Get ready for a cocktail of wit, wisdom, and whimsical fantasies as we welcome the insightful Ibbie, a seasoned dating coach and licensed therapist, who takes us from her bartending days to mastering the complexities of modern romance. Our episode kicks off with the "Situationship" cocktail, perfect for exploring the intricate dance of love languages and relationship choices. From the eternal question of choosing between wealth and availability to navigating hair styling dilemmas for an exciting Curacao trip, we promise a rollercoaster of engaging discussions and personal anecdotes.

The fun doesn't stop there! You might find yourself laughing out loud as we uncover quirky sexual fantasies involving unlikely icons like Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey, alongside a nostalgic nod to the legendary talk shows of yesteryear. We also dive into the world of attachment styles, blending humor with heartfelt stories about the nuances of relationships. Whether it’s through the eyes of a ‘runaway bride’ or a discussion on childhood experiences shaping our adult connections, we offer both laughter and insight.

As we wind down, we address the poignant challenges of grief in relationships, offering advice to listeners who might be supporting a partner through tough times. Through candid anecdotes, we highlight the importance of patience and understanding in these delicate moments. Our exploration of dating, self-awareness, and the balance of delusion will leave you pondering the intricacies of love and connection. With Ibi's expert insights and our relatable stories, this episode promises a tapestry of humor, heartfelt exploration, and plenty of food for thought.

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This episode isn't just about new year resolutions; it's about celebrating small victories and the courage to face life's unexpected challenges. We highlight how overcoming fear and embracing change can lead to profound personal growth. Weird sex heads to the VA with a scandalous tale from a VA facility, reminding us all to "SAY NO TO COWORKERS!" The teachings from the Women Evolve conference and insights from Abraham Hicks offer valuable perspectives on spiritual growth, relationships, and the power of self-awareness for Medinah.  For Kiki, looking forward to all the new opportunities that she can't wait to announce and her sex drive has finally come back.  Listen to the full episode to get an OG CockTale...it's been 84 years lol!

We also tackle the emotional complexities of relationships, particularly understanding and appreciating men's emotional needs. Navigating the intricacies of dating someone with children, we emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing personal limits. With a blend of humor and authenticity, we share stories of personal misadventures, from high love gummies to unexpected romantic encounters. As we move forward into the new year, we encourage our listeners to embrace personal evolution with optimism and gratitude, always supporting loved ones through life's unpredictable moments.


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Koereylle from the "Girl Stop Playing" podcast stops by to share her inspiring journey from a workaholic mindset to one of personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into her transition from the "Confessions of a Workaholic" podcast and how her past venture, the Single Wives Club, led her to her husband and a happier marriage. Koereylle offers valuable insights into balancing career ambitions with personal goals, and we explore how meaningful conversations can be sparked using a fun game called "I'm Curious to Know."

Get ready for some festive cheer as we whip up a Snow Globe Margarita that dazzles both in taste and presentation. Perfect for the holiday season, this cocktail combines white cranberry juice, lime juice, tequila, and a sprinkle of edible glitter, served whimsically in a clear, fillable ornament. For those who prefer a booze-free version, sparkling water does the trick. The addition of a rosemary sprig brings a festive nod to Christmas trees, ensuring your holiday gatherings are both merry and bright.

We navigate a multitude of relationship dynamics, from traditional gender roles and the etiquette of texting exes during the holidays, to the art of regifting and the complexities of non-committed relationships. Listen in for lively discussions on everything from the ethics of re-gifting to the spicy tales of holiday party escapades. The episode wraps up with a heartwarming engagement story set against the early pandemic's backdrop, illustrating love's resilience and creativity. Whether you're here for the cocktails or the candid chats, there's something to engage everyone.

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Join us as we kick off with the Red Ribbon Refresher, a mocktail recipe that's perfect for anyone not wanting to wake up with a hangover. Our conversation flows through the quirks of communication and social media, peppered with the joy of sisterhood and the ongoing saga of allergies. TikTok, you're next on our exploration list, and we might just need some help keeping up with the trends!

Reality TV aficionados, this one's for you. We express a longing for the glamorous days of reality TV's past and brainstorm fresh concepts that could shake up today's scene. From the working women series to influencer content battles, we offer a playful peek into potential new shows, speculating on celebrity participants like Britney Renner. With casting secrets and show premises that leave jaws dropping, the discussion meanders through the behind-the-scenes chaos, painting a vivid picture of the reality TV world that’s rarely seen by the public eye.

Navigating the minefield of modern relationships? We've got insights ranging from dating in your twenties to the delicate dance of maintaining friendships with children when adult relationships falter. Whether it's the expectations of stay-at-home partnerships, the allure and pitfalls of social media romance, or the ethical dilemmas within prison romances, our reflections are both humorous and heartfelt. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration that encourages intentionality and self-discovery, all wrapped up in engaging storytelling and genuine camaraderie.


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This week we discuess weird kinks, family time, and answer an interesting listener email about her man judging and slut shaming her!  

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We dive into personal reflections this week, underscoring the value of patience and thankfulness for life's little triumphs. These moments serve as a reminder of the importance of embracing who we are and the journey we've embarked on.

We wrap things up with an exploration of vulnerability in the digital age, examining the courage it takes to share one's struggles while maintaining a sense of privacy. Insights on managing anxiety and self-perception during high-pressure situations pave the way for tales of romantic entanglements and self-empowerment.


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What happens when you blend coconut rum, lime juice, lavender syrup, and Prosecco Rosé? You get the delicious Velvet Sunset cocktail, a perfect companion for our lively chat with Veronica Torres, an Atlanta-based lash tech and avid listener of our show. Veronica shares her inspiring journey from North Carolina to Atlanta while we sip our way through her story and the serendipity of discovering our podcast through her sister. Her vibrant personality and unique perspective make this listener appreciation episode one for the books, as we bond over shared memes and laughter.

Relationships are a complex dance of boundaries and love languages, and we're not shying away from the tough topics. We dive into the importance of understanding one's love language and how it evolves over time, discussing how to strike a balance between quality time and personal space with your partner. From weekend getaways to heart-to-heart conversations, we explore how road trips and adventures can either strengthen or challenge bonds, offering a unique lens on the ever-changing nature of love and connection.

From the varied world of cultural cuisines to the quirks of personal grooming, this episode is a colorful tapestry of experiences and insights. We tackle topics like unusual fetishes and the journey of self-love and validation, emphasizing the importance of open communication in all relationships. With personal stories of overcoming trauma and breaking negative cycles for the sake of our children, we encourage listeners to focus on building supportive communities and setting positive examples. Join us for a heartfelt conversation packed with laughs, lessons, and a whole lot of love.


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Renowned author Elizabeth Gilbert, famously known for "Eat, Pray, Love," graces our live studio audience with her vibrant presence. The episode kicks off with a mocktail inspired by her iconic book, setting the stage for a heartfelt conversation about courage and personal growth. Elizabeth's stories from transformative wellness retreats in dreamy locales and her own journey to discovering more about herself from how she loves, to how her behavior in love lead to her realization of her addiction. Her story inspires us to embrace new experiences with open arms and hearts.

We journey through the tangled web of relationships, exploring everything from soul ties and love addiction to the trials of gift-giving and unexpected life changes. Our discussion uncovers the joys and pains of seeking validation, the societal imbalances in relationships, and the profound impact of spirituality and recovery in overcoming addiction. Personal anecdotes and insightful reflections reveal the complex dance between love, addiction, and personal transformation, highlighting the importance of inner strength and self-respect.

The episode concludes with a focus on healing practices, both spiritual and practical. Elizabeth shares her ongoing passion for travel and introduces her "Letters from Love" series, encouraging us to engage with ourselves through self-written love letters. A heartfelt farewell to our audience, sprinkled with gratitude and warmth, wraps up this enlightening episode. Join us for a ride through laughter, introspection, and a myriad of heartfelt moments that promise to leave you inspired and empowered.


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Picture this: after a whirlwind year of dating, I found myself walking down the aisle, embarking on a marriage that has now spanned a decade. What kept us strong? Accountability, personal growth, and a knack for making conscious relationship decisions. This episode kicks off with a deep dive into being single and the importance of self-awareness before plunging into the dating pool. We even share a delightful cocktail recipe, Miss Rosa's Margarita, ensuring you get your rose water from the kitchen, not the bathroom cabinet!

Bringing laughter and insight to our discussions, comedian Mario Tory joins us to share his vibrant perspective on marriage, family life, and the everyday comedy that comes with raising kids. We explore the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges in maintaining a marriage, laced with the joy and humor that Mario brings to his Atlanta life. And let's not forget the lighter side of parenting—whether you're an active aunt or uncle, or navigating the complexities of blended family dynamics, there's plenty of food for thought and giggles along the way.

Ever wondered how personal grooming quirks or the infamous "icks" play into dating and relationships? We tackle these topics head-on, from the societal pressures of appearance to the humorous realities of dating surprises. We dive into the world of fantasies, societal expectations, and the importance of finding a partner who shares your adventurous spirit. And in a candid twist, we even offer some sex advice and tips on rebooting relationships, sprinkled with wild adventures that remind us of the thrills of keeping romance alive. So grab your Miss Rosa's Margarita and join us on this journey of laughter, love, and the realities of relationships.


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