How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

The Initial Consultation • Your Divorce Case


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In this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright kick off season 10 with an exciting and in-depth season-long series: Your Divorce Case. In this first episode, we start by diving into one of the most important relationships you'll have during your divorce: the one with your attorney. Seth shares his expertise on establishing the attorney-client relationship, from the initial consultation to the next steps in the process.

Seth and Pete discuss key aspects of working with a divorce attorney, including attorney-client privilege, conflict checks, and what to expect during your first call. They also explore strategies for finding the right lawyer for your case and how having a good attorney on the other side can benefit both parties.

Questions we answer in this episode:
• When does the attorney-client relationship begin?
• What should you expect during the initial consultation?
• How can you prepare for your first call with a divorce attorney?

Key Takeaways:
• Attorney-client privilege starts from the moment you believe the attorney represents you, even without a formal agreement.
• Be prepared for conflict checks and providing basic information during your first call.
• Having a skilled attorney on the other side can help resolve your case more efficiently.

Seth and Pete's insights will help you navigate the early stages of your attorney-client relationship with confidence. By understanding the process and knowing what to expect, you'll be better equipped to work with your lawyer and achieve your goals in the divorce.

This episode is packed with valuable information that can save you time, money, and stress as you begin working with a divorce attorney. Tune in to learn how to establish a strong foundation for one of the most critical relationships in your divorce journey.

Links & Notes

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  • (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
  • (02:04) - The First Call
  • (03:17) - The Attorney-Client Relationship
  • (08:26) - Tracking Conflicts
  • (10:49) - What You Should Expect
  • (14:18) - Conflicting-Out Strategies
  • (17:22) - Goal for This Conversation
  • (22:34) - Cost and Duration
  • (24:11) - Expectations for Second Call
  • (26:08) - Season 10 Plans
  • (28:03) - Checklist
  • (29:37) - Wrap Up

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