gears, they spotlight the rise of Kevin McCall [41:18], exploring his talent, public struggles, and complicated journey in the music industry. This segues into a detailed breakdown of Chris Brown’s enduring impact and performance legacy [50:34], as the hosts analyze how fame, redemption, and public opinion intertwine in the lives of artists who’ve faced both acclaim and controversy.

In one of the most introspective portions of the episode, Mandii and Barry address burnt bridges and unforgivable actions [01:01:52], discussing how personal accountability and growth play out in both public and private life. The conversation deepens as they explore navigating relationships and choices [01:12:10], tackling sensitive topics like forgiveness, boundaries, and the emotional toll of living under constant scrutiny.

The episode concludes with closing thoughts and a look ahead to future conversations [01:18:09], where Mandii and Barry encourage listeners to embrace nuance, challenge assumptions, and remain open to growth — even when faced with uncomfortable truths.

This installment of Selective Ignorance masterfully balances cultural critique with personal reflection, offering listeners a space to think critically about identity, fame, and integrity in today’s hyper-connected world.

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