Episode 7
Jem Fuller
The Art of Communicating Consciously
What is communication? General Communication ?
Latin Noun Commun’carta which means “to sharing”
And “To make comma”
Communication is to share a concept and make an idea common and it be understood.
We can communicate through a variety of ways, energetic, physically, through language, through touch, through intention.
You cannot relay an idea and how impact without communication.
It is how we connect and relay.
Conscious communication- to be aware of how we are sharing.
Generally reactive and not contemplative and consumed in our ego and identity.
The ego often sees others options as threats and thus we defend our ideas without even understanding why. Being conscious of who we are and we are not separate.
You don’t have to be able to understand something to tell someone something, but to connect through communication there needs to be a level of understanding.
Asking yourself why are you sharing what you are sharing.
Acceptance vs approval makes things smoother, when you accept yourself and everything that was supposed to happen has happened you are able to be move forward.
Referenced: Michael Singer “ The Untethered Soul”
What is the ego and how does it play into communication?
It is necessary and part of being human.
The ego is an illusion. And creates duality and right and wrong, good vs bad.
Ego gets in the way of connection and communication.
You would not have an opinion without contrast of others and therefore we are never separate.
Without diversity we cannot solve problems, everyone plays a part of the greater whole.
What does loving others and having a different option look like?
Why are we so attached to being right when we communicate?
Fear is truly what separates us.
Mindfulness and becoming aware of our thoughts and feelings, we can begin to shift them.
Boundaries play a huge role in communication and conscious communication. What is the purpose and the outcome you are wanting when you communicate to others.
Steps to Communicate Consciously
Why are you having this convo? For what Purpose? Is it to serve the greater good, then yes. Will it help the situation?
Who are you communicating with? How will it be received? What type of communication do they prefer?
How will communicate ? Email? Text? Face to face.
When, be conscious of the appropriate time.
Pause and Share
Book References:
The Way of the Superior Man: By David Deida
Loving What Is: By Byron Katie
The Untethered Soul: By Michael Singer
The Art of Conscious Communication for Thoughtful Men: By Jim Fuller
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Conscious-Communication-Thoughtful-Men-ebook/dp/B09L83ZR1X
Jem Fuller has lived a colourful, global life. From barefoot backpacker to corporate leader, fire-dancer and traditional tattooist, a kindergarten teacher to motorcycle courier, masseuse and reflexology to labourer and travel consultant. Now his time is as a partner and father, coach, facilitator, and retreat leader. He is the author of the recently published book, The Art of Conscious Communication for Thoughtful Men, and can be seen delivering his TEDx talk on YouTube.
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