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  • Unmasking the Shadow: Comparing Lori Daybell and Ruby Franke’s Narcissistic Traits with John Dehlin (MSP)

    Join me for an eye-opening exploration of the chilling parallels between Lori Vallow Daybell and Ruby Franke, two women whose lives spiraled into true crime infamy. With expert insights from John Dehlin of "Mormon Stories," we examine where LDS teachings, narcissistic traits, and criminal actions collide.

    In this episode, we dissect:

    • Personality Traits: The narcissistic behaviors of Lori and Ruby and how they shaped their actions.
    • Religious Beliefs: How their views on Mormon doctrine—family roles, discipline, and doomsday beliefs—drove radical choices.
    • Crimes Committed: From Ruby’s child abuse to Lori’s conspiracy to murder, analyzing the impact of their beliefs and personalities.

    John Dehlin’s psychological expertise reveals:

    • The mechanisms behind their actions.
    • How religious extremism can foster such behaviors.
    • Mormon cultural and doctrinal elements that may amplify these tendencies.

    Why Listen?

    • Gain a unique perspective on faith, narcissism, and tragic outcomes.
    • Understand the broader impact on the LDS community and true crime.
    • Hear from an expert deeply engaged in Mormonism’s complexities.

    Don’t forget to subscribe for more insights on religion, psychology, and crime. Share your thoughts on how these cases challenge views of faith and behavior!

    Note: This episode discusses sensitive topics like child abuse, murder, and psychological disorders. Listener discretion is advised.

    For info on my on-demand E-Course to learn how to identify and defend against manipulation and control, email: [email protected]

    2 hr 5 min
  • LDS Bigotry: Revealing Dallin Oaks' Views on Women, Family, and the Exclusion of LGBTQ Blessings

    Dive deep into the complexities of faith, identity, and personal growth in this transformative episode of "The Midlife Revolution." In this episode, I explore my journey of leaving the Mormon Church after decades of membership, focusing on a significant talk by Elder Dallin H. Oaks from October 2019. This discussion centers on his views on women's roles and the church's stance towards the LGBTQ community, highlighting the gap between the church's inclusive rhetoric and its exclusionary policies.

    Listen as I dissect the implications of these teachings on personal lives, especially for women over 40 who are reevaluating their faith and seeking authenticity in their spiritual journey.

    Learn how small, positive changes can lead to profound life improvements, using my own experience as a testament to the power of personal revolution at midlife.

    Explore the dissonance between 'all are welcome' statements and the reality of church policies that bar full participation for the LGBTQ community.

    This episode is not just about critique; it's a beacon for those navigating their way out of high control environments, whether religious, familial, or otherwise. Join the conversation on:

    Finding your voice after years of silence

    Rebuilding your life with authenticity and joy 

    Embracing change in midlife

     

    Leaving Mormon Church, high control religions, women over 40, Dallin H. Oaks, LDS Church critique, faith deconstruction, personal growth, midlife change, small positive changes, LGBTQ exclusion, spiritual awakening, authenticity in faith, leaving religion, life after church, women's roles in church.


     #MidlifeRevolution  #FaithDeconstruction #HighControlReligion


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    46 min
  • LDS Transgender Policies, Science, and a Mother's Love. The New LDS Trans Policy is Harmful to LGBTQ

    In this deeply moving episode of "The Midlife Revolution," I sit down with Evelyn, a mother whose journey of faith, family, and love has been profoundly altered by her son's transgender identity. Raised in the LDS faith, Evelyn shares her heartfelt reaction to her son coming out as trans and her evolving understanding of love and acceptance in the face of the church's latest transgender policies released in August. 

    Hear Evelyn's personal story of navigating her faith and family dynamics when her son revealed his true self, leading to her decision to advise him against attending church services.

    Explore the science behind the increasing visibility and acknowledgment of transgender individuals in society, providing a factual basis to counter misinformation.

    Analyze the new LDS transgender policies from the perspective of a 7th generation Mormon, discussing the implications, the cultural impact, and the potential harm these policies might perpetuate within the church community.

    This episode is not just an interview; it's an invitation to understand, empathize, and educate ourselves about transgender experiences, parental support, and the intersection of faith with identity. 

    LDS transgender policies, transgender acceptance, mother of transgender child, leaving Mormon church, faith deconstruction, transgender science, transgender population rise, parental love, queer in religion, Mormon family, church and transgender issues, support for trans youth, LDS policy critique, transgender journey, faith vs. identity.


    #LDSChurchPolicies #TransgenderJourney #ParentalLove

    2 hr 9 min
  • Disney Detective Tells All! Live Q&A

    Join Megan Conner and former Walt Disney Corporation Detective Randy Watts as he discusses the premiere of his interview, and answers your questions LIVE!

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    1 hr 9 min
  • Disney Parks Most MYSTERIOUS Facts Exposed

    Discover the most mysterious facts about Disney Parks, including secrets about crime and underground tunnels revealed by a former Disney detective!

    Ever wondered what really goes on behind the scenes of Disney? A former Disney detective is spilling all the secrets on crime and marketing! From the techniques used to catch shoplifters to the clever marketing strategies that keep you coming back for more, this ex-Disney detective is dishing out all the juicy details. Get ready for a wild ride as we explore the world of Disney like never before. Whether you're a Disney fanatic or just curious about the business side of the Happiest Place on Earth, this episode is for you! So sit back, relax, and get ready for some serious secrets to be spilled.

    Tags: true crime, true crime stories, investigative journalism, marketing strategies, crime stories, storytelling, entertainment industry, insider information, corporate secrets, behind the scenes, marketing secrets, crime investigation, Walt Disney, Disney corporation, crime secrets

    1 hr 54 min
  • My Faith Deconstruction Journey Made Me Question EVERYTHING!

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    Join Megan Conner and Lila Tueller for a vulnerable and eye opening conversation about the eye-opening transformation that takes places when Lila examines her faith after growing up as the daughter of a high-ranking  LDS General authority. Learn how she navigated the difficult transition from faithful LDS member to leaving religion all together. People of all faiths will resonate with her honest and relatable story as she shares her struggles and triumphs in finding her power and voice outside of a patriarchal structure. 

    #faithjourney #ldsclips #interview 

    Tags: faith journey, faith crisis, questioning belief, LDS faith crisis, ex-mormon, apostle, spirituality, spiritual abuse, religious abuse, doubt your doubts, sunstone, September 6, excommunication, mormon, mormon stories, megan conner, faith deconstruction


    2 hr 50 min
  • Leaving the LDS Church: Faith, Hope, and Healing with Nathan Hinkley from The Bishop’s Interview!

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    What happens when faith unravels in a high-demand religion like Mormonism? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Nathan Hinkley from The Bishop’s Interview to explore his journey of leaving the LDS Church. From grappling with the pressures of a high-control faith to uncovering hope for the future, Nathan shares raw insights into his faith deconstruction, the role of narcissism in religious dynamics, and the emotional aftermath that echoes true crime-level intensity. Whether you’re questioning your own beliefs, navigating a faith transition, or intrigued by the darker corners of Mormonism, this episode offers a blend of personal story and eye-opening revelations. Subscribe for more deep dives into high-demand religions, narcissism, and the search for truth!

    Connect with Nathan:    @thebishopsinterview   

    #LeavingMormonism #HighDemandReligion #FaithDeconstruction

    1 hr 44 min
  • How to Spot Red Flags: Avoid Dating a Narcissist! Insights from a Recovered Narcissist Ft. Jonathan

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    Wondering how to spot red flags when dating a narcissist? In this episode, I sit down with Jonathan from Awakening Expansion, a recovered narcissist, to explore the warning signs you need to know. From love-bombing to a lack of empathy, we uncover the subtle—and not-so-subtle—behaviors narcissists display in relationships, plus how to protect yourself. Jonathan shares his recovery journey, offering rare insights into the narcissist’s mind and actionable tips to identify these traits early. Whether you’re dating someone new or healing from a past relationship, this conversation brings clarity and empowerment. Subscribe for more real talk on relationships and personal growth!

    Tags: Red Flags When Dating a Narcissist, Recovered Narcissist, Narcissist Recovery, Spot a Narcissist, Love-Bombing, Gaslighting, Narcissistic Behavior


    49 min
  • My LDS Mission Was Run Like a Business: Emotional Manipulation Tactics of LDS Missionaries, Part 2

    In Part 2 of our explosive series, a former Mormon missionary blows the whistle on the business strategies employed by mission presidents to boost convert baptisms. This episode uncovers the corporate-style tactics used within the LDS Church, revealing how mission presidents prioritize numbers over genuine spiritual growth. Through insider accounts, expert analysis, and a deep dive into the intersection of religion and business, we expose the manipulative practices driving the church’s growth agenda.

    • Business Models in Missions: Learn how mission presidents use sales techniques, quotas, and performance metrics to pressure missionaries into achieving higher baptism numbers.

    • Former Missionary Testimony: Hear a firsthand account from a whistleblower who witnessed these strategies in action and grappled with the ethical dilemmas they faced.
    • The Cost of Conversion: Understand the psychological and emotional toll on both missionaries and converts when faith is reduced to a business transaction.

    Why Listen?

    • Discover the hidden parallels between high-demand religion and corporate culture.
    • Recognize the signs of coercive control and manipulation in religious settings.
    • Equip yourself with knowledge to heal from or protect against exploitative practices.

    Tags: LDS Church, Mormon Missionaries, Mission President Tactics, Convert Baptisms, Religious Business Strategies, Narcissism, Healing from Abuse, True Crime, Cult Tactics, Religious Manipulation, High-Demand Religion, Coercive Control, Spiritual Abuse, Cult Psychology, Mormon Whistleblower

    Follow Jonathan on IG: @awakening_expansion  

    Find more about Jonathan here!

    • Link to Jonathan

    1 hr 51 min
  • Former LDS Missionary EXPOSES Emotional Manipulation Tactics Used by the Mormon Church, Part 1

    Uncover the hidden tactics used by the LDS Church to convert new members through emotional manipulation. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the strategies taught to Mormon missionaries, revealing how they target vulnerable individuals with psychological techniques to boost conversions. Through insider perspectives and expert analysis, learn the systematic approach and its impact on unsuspecting people.

    • Former Missionary Exposes the Truth: A whistleblower shares firsthand insights into these practices.
    • Missionary Training: Explore the "Preach My Gospel" manual and resources guiding missionaries’ conversion efforts.
    • Emotional Manipulation Techniques: Discover how loneliness, life transitions, and personal loss are exploited to gain converts.
    • Survivor Stories: Hear from those who’ve faced these tactics and found recovery.

    Why Listen?

    • Gain critical insight into religious recruitment practices.
    • Recognize signs of emotional manipulation in any context.
    • Empower yourself with knowledge to heal or protect against such experiences.

    Follow Jonathan on IG: @awakening_expansion

     Find more about Jonathan here!

    E-Course: Identify and defend against manipulation tactics—email [email protected]

    2 hr 21 min

About The Midlife Revolution

From the publisher's feed

Welcome to The Midlife Revolution, a podcast where we explore the small changes that lead to revolutionary transformations in our lives, hosted by Megan Conner, the author of "I Walked Through Fire To Get Here" and founder of Third Verse, a community dedicated to helping people make positive changes in their lives and relationships, starting with your relationship with yourself! She understands the daily grind of balancing family, work, and personal aspirations, and feeling stuck in repetitive patterns dictated by society and our own expectations.

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