The Man Warrior King Podcast

In this episode, Matt takes you behind the curtain of the DNA of a man. He shows men the importance of their discovering their God-given identity, and how crucial it is in rebuilding a marraige. He also guides the discussion toward available marriage help, and the reasons why "secular" sources of wisdom often have more Kingdom-like teachings than even the church does when it comes to marriage.

If you want a fiery marriage, you'll want to listen in.

• Hallock reveals his past struggles, including financial issues and marital disconnection, and the emotional pain that accompanied them. He discusses the journey to understand the disconnect between his faith and personal life, leading to feelings of abandonment.
• Hallock explores the underlying issues of self-worth and identity that many men face, particularly in relation to marriage.
• The book focuses on reclaiming joy, confidence, and identity rather than just addressing marriage issues. Hallock emphasizes the importance of a strong identity for men.
• He critiques the idea that men should disappear to allow Jesus to shine, highlighting the negative effects on marriages. He suggests a healthy application of the Biblical virtue of sacrifice for one's wife. And how sacrifice should and should NOT be done.
• Men often turn to secular teachings for insights on masculinity and marriage that are lacking in church culture. He discusses the need for a primal dynamic in marriages, contrasting it with the sanitized view often presented in church.
• Hallock argues that wives desire confident men who know their own identity, rather than submissive partners. He asserts that scripture provides a more fulfilling picture of marriage than what is often taught in church.
• Hallock encourages men to find their mission in order to live a fulfilling life. He calls on men to reclaim their purpose and take action, believing in their God-given greatness.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

Are you one of the thousands of men who pray, asking God to change their marriage, to make them more confident, to help their wives be attracted to them? Matt was too. And you know...this kind of praying and the mentality behind it...it's a huge mistake. It won't get you the results you're looking for, nor will it set you up to take charge, take action, and take your marriage back.

Listen in to find out why.

• Discussion on common mistakes Christian men make in their marriages and the dangers of praying passively without taking action.
• Understanding how unbelief can hinder God's work in marriage and the importance of faith in prayer.
• Emphasizing the need for men to acknowledge their own issues and discussing the journey towards personal and marital transformation.
• Encouraging men to change their prayers into declarations of faith and take charge of their marriage and life.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

With everything that has happened in the world over the past four to five years, many Christian teachers and laypersons alike have begun to talk about the "end times" and how we're moving into this season of things getting worse and worse, apparently "just as God has planned it."

But has he?

In today's episode, Matt challenges the prevailing mindset that no matter what you and I do, the world will continue to come more and more under the sway of evil. What if you and I are put here to save the world? What if you and I have been given the authority to steer it towards heaven? What if, instead of getting worse all the time....the world is meant to get better as the Kingdom takes up more and more residence here?

What if YOU are destined to win?

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

In this episode, Matt peels back the curtain on real life. And how everyone, you included, is meant to do great things. No one is any more gifted or any more equipped than any other. The main difference is how you see yourself. Do you see yourself as a Mighty Man? Or do you see yourself as less than? Listen in.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

In this episode, discover a completely renewed take on life. Far from the passivity-inducing "God is in control of everything" paradigm, the way Jesus teaches us to live is as those who carry authority. Authority over darkness. Authority over disease. Authority to bless and to curse. Authority to decree God's promises into your life. You need to stop assuming that everything that happens to you is God's will.

It's time for you to search out what his will actually is, and then use your authority to shape your life into an example of heaven on earth.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

00:00:01-Introduction to Authority
00:04:53-Understanding 'Exousia' and Delegating Authority
00:11:37-Victim Mentality vs. Authority

00:20:25-Shifting Mindsets and Declaring Promises

00:26:04-Blessing Others with Authority

00:29:48-Speaking Life Over Your Circumstances
00:30:30-Aligning Thoughts and Taking Action

Understanding your true value as a man is crucial for a healthy marriage. And here's the thing, the kingdom doesn't deal in zero sum games. So you stepping into your worth doesn't equate to your wife getting trampled, domineered, etc. It equates to you leader her into a marriage where you both are living in your God-given royal identities. Together you rule over the domain God has entrusted to you.

When you embrace your identity as worthy and valuable, you can love and serve your wife from a place of confidence and security, without neediness or manipulation.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

00:00:00
Introduction and Personal Background

00:01:23
Understanding Self-Worth and Misconceptions

00:05:04
Mutual Value and Confidence in Relationships

00:10:46
Living Up to Worthiness and Service

00:13:20
Fostering a High View of each Spouse in a Marriage

00:15:29
Action Plan for Identity Restoration

In this episode, discover the crucial Two Phase process that you can engage in order to revive your marriage. It's Phase One that most christian men know nothing about, and they spend their time spinning their wheels on Phase Two wondering why nothing is working!

If you have wondered why all your attempts at serving, loving, and winning your wife have only seemed to push her away, then this episode is for you.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

01:37 - 10:10

• Desire a fulfilling, fun, and connected marriage, challenging traditional views on marriage goals.
• Recognize the importance of two phases in improving marriage:
  • Phase 1: Reclaim masculine individuality.
  • Phase 2: Romance, kindness, understanding, serving.
• Acknowledge that misconceptions about marriage dynamics have been perpetuated, and it's time to understand God's design for relationships.

09:30 - 19:38

• Many men feel their marriages are suffering, with a sense of lost respect and intimacy from their wives.
• Phase 1 focuses on reclaiming masculine individuality, essential for restoring marriage dynamics.
• Men often sacrifice their identities and interests for their wives, leading to resentment and loss of respect.
• It's important to establish boundaries and confront issues instead of avoiding conflict.
• Reclaiming individuality creates a healthy distance, enabling men to show self-respect without being mean.
• Phase 1 prepares men for Phase 2, where genuine kindness and romantic gestures are appreciated once they have their own identity and confidence.
• The lack of balance between these phases contributes to struggles in many marriages, particularly within Christian contexts.

19:13 - 21:36

• Emphasizes the importance of balancing both "alpha" and "gentle" qualities in marriage.
• Warns against becoming distant and neglectful, leading to feelings of abandonment in partners.
• Encourages men to work on self-identity, desires, boundaries, and communication skills.
• Offers coaching and resources, including the book "The DNA of a Man."
• Urges men to embrace their value and contribute positively to their relationships and communities.
• Promotes engagement with the Man Warrior King community for support and growth.

Christian husbands, it's time to face a hard truth: being "nice" and passive isn't the key to a passionate marriage. Many of you have been misled by well-meaning but misguided advice that physical attraction doesn't matter in a godly union. This couldn't be further from the truth. The Bible speaks extensively about the importance of sexual intimacy in marriage, and it's time to reclaim this vital aspect of your relationship.

To revive your marriage, you must embrace your God-given masculinity. This doesn't mean becoming a tyrant, but rather stepping up as a strong, confident leader who isn't afraid to pursue his wife. No more neediness or seeking validation - it's time to become the man your wife can't help but be attracted to. Remember, your faith alone won't ignite her desire. You need to embody the qualities of a true man warrior king: strength, passion, and unwavering commitment.

Don't fall into the trap of believing that your wife's lack of attraction is solely her problem. Take ownership of your role in the relationship. Lead by example, both spiritually and physically. Reignite your own passion for life, for God, and for your wife. When you become the best version of yourself, your wife will naturally be drawn to you. This isn't about manipulation; it's about becoming the man God designed you to be.

It's time to stop settling for a lukewarm marriage. You have the power to create the passionate, fulfilling relationship you both deserve. Don't let fear or false humility hold you back. Embrace your role as a leader, lover, and protector. Your wife is waiting for you to step up and be the man she can lean on, trust, and desire.

Listen to the full episode of the Man Warrior King podcast to dive deeper into these truths. Then, take the next step in your journey to authentic masculinity by purchasing "The DNA of a Man." This book will equip you with the tools and insights you need to transform your marriage and become the man you were created to be. Don't wait another day - start reviving your marriage now.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

• Aim for a passionate, authentic life focused on faith and presence.
• Embrace your identity as a man, warrior, and king with conviction.
• Discusses the importance of physical attraction in marriage alongside godliness.
• Challenges the church's teachings that downplay attraction.
• Stresses that physical attraction is vital for a healthy marriage.
• Encourages men to seek ways to rekindle attraction rather than accept its decline.
• Emphasizes the need for personal growth to enhance marital desire.
• Understand who you need to become to reawaken physical attraction in your marriage.
• Avoid accepting the notion that attraction fades over time; strive to be undeniably attractive.
• Don't argue or plead for attraction; instead, lead by example and improve yourself.
• If you’re losing attraction for your wife, recognize that your own complacency may be influencing her.
• Physical attraction is essential for a healthy marriage and can help resolve conflicts.
• Don't rely solely on faith to maintain attraction; balance your spiritual and relational responsibilities.
• Seek help or coaching if needed to improve your marriage dynamics.

In this episode, explore the possible explanations for why prayers for healing may not be answered. Matt challenges the belief that God controls all things, and that he's up in heaven arbitrarily decided who will get healing and who won't. We look at the importance of faith in receiving healing, and Matt shares his personal experience of battling a physical disease. It's time that we all take responsibility for growing in faith and not giving up in the battle for healing. Matt offers to pray for anyone in need of healing.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

TOPICS DISCUSSED

00:00 - 09:48
Kingdom living, Physical healing, Miracles, Prayer, Health battles, God's control, Salvation, Authority, Sickness eradication

09:54 - 19:49
God's will, faith, prayer, growth, responsibility

19:53 - 22:01
Healing, Personal development, Belief, Rest, Faith, Self-improvement

In this episode, have your eyes opened to the Kingdom truth that shatters a very common religious lie that too many Christian men believe. "I have to get myself out of the way. And any acknowledgement that I can do something good is wrong." Let's see what Jesus himself ACTUALLY said.

If you haven't yet, be sure to grab The DNA of a Man.

Also, if you're interested in working with Matt one-on-one in the Unshakeable Man coaching program...click here to download the PDF writeup about the program and book a free 30 minute REBUILD coaching call with Matt.

TOPICS DISCUSSED

00:02 - 09:50
Challenging church mindset, Understanding biblical manhood, Being the salt of the earth, Being the light of the world, Letting your light shine, Balancing humility and self-worth, Living in tension with kingdom truths, Being connected to the vine

09:51 - 19:48
Identity, Self-worth, Good works, Gospel message, Religious lies, Raw kingdom faith, Mission, Marriage revival, Christian teaching, Kingdom man