This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries.

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In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with comedian Tee Sanders for a juicy conversation full of laughs, confessions, and a few wild surprises. Tee opens up about her healing journey back to Chicago, her love life as a self-proclaimed "collector of wounds" Gemini, and what really goes down in lesbian dating scenes. From crazy ex stories to high standards for 90s-fine women, they cover it all—including the truth about fake straight girls, air mattress hookups, and the seductive power of R&B playlists. Plus, the ladies play their favorite game I'm Curious to Know, and Tee drops gems about embracing vulnerability and healing past traumas. Pour up a Peach Please and get ready for a good time!

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This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah welcome podcast queen Lex P from Pour Minds to sip the “Love Lexpie” and spill all the tea! From Lex P's new YouTube show to her love for entertainment news, the trio keeps it cute and candid. They dive into Love is Blind drama, Real Housewives mess, the power of platform-sharing, and laugh-out-loud confessions during “I’m Curious to Know.” This episode is a hilarious ride filled with gossip, game, and good vibes.

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This week, we get real about our 2025 glow-up plans — from fitness and fillers to spiritual sabbaticals and stepping back from dating. We talk walking pads, ClassPass adventures, and the fine art of subtle cosmetic upgrades. Plus, we read a wild cocktale submission featuring nipple clamps, butt plugs, and a short king with a long stroke. Tap in for the laughs, the real talk, and the cherry-flavored vibes.

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Remember that time when seasickness almost ruined a yacht trip, but you ended up laughing so hard that it became one of your favorite memories? That's how we kick off our latest adventure, as we navigate the vibrant chaos of planning a tropical getaway. We've got everything mapped out, from the bliss of homemade peach cocktails that taste like summer romance to the thrill of exploring new places on ATVs and e-scooters. And let's not forget those culinary experiences, where a Caribbean cooking class awaits, catering to all dietary preferences. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or a foodie, there's enough excitement and relaxation to keep everyone entertained.
As the conversation unfolds, we switch gears to discuss the more intimate side of relationships. Inspired by nostalgic hits from Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam, we explore how confidence can transform your love life. We draw insights from Shan Boodram and even share quirky tips on using jewelry to amplify sensual moments. It's all about quality over quantity, and we touch on how different body types can experiment for ultimate satisfaction. This naturally leads to a chat about relationship dynamics, where we dissect the complexities of a 50-50 split and how it evolves as we mature. Whether you're curious about poly matchmaking or just how to balance time and energy in your relationship, there's something here for every listener.

Finally, we dive into the whirlwind of upcoming adventures and personal journeys. From fitness challenges that have us reminiscing about youthful vigor to the liberating atmosphere of Hedonism Resort, it's a mix of inspiration and anticipation. Wedding planning woes make an appearance, too, as we tackle guest etiquette and cultural nuances with humor and sincerity. Whether it’s managing the chaos of a Nigerian American wedding or finding a trustworthy pet sitter, we share practical insights to help you navigate these life events with grace. Tune in and join us for a blend of laughter, advice, and heartfelt stories that promise to entertain and enlighten.


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This week, we're joined by Relationship Coach Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson. Dr. Stacii opens up about her transition from actress to host of "Put a Ring on It," sharing fascinating anecdotes from her acting days, including roles in "A Thin Line Between Love and Hate" and "How to Be a Player." Get a front-row seat to her personal family stories, where she reveals how her mother's heartbreaking experiences with love shaped her dedication to helping others break free from destructive relationship cycles.

In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking generational love patterns and the importance of self-awareness. Through engaging discussions and humorous tales, we explore everything from the humorous pitfalls of dating dynamics to the complexities of gender roles and financial expectations. Whether it's navigating the minefields of gift-giving or setting boundaries in relationships, we offer insights and laughter that resonate with anyone who has ever loved or lost.

Finally, we dive into topics often left unexplored, such as ethical considerations in adult content and the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning. Dr. Stacii shares her thoughts on building trust and authenticity in modern relationships, emphasizing the power of self-reflection and personal growth. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire anyone on their own journey of love and self-discovery.


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Can technology truly transform the way we navigate modern relationships? This week we're calling on the help of ChatGPT with some different dilemmas, have you tried this?

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This week we're joined by Sierra Luchien. She shares her transformative story and insights from her book, "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover." We kick off with a Judge Judy cocktail and dive into judgmental attitudes in dating, setting the stage for a blend of nostalgia and revelation. Boss Barbie takes us on a journey through her childhood, the significance of her name, and the transitions from youthful aspirations to navigating the intricate dynamics of trust and change in adult relationships. Alongside her, Ciara's incredible path from foster care to becoming an advocate for foster children enriches our discussion about the strength and resilience found in life's challenges.

Explore the emotional layers of love and partnership through stories of resilience, intimate connections, and the healing power of community. We touch on moments of personal growth and the hurdles of balancing individual healing within committed relationships. Anecdotes of support during challenging times, whether through emotional presence or navigating health crises, highlight the multifaceted nature of love. Discover how Boss Barbie and Ciara turn adversity into empowerment, with Ciara opening foster homes to create nurturing environments for children, inspired by her own journey of finding solace and love in unexpected places.

The narrative continues as we discuss the rollercoaster of co-parenting, the emotional intricacies of past relationships, and the significance of trust in partnerships. Personal stories of persistence and self-discovery underscore the importance of finding one's path amidst life's chaos. From navigating complex family dynamics to seeking stability in uncertain times, our conversations emphasize the value of honest communication and fostering hope. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of personal transformations, the power of shared stories, and the lasting impact of building supportive communities.


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What if embracing your sexual desires could transform your life? Join us as we welcome Sir Leezus, a renowned kink expert with over 20 years of experience, who shares his journey of becoming a personal kink advisor, particularly for women seeking to rediscover their sensuality in their late 30s and 40s. Through enlightening anecdotes, Sir Leezus explains how normalizing conversations about kink can liberate individuals from the shackles of societal judgment and unsupportive relationships, encouraging them to explore their true sexual identities in a safe and validating space.

Unravel the fascinating dynamics of lifestyle parties and alternative sexual expressions, as Sir Lisa's transports us to genderless gatherings where conventional norms are left at the door. With a candid look at personal preferences, from erotic content creation to BDSM, our discussion explores the art of shibari, the allure of extreme squirt porn, and the societal perceptions surrounding sex toys. Together, we highlight the beauty of communication and compatibility in intimate relationships, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners where they are, understanding boundaries, and celebrating the diversity of human sexual experiences with humor and openness.

Finally, embrace the provocative world of foot worship, double penetration tips, and the art of erotic power exchange. Learn how confidence and energy can elevate sensual encounters, with Sir Lisa's providing insights on navigating kinks, setting boundaries, and maintaining professionalism in the sex industry. From the sensory delights of impact play to the nuances of BDSM, our conversation offers a bold exploration of intimacy, inviting listeners to challenge their preconceptions and explore new and adventurous expressions of desire.

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