The Irreplaceable Man Podcast

Episode 292 is about relationships and leadership:

Ever notice that a lot of successful individuals can easily figure out how to win in business - how to be successful in business. But most of 'em down at home are a complete and utter trainwreck. And you may be one of 'em and not even be aware of it---because you're actually a pretty good husband and a pretty good dad, but your finances suck. Or, you're actually a great dad or husband---but your business sucks!

Why is that so? And why is it so common? The solution seems simple enough, why can't we do it just like that.

Gary answers this and more. Turns out that it is simple, but it's all a matter of going deep enough. And it all starts with the quality of your relationships. Gary's seen it all, he's trained the highest level executive in developing relationships and taught teenagers and parents to overcome trauma. This is a gold spill of wisdom you won't want to miss.

Join us and find support at the Men on Purpose community, where we can help you manifest the life you really want, today! Follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

QUICK TIMESTAMPS:

00:04:58 Gary’s bio

00:08:07 Power of adaptability and flexibility

00:12:12 IAN GOLD

00:16:06 The secret skill; a capitalistic edge

00:18:26 A blend of feminine and masculine

00:21:39 Accountability is key

00:24:26 Keeping people inspired

00:26:36 Quadrants of success

00:28:54 Controlling your reaction

00:29:47 Misaligned core values

00:32:03 Striving to feel good enough

00:34:39 Blueprint of relationships

00:40:10 When I look back on my life

00:42:12 Two things that motivate human behavior

00:45:49 Self-leadership

00:48:13 Parents resolving trauma in children 

00:51:41 As a leader, what do you stand for

00:55:07 The war within

00:58:29 The thought manifests the word

01:04:18 How do we develop our world view

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#relationships #leadership #purpose

Episode 291 is about manifesting your future.

You can manifest your future today. Nick Devlin was an Army Ranger veteran and has been through the toughest situations for a man to ever be in, literally things he cannot speak about to anybody. He took the life lessons that came with this experience and has used that to help men today become a better version of themselves. There are no pseudo-spiritual manifestations required, just pure and genuine commitment to change. And it’s not easy, no. Today, we talk about soldiers as adventure, and how we can transfer skills into our personal lives, and how to overcome discomfort when it matters most. Nick shares his most authentic self and dives into what men struggle with the most today. It’s a very enlightening episode and Nick is as genuine as he is easy to listen to. You are an adventurer in this life too, but you don’t have to do it alone. There may be uncertainty, and it will never be easy, but commitment helps you triumph all.

Quick Timestamps

00:01:35 What you will learn 

00:06:43 Men being replaced in their families

00:09:32 Getting stuck in financial success

00:17:06 Nick’s past and service

00:24:40 You create your own freedom

00:29:04 Discipline and passion

00:32:28 Transferring skills to your personal life

00:34:47 True satisfaction and aligned values

00:37:58 Committing to take that next level

00:41:48 Going on an adventure

00:44:46 A lot of men feel their window is closing

00:47:30 Avoiding uncomfortable conversations

00:49:12 Trust and believing

00:50:48 Running formulas in life 

00:53:10 Training, growth and learning 

00:54:25 Living the life your past created 

00:57:59 Putting yourself first

01:01:24 Pain and inevitability

01:05:35 Choosing your life

01:09:57 You’ve already taken the step

01:12:32 Invest in yourself

01:15:22 One conversation can change your life

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#manifesting #future #purpose

Episode 290 is about transforming your pain.

Turn your pain into something powerful. Gabriel Keczan is a visionary writer, speaker, mythologist entrepreneur, and executive men's coach. He's the author of a bestselling international book Alive on Purpose, UNC Clenched From Fear and Step Into Your Power with Backbone Heart and Balls.  When he was 18 he had a dark night of the soul. He spent 30 days in a psych ward battling his inner demons. Now he is a brand new man helping others get out of their dark place and see the light at the end of the tunnel. Join us now to learn more about becoming a better you!

Do you want to know your mission? Our Men on Purpose community provides support and invites inspiring guests, so we all learn together in this path. Follow us on https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

Quick Timestamps

00:06:31 Alive on purpose

00:08:28 You are your purpose

00:10:49 Dark night of the soul & 30 days in a psych ward

00:11:42 IAN GOLD

00:16:19 Turning toward our pain and face it

00:17:43 Rejection and abandonment

00:20:56 Going numb and forgetting

00:21:34 Difference between success and fulfillment

00:22:38 Networth isnt your self worth

00:23:42 Danger vs dangerous

00:24:42 IAN GOLD

00:26:42 What is a nice guy

00:27:38 Being a player coach

00:29:13 Covert contracts and shadow contracts

00:31:15 IAN GOLD - Convert Contracts

00:33:43 Present, Claim, Penetration

00:35:27 What women want

00:36:23 Surrender and letting go

00:37:16 Trusting the process of the journey

00:38:31 IAN GOLD

00:44:05 Time scarcity

00:44:29 Why therapy doesnt work for many guys

00:44:52 Guys need to be confronted by the truth mirror

00:48:02 Guys dying again and again

00:51:42 IAN GOLD

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#pain #selfworth #purpose

Episode 289 is about finding your life mission.

What's your mission in life? Lane Belone, former Special Forces Green Beret and now an elite entrepreneur coach, co-author of Unleash Your Humble Alpha, host of Exactly What The Moment Called For and creator of the Joyful Sovereignty Experience. As a special forces soldier he built strength, discipline and healthy habits - but when his service was over he felt like there were parts missing from him; something to live for once out of the military. Lo and behold, he found his next mission. It was to make the world a better place by helping humans unlock their potential and find their mission in life. Join us now to learn more about yourself!

Do you want to know your mission? Our Men on Purpose community provides support and invites inspiring guests, so we all learn together in this path. Follow us on https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

QUICK TIMESTAMPS

00:11:32 Applying the high performance professional formula to your personal world

00:12:24 Disbursement of energy

00:15:12 Ian Gold

00:17:27 Well off vs broke

00:22:27 Not taking ownership to our journey

00:22:45 Co Creating an integrated life

00:22:39 Integration over balance

00:25:33 Special forces balance analogy

00:27:58 Finding your purpose and mission

00:30:17 Focus attention and energy on you first

00:31:28 Dialing in and getting yourself aligned

00:31:53 Asking yourself who you are

00:33:40 Ian Gold - trust

00:41:39 Lanes life story - a rock paper scissors bet

00:44:57 Belief: If someone else can do it, so can I

00:49:04 Facing your fears in the moment

00:51:30 Gamifying your search for purpose

00:53:40 Ian Gold: Will they give you a statue or a sentence

00:56:51 Small micro steps that helped build a solid foundation

00:58:02 Finding purpose after military

00:59:22 Aligning with my spiritual path

01:00:55 Power of plant medicine

01:02:33 Ian Gold

01:06:51 Different mission sets

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#mission #align #purpose

Episode 288 is about changing your life.

Find the needle that truly moves you in your life. Brian Pannuzzo is a men’s health and corporate wellness coach, founder of the Success Lift and host of the Success LIft podcast. He started as a Wall Street trader for 20 years before becoming frustrated with his lack of success outside his job (despite being successful at it). It was then that he discovered something about himself through an epiphany – and found his way back to pursuing what made him happy: A fulfilling personal life - taking care of oneself so they could spend more time with family or friends - everything else fell into place when one knows exactly what they want to do in order to achieve their desired results. Join us and know more about topics of changing your life.

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QUICK TIMESTAMPS: 

00:08:09 Brian's Story

00:11:00 I made a decision at 17 that shaped my life

00:12:35 The hamster wheel

00:13:48 I was broken down

00:19:20 My role models were failing me

00:24:23 Ian Gold - SNIOP

00:27:00 Benefit of hindsight

00:27:38 Sometimes the affect show up ten years later

00:29:04 People dont change because of discomfort

00:32:05 How the hell do I get out of this

00:32:44 Ian Gold

00:36:07 Root causes and starting there

00:38:39 Disconnecting from pain

00:40:55 Your wife is not your therapist

00:42:09 Ian Gold

00:46:43 4 stages of learning

00:50:48 Time as context

00:51:30 Focusing on your children

00:52:23 Your mess becomes your message

00:54:49 Getting out of the rut

00:56:24 What was the moment you realize your true mission and purpose

01:00:28 The moment you knew your life needed to change

01:02:01 When I realized I was worth it, I started working on me

01:02:22 Focus on what you value

01:02:57 5 second rule

01:03:50 How to increase confidence

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#moment #discipline #change

Episode 287 is about learning to assess yourself.

You are your own number-one cheerleader. Dr. Anthony Balduzzi is a naturopathic doctor, national champion bodybuilder, and founder of the Fit Father Project and Fit Mother Project- online communities for empowering busy parents to get healthy, lose weight, and build muscle through practical nutrition and exercise plans. He advocates for having a healthy well-being; he believes in mental, physical, and spiritual health. We all make mistakes but correcting those mistakes--aligning ourselves on the right path--is what really matters here. A track of our progress or errors can keep us motivated in the long run: while building up foundations for our habits or goals. Let's come together now to learn more about how we can take care of ourselves.

Do you want to build a healthy life? Our Men on Purpose community supports and invites inspiring guests, so we all learn together on this path. Follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

QUICK TIMESTAMPS:

00:06:06 Ian challenges

00:07:55 Solving challenges in your personal and business life

00:12:09 Being in a lower place in your life

00:12:24 Quarterly check in's

00:12:57 Seeing through pain

00:15:05 Gut health

00:26:32 Becoming your own #1 advocate

00:28:18 Every challenge is unfolding for you and your journey

00:29:23 Alan Watts - waves have a peak and trough inside and outside

00:31:10 Our journey is our journey

00:33:24 Energy and vibration

00:38:23 Ian Gold

00:42:04 Got to have an arrow and target - discipline and determination

00:44:01 Faith and Patience

00:56:10 Hold your desires and faith

00:57:30 Goal is not to be where you once were, its about where you are now and going

00:58:07 Setting landmarks and milestones

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#mental #physical #spiritual

Episode 286 is about making innovations.

Innovation is the key to evolution. Costa Michailidis, an athlete and coach, created Innovation Bound- a full service innovation consultancy focused on teaching individuals how they can solve their own problems. And while as an athlete he learned early on what it meant to have discipline and built habits that would transition across parts of his life, his focus has been to teach others how they can use those lessons in order to create something great for themselves too.

Join us this time around for another exciting look at developing one's own ideas with all the tricks of the trade!

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Quick Timestamps

00:06:06 Making your mission measurable

00:11:37 A million is enough to make impact

00:18:01 Leading with humor

00:19:08 The study of creativity

00:21:03 Anything is possible

00:26:01 Reclaiming creativity in education

00:27:25 Habit - creating new ones

00:30:26 Coming up with ideas

00:32:36 Co develop ideas with audience

00:37:58 Evolving ideas

00:41:24 Comedians Innovating

00:44:21 The more ideas the better

00:54:02 How do you sit in it and stay with it

01:03:06 Difference between stubborn and persistent

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#innovation #ideas #develop

Episode 285 is about making your dream come true.

Set your goals up high and dare to dream bigger than ever before. Dane Espegard is an entrepreneur and coach; he grew up in a loving home with parents and siblings. One day he noticed himself wondering what kind of business culture would set the tone for his company—something centered around people pursuing their dreams? Then, before long, it had morphed from just being about him to also including his own family - as they created lists together that ranged from big dreams to small ones (and everything in between). Eventually, after perfecting this process thanks to the support from those closest to him—he felt ready (and excited!) to share these ideas with others. So he wrote The Dream Machine, which is freely available online for anyone who wants guidance on how to live out their wildest fantasies or pursue even smaller ambitions! Join us now for today's episode.

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Quick Timestamps

00:06:36 Dane's Story

00:10:12 Parents Divorce

00:11:53 Cohabitating parents

00:16:02 Marriage vs partnership

00:16:51 Wanting kids to see us have conflict

00:20:09 Working with different kinds of people

00:24:04 Finding your tribe

00:25:03 Thats just the way I am

00:31:33 Bridge analogy

00:34:08 Divorce is off the table

00:37:05 The Dream Machine

00:37:52 Creating a dreams list

00:39:08 Year end review

00:41:04 I love sports

00:52:07 Spouse trust is a must

00:53:44 Dreaming with your kids

00:57:08 Dreams vs goals

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#dreams #goals #achieve

Episode 284 is about finding your way.

Being comfortable with the uncomfortable. Dr. Calvin Sun has been working as an Emergency Physician and Clinical Assistant Professor in Emergency Medicine for most of his career, but he always knew that there was something else for him out there; one day he got it! His love for travel came after losing a bet to explore Egypt, where his curiosity took hold and never let go since then. Fast forward now, Monsoon Diaries was born – it is an organization founded by people who are dedicated to exploring life in its fullest form while discovering the globe’s unexplored corners.

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Quick Timestamps

00:07:42 Living a double life

00:09:05 Parents loved me the way they did

00:12:49 Speaking with your kids about emotions

00:18:04 The loss was so sudden

00:20:13 Pushing against a boulder

00:22:09 Regret comes from not communication sooner

00:26:35 Ian - Story about Dad

00:35:43 Becoming a doctor - Its fascinating

00:38:39 I was alone

00:42:38 Total Freedom

00:47:21 Being comfortable with the uncomfortable

00:51:51 What kept your integrity intact

00:56:55 Trust the process

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#travel 

#process 

#journey

Episode 283 is about being irreplaceable.

How do you find your purpose and become irreplaceable? Branch Isole is an author, poet, and story-teller. After spending 15 years in the corporate world, he became disillusioned with who he had grown into - so he quit his job to pursue a new venture. In doing so, he discovered himself again by

studying different spiritual belief systems.

One fateful day at the age of 45 when he decided to go back to school for his Masters degree in Theology, he wrote a book about finding one's spiritual path. From then on out, he kept writing; 25 years later producing 22 books containing various topics and messages on how to find one's true purpose in this world.

Do you want to know how to find your spiritual path? Our Men on Purpose community provides support and invite inspiring guests, so we all learn together in this path. Follow us on https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

Quick Timestamps

00:05:11 Branch's experiences

00:05:46 Theres are only so many hours in a day

00:08:05 Who am i in the world

00:09:48 Tapping into fears

00:11:36 Being lost at sea, what does this bring up

00:16:09 Need, want, status, love, fear - 5 motivation

00:18:26 Exercises of choice

00:20:25 Controlling our destiny

00:21:18 Money over purpose

00:22:38 Love, approval, agenda and spiritual grounding

00:24:23 Achieving balance

00:26:10 Fulfilling a need the world can't fulfill

00:26:43 When it's all about me

00:27:29 Processing through external needs

00:28:53 Our choices are filled with consequences

00:34:00 Replaceable vs Irreplaceable

00:36:16 Something is missing

00:37:46 My purpose as a man

00:38:37 Getting spiritually grounded

00:41:33 Is this all there is to life

00:43:18 Connecting with source through the master

00:46:11 An esoteric connection to the source

00:47:13 Right and wrong and reward and punishment

00:47:40 Spiritual grounding reveals the truth of the world

00:54:26 12 Lessons of life

00:58:32 This is how you free yourself

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#irreplaceable 

#spiritual 

#journey