Is marriage still the goal—or has the goal changed?

In this thought-provoking episode of Selective Igonorance, Mandii B sits down with seasoned dating and relationship coach Alison (Align With Alison) to unpack how modern views on marriage are shifting, especially for successful women. Kicking things off at [00:00 – The Evolution of Marriage], they explore the roots of the institution and how its purpose has transformed over time. By [03:15 – Challenging Traditional Views on Marriage], the conversation starts pushing back on long-held beliefs, asking if tying the knot still holds the same weight in today’s world. As the discussion deepens, they reflect on [07:41 – The Value of Commitment in Relationships], highlighting what it really means to choose someone—and how that commitment can show up in different ways. At [10:20 – Vetting Partners: The Key to Successful Relationships], the guest breaks down why being intentional about who you allow into your life is crucial. That leads to a candid look at [13:58 – Understanding the Risks of Marriage] and the realities people often overlook when love and legal contracts mix. They don’t stop there. By [20:34 – Preparing for the Reality of Relationships], they’re talking about the emotional, financial, and personal groundwork that needs to happen before anyone says “I do.” That naturally flows into [24:52 – Navigating Business Relationships and Personal Vetting], where they touch on how similar principles apply in both love and entrepreneurship. The conversation returns to romantic partnerships at [28:40 – Understanding Risks in Relationships and Marriage], and then zooms in on actionable steps during [30:36 – Financial Protection for Successful Women], where they break down how to be smart and secure without guilt or shame. At [32:24 – Societal Pressures on Women Regarding Marriage and Motherhood], the discussion turns personal, unpacking the weight women carry to “have it all” and what happens when they choose a different path. By [36:03 – Setting Boundaries and Defining Personal Value], they offer empowering advice on how to stand firm in your worth—no ring required. And finally, at [40:30 – Redefining Lasting Love Beyond Traditional Norms], they close the loop by asking: What does lasting love really look like when you write the rules yourself? Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode invites you to think beyond tradition—and lean into what’s true for you.

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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and special guests Kazeem Famuyide (7pm In Brooklyn) and Kevin Clancey (Barstool Sports) take a deep dive into the layers of race, personal branding, and economics shaping the world of sports, with a spotlight on the WNBA and the rivalry between Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese. The conversation kicks off with The Problematic Nature of Race in Sports (00:00) before debating who truly represents the league’s future (01:57). As we compare Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese (05:06), we examine how race and public perception influence their careers and media narratives. Beyond the rivalry, we explore The Economic Landscape of Women's Basketball (10:08) and how personal branding plays a crucial role in an athlete’s success (11:31). The discussion expands to the broader impact of Race and Gender in Sports Narratives (16:19)—who gets to be the hero, and who is cast as the villain (20:19)? Shifting gears, we talk about the art of the game, from The Aesthetic Appeal of Athletic Performance (23:31) to the Ball family’s undeniable influence on modern basketball (28:03). We also break down The Rise of Caitlin Clark (30:13) and the ever-present scrutiny of Controversial Athlete Behavior (31:34). The episode takes an unexpected yet hilarious turn into everyday struggles, including Airport Etiquette and Travel Experiences (36:10)—because let’s be real, navigating TSA is a sport in itself. But we bring it back to the serious stuff, unpacking Accountability in Sports (46:26) and the role race plays in how we judge winners and losers (55:20). From the power of celebrity influence to the moral dilemmas of sports fandom, this episode pulls no punches. Tap in!


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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B and co joined by special guest Raqi Thunda (NYT Times Best Seller, Armed With Good Intentions), dive into the realities of navigating corporate dynamics (03:09), particularly for women in media. They unpack the challenges of imposter syndrome and insecurities (09:05), the weight of entitlement in corporate settings (11:56), and the ever-evolving impact of social media on careers (05:59). As the conversation unfolds, they discuss the balancing act between family planning and career timing (18:03) and how corporate culture shapes employee expectations (20:50), often placing women under unique pressures. They reflect on their own experiences transitioning from corporate life to entrepreneurship (27:01), sharing the lessons learned along the way. The discussion takes a personal turn as they explore navigating grief while running a business (30:26) and the often-overlooked human element in the entertainment industry (33:18). They also examine the evolving discourse around women in media (39:54), the role of ego in creative partnerships (46:02), and how to maintain integrity in an industry that frequently prioritizes profit over people. Wrapping up, the hosts offer final reflections on corporate culture and personal integrity (57:11), leaving listeners with thought-provoking insights on career growth, resilience, and staying true to oneself. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. 

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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and the crew joined by special guests Passport Cutty (The M In Man Is For Money), Mouse Jones (Dead Ass Comedy Show, Trap Karoke) and Ish (That Ish, The Joe Budden Podcast) tackle the idea of defining patriarchy and its impact (00:00), exploring how it shapes gender roles, relationships, and societal norms. We dive into the emotional and financial dynamics in relationships (03:01), discussing how power, expectations, and personal responsibility play a role. From there, we examine gender roles and expectations (05:54), questioning traditional ideals and whether they still hold value today. The discussion heats up with the debate on dismantling patriarchy (08:58), weighing arguments for and against keeping this system in place. We then explore the role of women in upholding patriarchy (11:46), looking at how societal conditioning influences participation in these structures. The conversation shifts to the intersection of money and relationships (15:06), highlighting financial dynamics and their effect on power balances. As we move forward, we unpack cultural shifts and relationship dynamics (17:53), considering how evolving values impact dating and long-term commitments. We also address the physical component of protection (21:09), questioning traditional expectations of men as protectors. Then, we take a deep dive into navigating modern dating and expectations (23:54), exploring how shifting gender roles influence today’s dating scene. Next, we analyze the influence of societal norms on relationships (27:00), exposing the pressures that shape romantic partnerships. We then take a step back to examine the historical context of marriage and relationships (30:01), understanding how past traditions still affect modern unions. Looking ahead, we question the future of gender roles and relationships (33:13), imagining where we might be headed. The conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss the impact of welfare on family dynamics (41:12), exploring how social programs have shaped family structures. We also call out hypocrisy in gender expectations (44:23), addressing the double standards in societal roles. Money remains a key topic as we break down navigating financial dynamics in relationships (51:23), discussing fairness and accountability. Finally, we confront the reality of marriage and relationship expectations (01:00:51), going beyond romanticized ideals to talk about the real challenges couples face. This leads into a personal reflection on dismantling patriarchy (01:09:01), exploring what it means to break free from traditional structures. The conversation closes with concluding thoughts on fairness and relationships (01:18:42), emphasizing the importance of balance, equity, and mutual understanding in partnerships. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. 

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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and co. welcome special guests Mero (7PM In Brooklyn with Carmelo Anthony, Victory Light Podcast), Lizbell Ortiz, and Rainey Ovalle (Victory Light Podcast) for an open, honest, and thoughtful conversation about body image, fat shaming, and the pressures of society’s expectations around weight. The discussion kicks off with an exploration of fat shaming and body image (02:49), followed by a debate on whether there’s ever a “right” to fat shame (06:02). The guests break down celebrity weight loss and public perception (09:03), touching on Lizzo’s influence in the body positivity movement (12:01) and how society shapes body image standards (14:53). The conversation takes a deeper dive into the differences in weight and acceptance between men and women (18:08), as well as personal stories of weight loss journeys (20:58). They also address the hypocrisy in body image discussions (23:53) and how individuals navigate body image in the public eye (30:55). Shifting gears, they discuss fashion’s relationship with body types and self-expression (34:52) and the role of comedy in body shaming (39:05), questioning where the line is between humor and harm. The conversation continues with a discussion on accountability in comedy and offense (46:04) and the contradictions found in personal preferences and attraction (50:17). Closing out, they underscore the power of self-love and body acceptance (56:05) while acknowledging the challenges of staying true to oneself amid societal pressures. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. 

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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes a deep dive into accountability and justice within the Black community and the criminal justice system. Joined by special guests Selena Hill (Black Enterprise) and criminal defense attorney Kenneth J. Montgomery, the conversation unpacks sentencing disparities, performative activism, and the role of education and community in addressing crime.The discussion begins with (00:00) a call for accountability in the Black community before examining (02:45) disparities in the justice system. Selena and KJM explore (06:08) crime and punishment, questioning fairness and consequences, and discuss the balance between community responsibility and individual accountability (09:03). They also examine (11:54) the role of Black Lives Matter, (14:49) how sensational cases shape public perception, and the impact of white-collar crimes (18:03). As the conversation continues, they address (20:57) whether justice is truly fair, (23:51) the tension between empathy and accountability, and (27:13) the bigger picture of crime’s effect on the community. The episode also highlights (32:46) economic struggles and cooperative economics, (34:34) flaws in the criminal justice system, and (37:16) how redemption plays into accountability. Closing out, the guests discuss (41:42) how celebrity culture influences violence, (50:41) the challenges of defending the innocent in a flawed system, and (54:49) the importance of community education and accountability. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. 

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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B with special guest and fellow podcaster Rory Farrell dive into the ongoing debate of separating art from the artist (00:00), tackling the hypocrisy in music and how controversial figures are celebrated (02:50). Mandii B and Rory Farrell break down the influence of social media on artist perception (09:01), the power of redemption (11:52), and the double-edged sword of fame (18:03). They explore cancel culture and the nuances of accountability (20:59), the responsibility of platforms (35:29), and the evolving standards in hip-hop (50:12). From the legacy of R. Kelly (42:33) to the blurred lines between art and reality (01:02:21), this conversation unpacks the cultural shifts shaping the music industry today. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.

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Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance Podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public’s beliefs by unpacking trending topics with educational comedy and quick wit hot takes. 

Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.

Mandi B, joined by special guest Antoinette from the Around The Way Curls podcast, take a deep dive into capitalism, corporate culture, and the challenges of conscious consumerism. They kick things off by examining the tug-of-war between personal values and consumer choices (2:54) before breaking down the real impact of boycotts and collective action (6:13). The conversation explores the tension between individual responsibility and community welfare (9:02), the influence of wealth and power in shaping society (11:50), and the challenges of aligning personal values with everyday spending habits (15:08).They also share personal experiences navigating consumerism (20:47), discuss the importance of community support (23:56), and reflect on class dynamics and service (26:59). The episode dives into workplace inequities (34:22), how capitalism intersects with identity (35:21), and the harsh realities of “survival of the fittest” in a system built on profit (36:48). As the conversation deepens, they explore the burden of caring—balancing personal responsibility with collective change (39:08), the nuance of organizing and activism (46:22), and the resilience of communities in the face of economic exploitation (52:29). They close with a vision for freedom rooted in community (57:09) and a reflection on class struggles and the need for empathy (1:02:34). Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. 

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On this debut episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B reflects on her recent move to Atlanta, the end of a partnership in podcasting and her new solo venture, 'Selective Ignorance’ (1:00). Mandii discusses the importance of success, freedom, and the power of discourse (4:24), while also addressing criticism and the realities of the podcasting industry (6:19). The episode highlights the significance of community support, particularly for black businesses. Mandi also shares a wild and funny story about her transition from New York City to Atlanta (33:37), the challenges faced during the furniture delivery process, the cultural dynamics at play with the moving company (40:43) and the expectations of service within the black community (54:49). The discussion evolves into a broader critique of black businesses and the need for accountability and more. Tune in and comment in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. 

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