The Positive Aging Community hosted a discussion focusing on the unique challenges faced by spouses who become caregivers for their partners, particularly those with cognitive impairments like dementia. Steve Gurney introduced Susie Sarkisian, a certified life coach with extensive experience in supporting family members of aging individuals. Susie shared her personal journey, emphasizing the importance of supporting spouses who care for their partners, a topic often overlooked in caregiving discussions.

The session featured Paul, a caregiver for his wife Maureen, who shared his heartfelt story. Paul recounted their life together, the gradual realization of Maureen's cognitive decline, and the steps he took to provide care, from increasing household help to eventually moving Maureen to a memory care unit. He highlighted the emotional and physical challenges of caregiving, the phases of denial, acceptance, and the importance of seeking help and maintaining one's own life.

Susie outlined the stages spouses typically experience, from denial to acceptance, and emphasized the importance of flexibility, positive attitude, and knowing one's needs. Paul's journey was marked by his proactive approach, seeking support from Susie and maintaining social connections, which helped him navigate the caregiving path.

The discussion underscored the value of professional support and community resources in caregiving, offering hope and guidance to those in similar situations. Paul's story, shared with transparency and openness, provided a powerful testament to the resilience and love inherent in caregiving relationships.

Susie Sarkisian A certified professional coach with 15 years experience supporting families of older adults.

• https://www.susiesarkisian.com/

Full Transcript well spouse discussion.pdf

Video of the discussion at https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com/videos/the-journey-of-the-well-spouse-a-caregiving-story