It’s time to look back… and immediately ask ourselves, “Wait—who said that?!”
In Part 1 of this two-part recap episode, Kiki and Medinah revisit some of the wildest, funniest, most unhinged moments from 2025 (with a few older classics sprinkled in), reacting to past clips in real time and reliving everything from comedian guests and dating rants to weird sex stories, hair debates, pop culture takes, and those signature CockTales side quests that somehow always lead back to food.

This episode is pure commentary chaos:
– Comedians we loved (and clips that still hold up… mostly)
– Dating opinions that aged interestingly
– Hair, weaves, man-weaves, and why honesty matters
– Weird sex facts that somehow turn into social commentary
– Pop culture deep dives (yes, including Game of Thrones)
– Rants that start one place and end somewhere completely different

Think of this as a highlight reel with commentary, context, and a little “wow… we really said that” energy. And don’t worry — this is just Part 1. There’s plenty more where this came from.
🎧 Listen, laugh, argue with us in your head, and let us know in the comments which clips took you OUT.

🍸 Today’s Cocktail: The Velvet Revolution

Smooth, cozy, and perfect for a recap episode.
Ingredients
1.5 oz Baileys
1 oz vanilla vodka or dark rum
1 oz cold brew coffee or espresso (optional, but highly encouraged)
Ice
Nutmeg or cinnamon (for garnish)

How to Make It
Add Baileys, vodka or rum, and cold brew to a shaker filled with ice.
Shake well until chilled and silky.
Strain into a coupe or rocks glass.
Sprinkle nutmeg or cinnamon on top and enjoy.

Cheers to closing out 2025 and easing into 2026 — raspy voices, hot takes, and all. 🥂

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In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether.

From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive feedback, and why avoidance often feels easier than vulnerability.

The episode also explores relationship expectations, emotional maturity, and a listener write-in that sparks a real conversation about compatibility, communication, and knowing when something just isn’t aligned. Along the way, Kiki reflects on personal growth, past embarrassment, family dynamics, and learning how to pause before reacting, especially when emotions are high.

This is a funny, honest, and thought-provoking episode about growth, self-awareness, and learning how to communicate without tearing people down — or disappearing when things get uncomfortable.

If you’ve ever struggled with telling the truth, hearing the truth, or figuring out how to say the hard thing without hurting someone, this episode is for you.

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This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.”

We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere)
• Why communication is not “being nosy”
• New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes
• Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats
• Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories & deconstructed pies
• What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional

🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL
2 oz vodka
1 oz fresh lemon juice
0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup
Splash of cranberry juice
2–3 cucumber slices
Club soda to top
Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist

How to make it:

Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them!

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We’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales.

🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) Recipe
Ingredients:

• 1–2 oz vanilla vodka
  
  
• 1 oz eggnog
  
  
• 1.5 oz cold brew or espresso
  
  
• 0.5 oz simple syrup (optional if you like it sweeter)
  
  
• Dash of cinnamon or nutmeg
  
  
• Ice
  
  

Instructions:
Add everything to a shaker with ice. Shake hard until frothy, strain into a martini glass, and top with cinnamon or nutmeg. Sip slowly… because clearly, this drink has consequences.

Once the cocktails hit, we dive into:

✨ Holiday traditions and why cheesy Lifetime movies still eat every time
✨ All Her Fault theories, plot twists, and why Kiki is ready to write and direct
✨ Medina’s acting dreams and the monologue she’s already prepared
✨ Theme night prep: Dirty Disney, North Pole After Dark, In Living Color, and Strip Club Night
✨ Plane farts, airplane germs, and why those blankets are not your friends
✨ A full-on stomach betrayal that led to a Ziploc bag, a frantic phone call, and an emergency Chick-fil-A pit stop

We also get into supporting partners with mental health struggles, TikTok conspiracy holes, dog-nap nightmares, Carry-On Only delusion, and why sometimes you just have to end the whole day and start over.

This episode has holiday chaos, movie talk, outfit planning, questionable decisions, and a very public emergency that will absolutely have you hollering.Grab a Naughty Nog and press play — we warned you.


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In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone.

We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend when someone in your circle goes through trauma. Lindsay also spills on playing the unhinged Leslie on “The Team”, the joy of being a villain, and what’s next for her production company, LA Elite Productions, including her upcoming films “Girls Night,” “The Perfect Proposal,” and “Curious.”

And because every episode needs something in the glass, today’s drink is the Prego-Rita — a citrusy mocktail with a sparkling-wine upgrade for the girls who aren’t pregnant.

🍹 Today’s Cocktail: The Prego-Rita (Mocktail + Cocktail) Base:

• 2 oz fresh lime juice or alcohol-free margarita mix
• 1 oz fresh orange juice
• 1 oz agave syrup
• Club soda to top
• Optional: salt/Tajín rim + jalapeño slices

Cocktail Add-On:

• 2 oz sparkling wine

Directions:
Shake lime, orange, and agave over ice. Pour into a rimmed glass over fresh ice.
Mocktail: top with club soda.
Cocktail: add sparkling wine, then top with club soda.
Garnish with jalapeño for a spicy kick.

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Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales.

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We are back in the studio with Cocktales Chardonnay in our glasses and a lot on our hearts.
This week Kiki and Medinah catch you up on everything from Hedonism in Jamaica after Hurricane Melissa to one of the wildest Weird Sex stories we have had in a minute. Kiki shares how the resort staff has been impacted, why she is turning her suitcase into a donation bin, and how you can help if you feel called to give. Medinah talks about Paradise & Vibe’s Traveler’s Resort family, the fundraiser in Jamaica and why natural disasters hit different when you know the people affected.

We also get into robot taxis glitching in Atlanta, Kiki’s fever app mock trial experience where the audience decides who is guilty in an AI car accident, and Medinah’s grown woman announcements, including her holiday tablescaping class with her interior designer and a full wellness retreat in Istanbul, Turkey.

A listener writes in about an ER trauma case where a woman comes in after being hit by a car, gets scanned head to toe, and the entire team discovers a plug sitting pretty on the CT. From toys to MRIs and lying about metal in your body, we take it there.

Then the episode takes a tender turn. Medinah opens up about putting her dog Shai down, what led up to that heartbreaking vet visit, the costs, the process and the grief of coming home to an empty hallway, a leash in the car and a quiet house after more than a decade with her best friend. She reflects on a long season of letting go, trusting God, and learning healthier coping mechanisms than she had when she first got Chi.

Kiki shares her own life updates too, including a Leo and Teyana Taylor film premiere, more thoughts on AI car trials, using the Fever app to find things to do, and why Atlanta actually has plenty of food and fun if you stop following only the “lit” IG spots. The ladies swap date recommendations like Midtown Social’s R&B Bingo, Cirque du Soleil, museums, sushi classes and even ballroom dancing.

They close with some real talk about how podcasts and creator work are actually funded, why your subscription, reviews and shares really matter, and how you can support CockTales without going broke in this economy. Plus, Medinah invites listeners to join her for a Meals on Wheels Atlanta volunteer day and reminds anyone struggling that there are resources and community waiting.

If you have ever loved a pet like a family member, felt stuck in grief, or just needed a reminder that you can cry and still get cute for a date and a concert, this episode is for you.

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Pour up some champagne and join Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe for a deep, funny, and heartfelt episode featuring K. Micole—celebrity stylist turned image architect and author.
They unpack everything from healing and co-parenting to how your image reflects your inner world. K. Micole gets real about building confidence, balancing motherhood and purpose, and learning to forgive yourself without losing your shine.

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00:00:29 - Discussion on Seasonal Depression
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00:04:46 - Discussion on Personal Styling
00:17:06 - Product Promotion
00:19:31 - Continuation of Parenting and Relationships Discussion
00:41:16 - Discussion on Self-awareness and Personal Growth
00:45:01 - Discussion on Overcoming Adversity
00:56:13 - Discussion on the Power of Prayer
01:02:14 - Discussion on Authenticity
01:06:10 - Listener's Letter and Advice
01:17:28 - Discussion on Friendships and Self-reflection

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Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 - Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 - Host Catch-Up00:05:22 - Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 - Game Time00:20:09 - Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 - The Dog Drama00:36:05 - Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 - When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 - Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 - Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.

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Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered

• 💆🏽‍♀️ Cupping, Muscle Alignment & Back Pain: Kiki’s wild story about her body going on strike and how therapy (of the physical kind) brought her back.
  
  
• ☀️ Low Vitamin D, Hormone Health & Mental Clarity: Medinah opens up about her emotional lows and discovering that her sadness wasn’t just in her head — it was in her bloodwork.
  
  
• 💉 Redefining “Normal”: Why “normal” test results don’t always mean healthy, and how systemic biases in medicine impact Black women.
  
  
• 💕 Dating Culture & the Bare Minimum Epidemic: The ladies react to a shocking revelation — some women have never been taken on a real date. They discuss how to raise standards, heal from bad patterns, and stop mistaking attention for effort.
  
  
• 💬 Community and Connection: From breast cancer awareness walks to social clubs and single-mom dinners, Kiki and Medinah highlight women-centered spaces that foster real sisterhood.
  
  
• 😳 Weird Sex Story of the Week: An ER visit turns into an unforgettable discovery when a routine scan reveals a little… extra hardware.
  
  

✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates.


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