Episode 34. This week I sat down with Dr. Heather Gunn, PhD. Dr. Gunn is an Assistant Professor at University of Alabama and a licensed Clinical Psychologist. In her role, she is engaged in research, teaching, mentoring, and service. Her goal is for individuals to have meaningful and engaging (and autonomy granting!) relationships and to be able to have restful sleep. Away from the office, she enjoys walking phone dates, exercise, baking, reading, and spending time with her husband and son and dog and cat.
What to Expect In This Conversation:
We continue the conversation from last week. Make sure you check out Part 1 here.
Do you really HAVE to get your phone out of the bedroom? How to promote sleep in kiddos in a flexible wayWhat to do if you and your partner have very different sleep schedule preferencesAnd much more!
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Do we really have to take our phones out of the bedroom?
Well in short, the answer is no.
It's true that focusing on or engaging in something on your phone late at night CAN mask sleepiness, and it's important to be aware of that and try to remain disciplined if it's affecting you negatively.
However, you don't NEED to take it out of the bedroom, as phones can also be very useful for sleep.
There are TONS of resources like podcasts, meditations, calming sleep sounds,