The Man Up Show with David Tian, Ph.D. - Masculinity for the Intelligent Man

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: What to do when she shuts you out? Welcome to Man Up Episode 178.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey. It's David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love. And welcome to Man Up Episode 178.

We're here at the Sunday, the third day, of the Mastermind Summit that we're doing here in Bangkok as part of the Mastermind. I always love these events, and I did a full day of speaking yesterday from 9:30AM to 5:30PM, just me meeting the whole thing. And then went out and we had a big dinner, a really great dinner, and then went out clubbing to a few different clubs.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/relationships/she-shuts-you-out/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: How to handle disrespect from other men? Welcome to Man Up Episode 177.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey. It's David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love. Here we are as the sun is setting in Bangkok, at this beautiful courtyard, at The House of Sathorn – which is right next to The W.

This is actually, I think, owned by The W Hotel I lived in for about three months when I first moved to Bangkok. Great area. You can see – I don't know if you can see from the umbrella, but there's the MahaNakhon right behind this umbrella. And I got a question here from the private Man Up Facebook group. I got to open this up here.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masculinity/handle-disrespect/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: How do you deal with jealous guys? Welcome to Man Up Episode 176.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey. It's David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love. And here we are in Bangkok, on the river that runs through the middle of Bangkok. This is Episode 176. I got a question here from Jay.

This is a quick one. I'll read the whole thing. Jay, "I have a question. I've been dating beautiful women for a year now and got good at it, possessing attractive qualities are now second nature to me." I think you're missing humility, I think that would help.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masculinity/jealous-guys/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: When your girl makes you feel insecure. Welcome to Man Up Episode 175.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey. It's David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love. Yes, I got that again! It's been a while since I've done any episodes. I was sick for a week in Singapore for the first time in like a year, and I had back-to-back weekend live events.

We're at the university, at the research lab, running experiments there as well for a major paper coming out, and just really busy. So, apologies for the guys who have been waiting for new episodes. But in the meantime, we've been rolling out footage from different talks I've been doing in different places.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/relationships/feel-insecure/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: Do you deserve love? Welcome to Man Up Episode 174.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hi. I'm David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love. I'm here in Bangkok, a bit of a cloudy day so you can't see how beautiful the sunset is on the camera. I probably might be able to boost the color a bit.

But anyway, I'm back in Bangkok. Loving it here. I've been procrastinating a little bit on shooting this particular episode because the question is a lot bigger than I expected. By the way, welcome to Episode 174. So anyway, I will try to say as much as I can about it to address as much as I can, however many minutes this takes.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/happiness/deserve-love/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: How to make real male friends? Welcome to Man Up Episode 173.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey. I'm David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love. And welcome to Man Up Episode 173. Happy Chinese New Year, Lunar New Year to all of those who celebrate it.

It is in fact on the day of this shooting, Lunar New Year Day. I'm in Singapore. I don't know if you can tell, but this is the famous Orchard Road. This particular mall is ION, one of the glitziest malls. This is Orchard Road I'm showing you here.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/networking/male-friends/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: Is it masculine to cry? Welcome to Man Up Episode 172.

Mas-0culinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey I'm David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in love and life, and welcome to Man Up Episode 172. Today, I've got a really deep topic. By the way, I'm in Bangkok. The sun is setting, and it's always a magical time around this time of day when the sun is setting. I just love the view from the window here.

Okay, it's a quick question, "Do men cry?" from Jeremy.

"When I was in fourth grade, my grandfather passed away and my dad didn't cry. To this day, I've never seen him cry. In that moment, 23 years ago, I learned that men don't cry. And I can count on one hand the number of times I've cried since. Even when I want to, I can't. Do men cry?"

Jeremy, that was such a deep question. I've been delaying answering it in a video because it's so deep. I can easily write an entire book on this subject, but in the interest... I really want to get this out for discussion. I saw various answers to it, and even though they're very good, there are some masculine men and there are some mature men answering, but they're coming from a frame where they're almost apologizing for crying. "Even the toughest of us men cry" for instance.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masculinity/masculine-to-cry/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: When you think you can't compete with the other guy. Welcome to Man Up Episode 170.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey I'm David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love, and my fucking calves are burning. This sun is really strong. It is wet season. Humid season. Super humid here in Bali. I'm in the sun. The sun is setting is, which is partly what we're trying to get but we got to rush to the airport so you don't really get to see the sunset, but there's a very beautiful chapel behind me.

I'm answering a question from the private Man Up Facebook group. This one comes from Isaiah, and we'll be sweating through this whole fucking episode.

Isaiah. He's got two questions. His first one is: "Hey guys, I need an advice. I just met this amazing girl. I just got out of a relationship. I thought it was all over because I feel like I fucked up my life, then semi-suicidal since September until now."

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/dating/compete-with-the-other-guy/

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

The show, "Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man" (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/), is David's way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times.

In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd

Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/

Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian

Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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David's also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, PhD. And in this video I answer the question: Why is she withholding sex from you? Welcome to Man Up Episode 171.

Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, PhD. and this is Man Up!

Hey I'm David Tian, PhD. and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness, and fulfillment in life and love, and welcome to Man Up Episode 171. I'm back in Bangkok, and it's great to be back. Great food over the past week and a half here, just a great food city. I highly recommend it. It's also just a great city in Asia, lots of the typical Asian frenetic energy. Anyway, let me get to the question. A question here from Steven.

When I went over this question, I paused on whether I should answer it. It's such a big topic. So, I'm going to be referencing other videos that I've got, that I've made on this subject, just for saving time, just for the sake of time. Let me just read the question.

For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/relationships/withholding-sex/