February looks a little different this year… because we are letting men take the mic.
To kick off our February Men’s Series, we are joined by actor, producer, veteran and content creator Mike Bless aka Michael Anthony. This conversation dives deep into dating, emotional healing, masculinity and the realities of modern relationships from a male perspective.

We talk about how men process heartbreak, the role of honesty in dating, why communication looks different for men, and the idea that many men heal quietly instead of publicly. Mike opens up about accountability, emotional vulnerability, dating expectations and the importance of being honest about intentions early.

Of course, we also get into power dynamics in relationships, monogamy vs honesty, the Atlanta dating scene, men wearing purses (yes, we went there), and why giving space in early dating might actually be healthy.

This episode kicks off a full month of real conversations with men about love, growth, healing and relationships — and we are listening.

Cocktail of the Week: The Leading Man


Ingredients
2 oz bourbon
 1 oz blood orange juice
 ½ oz simple or honey syrup
 2 dashes Angostura bitters
 Orange peel garnish

• Instructions

1. Add bourbon, blood orange juice, syrup and bitters to a mixing glass with ice.
2. Stir for about 20–25 seconds until well chilled.
3. Strain over a large ice cube in a rocks glass.
4. Express the oils from an orange peel over the drink and drop it in.

Sip, stare dramatically into the distance, and pretend you’re the main character.
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Are you getting a good Relationship ROI, or are you just operating in chaos? This week, Kiki and Medinah discuss the importance of intentionality—from your wellness routine to your brunch dates. We’re diving into why separated checks at a bottomless mimosa brunch might actually be the ultimate green flag for clarity.

In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" story of the week: a romantic shower that turned into an Olympic sport when the curtain rod gave up. Plus, Kiki talks about the struggle of people always "outsourcing" their work to her—from party planning to free makeup sessions.

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This Week's Cocktail: The Calm but Curious Mule
A refreshing, spicy mocktail (with an optional kick).

• Ingredients:
  • Ginger Beer
  • Pear Juice or Nectar
  • Fresh Lemon Juice
  • Garnish: Cinnamon stick or Star Anise
• Instructions:
  1. Fill a copper mug or rocks glass with ice.
  2. Add the pear juice and fresh lemon.
  3. Top with ginger beer.
  4. Garnish with a cinnamon stick or star anise and enjoy!

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What’s Your Superpower?

In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission.

The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. They also talk about commitment in this season of life, learning how to say no without guilt, setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, and why burnout isn’t a badge of honor.

In Weird Sex, the conversation turns to curiosity, threesomes, and ethical non-monogamy — breaking down how to talk about fantasies honestly, why curiosity doesn’t equal dissatisfaction, and how consent and communication make all the difference.

As always, things take a turn into real life: fostering chaotic cats, stepping back from dating, learning new skills, choosing rest, and staying grounded when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether you’re doing enough, this episode is a reminder that your presence, your voice, and your energy matter more than you think.

Sometimes your superpower isn’t loud — it’s just consistent.

🍹 This Week’s Cocktail: The Soft Launch Spritz (Mocktail)

A fresh, light mocktail perfect for Dry January — or spike it if you’re feeling spicy.

Ingredients

• 3 oz fresh grapefruit juice (use less if you’re not a grapefruit girl)
• Splash of fresh lime juice
• 1 oz agave or honey
• Sparkling water
• Fresh rosemary sprig

How to Make

1. Shake the grapefruit juice, lime juice, and agave (or honey) with ice.
2. Strain into a wine glass over ice, top with sparkling water, and garnish with a rosemary sprig.
3. Before adding the rosemary, gently slap it between your palms to release the oils — pretty and aromatic.

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Last week we kicked off our “Who Said That?” recap, and this week we’re back with Part 2 — more wild clips, iconic one-liners, and a few moments that reminded us why CockTales is funny and deep when it wants to be.

This episode is a continuation of last week’s trip down memory lane, pulling standout moments from different years of the show. Some clips had us crying laughing, some had us side-eyeing ourselves, and others took a surprisingly thoughtful turn — because if we’re gonna reflect, we might as well do it honestly.

We talk fashion eras (yes, the Martha Stewart linen phase still stands), dating boundaries, bad decisions we didn’t make, and the difference between being open-minded and being open to everything (spoiler: not the same).

We also get into why “sex is a skill,” why everybody with a microphone is not a licensed expert, and why sometimes the real growth is knowing when to stop, sit still, and get yourself together. As always, there’s plenty of foolishness, a little ministry, and a lot of “did she really say that?” energy. If you haven’t listened to Part 1, go run that back first — then come join us here. 🍹

Cocktail of the Episode French 75… But Make It Therapy

You’ll need:

• Sparkling wine
• Vanilla vodka
• Simple syrup
• Bailey’s (or RumChata) foam
• Lemon twist

How to make it:
Shake Bailey’s with a small splash of simple syrup until frothy. Pour vanilla vodka into a flute, top with sparkling wine, gently spoon the foam on top, and garnish with a lemon twist. Do not rush the foam unless you want chaos in a glass. 🗣 Topics We Get Into:

• Recapping iconic CockTales quotes and moments from past years
• The Martha Stewart / Ina Garten aesthetic debate (still unresolved)
• Dating boundaries, self-control, and learning when to say no
• Why being open-minded doesn’t mean being open to everything
• The difference between licensed professionals and internet “experts”
• Taking breaks from dating without guilt
• Why sex, intimacy, and communication are skills you can actually learn
• Free and low-cost resources people sleep on (libraries, schools, clinics, and more)
• Growth, reflection, and recognizing patterns in yourself

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It’s time to look back… and immediately ask ourselves, “Wait—who said that?!”
In Part 1 of this two-part recap episode, Kiki and Medinah revisit some of the wildest, funniest, most unhinged moments from 2025 (with a few older classics sprinkled in), reacting to past clips in real time and reliving everything from comedian guests and dating rants to weird sex stories, hair debates, pop culture takes, and those signature CockTales side quests that somehow always lead back to food.

This episode is pure commentary chaos:
– Comedians we loved (and clips that still hold up… mostly)
– Dating opinions that aged interestingly
– Hair, weaves, man-weaves, and why honesty matters
– Weird sex facts that somehow turn into social commentary
– Pop culture deep dives (yes, including Game of Thrones)
– Rants that start one place and end somewhere completely different

Think of this as a highlight reel with commentary, context, and a little “wow… we really said that” energy. And don’t worry — this is just Part 1. There’s plenty more where this came from.
🎧 Listen, laugh, argue with us in your head, and let us know in the comments which clips took you OUT.

🍸 Today’s Cocktail: The Velvet Revolution

Smooth, cozy, and perfect for a recap episode.
Ingredients
1.5 oz Baileys
1 oz vanilla vodka or dark rum
1 oz cold brew coffee or espresso (optional, but highly encouraged)
Ice
Nutmeg or cinnamon (for garnish)

How to Make It
Add Baileys, vodka or rum, and cold brew to a shaker filled with ice.
Shake well until chilled and silky.
Strain into a coupe or rocks glass.
Sprinkle nutmeg or cinnamon on top and enjoy.

Cheers to closing out 2025 and easing into 2026 — raspy voices, hot takes, and all. 🥂

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In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether.

From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive feedback, and why avoidance often feels easier than vulnerability.

The episode also explores relationship expectations, emotional maturity, and a listener write-in that sparks a real conversation about compatibility, communication, and knowing when something just isn’t aligned. Along the way, Kiki reflects on personal growth, past embarrassment, family dynamics, and learning how to pause before reacting, especially when emotions are high.

This is a funny, honest, and thought-provoking episode about growth, self-awareness, and learning how to communicate without tearing people down — or disappearing when things get uncomfortable.

If you’ve ever struggled with telling the truth, hearing the truth, or figuring out how to say the hard thing without hurting someone, this episode is for you.

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This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.”

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• New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes
• Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats
• Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories & deconstructed pies
• What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional

🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL
2 oz vodka
1 oz fresh lemon juice
0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup
Splash of cranberry juice
2–3 cucumber slices
Club soda to top
Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist

How to make it:

Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them!

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We’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales.

🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) Recipe
Ingredients:

• 1–2 oz vanilla vodka
  
  
• 1 oz eggnog
  
  
• 1.5 oz cold brew or espresso
  
  
• 0.5 oz simple syrup (optional if you like it sweeter)
  
  
• Dash of cinnamon or nutmeg
  
  
• Ice
  
  

Instructions:
Add everything to a shaker with ice. Shake hard until frothy, strain into a martini glass, and top with cinnamon or nutmeg. Sip slowly… because clearly, this drink has consequences.

Once the cocktails hit, we dive into:

✨ Holiday traditions and why cheesy Lifetime movies still eat every time
✨ All Her Fault theories, plot twists, and why Kiki is ready to write and direct
✨ Medina’s acting dreams and the monologue she’s already prepared
✨ Theme night prep: Dirty Disney, North Pole After Dark, In Living Color, and Strip Club Night
✨ Plane farts, airplane germs, and why those blankets are not your friends
✨ A full-on stomach betrayal that led to a Ziploc bag, a frantic phone call, and an emergency Chick-fil-A pit stop

We also get into supporting partners with mental health struggles, TikTok conspiracy holes, dog-nap nightmares, Carry-On Only delusion, and why sometimes you just have to end the whole day and start over.

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In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone.

We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend when someone in your circle goes through trauma. Lindsay also spills on playing the unhinged Leslie on “The Team”, the joy of being a villain, and what’s next for her production company, LA Elite Productions, including her upcoming films “Girls Night,” “The Perfect Proposal,” and “Curious.”

And because every episode needs something in the glass, today’s drink is the Prego-Rita — a citrusy mocktail with a sparkling-wine upgrade for the girls who aren’t pregnant.

🍹 Today’s Cocktail: The Prego-Rita (Mocktail + Cocktail) Base:

• 2 oz fresh lime juice or alcohol-free margarita mix
• 1 oz fresh orange juice
• 1 oz agave syrup
• Club soda to top
• Optional: salt/Tajín rim + jalapeño slices

Cocktail Add-On:

• 2 oz sparkling wine

Directions:
Shake lime, orange, and agave over ice. Pour into a rimmed glass over fresh ice.
Mocktail: top with club soda.
Cocktail: add sparkling wine, then top with club soda.
Garnish with jalapeño for a spicy kick.

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Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales.

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