The Mom's Got This... Mostly Podcast

The Mom's Got This... Mostly Podcast

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  • It's Not an Octopus, It's a Fish

    Some weeks hand you a lot. A 12-hour road trip. A wedding full of people you love. Emotions you can't quite name. And a body that's just... done.

    This episode is a little different. It's more of an experience than a typical conversation — and it starts in the dark, with a candle, and a shower.

    In this solo episode, Alicia shares two simple practices that helped her process an unexpectedly emotional weekend: a "dark shower" she'd never heard of until it showed up on her Instagram feed, and 10 minutes of journaling that turned an octopus of feelings into something she could actually hold.

    We talk about:

    • What a dark shower is and why it works
    • The journaling technique that gives clarity, permission, and two good cries in under 10 minutes
    • Why suppressing emotions takes more energy than expressing them
    • Why nervous system regulation doesn't have to be a whole thing
    • If you've ever gone to bed hoping sleep would resolve your feelings — and woken up to find them still there — this one's for you.

      EPISODE RESOURCES

      • Connect with Alicia:
      • Come Home To Yourself: A Guided Group Experience: Save My Spot
      • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
      • 21 min
      • Wonder Over Worry: Releasing the Grip and Trusting the Flow with Cara Nance

        What if the answer to "how is this all going to work out" isn't more planning — it's more trust?

        In this episode, Alicia sits down with Cara Nance, Gallup Certified Strengths Coach, founder of Tutum Leadership Coaching, and host of the Tutum Talk podcast, for a conversation that feels less like an interview and more like a deep exhale.

        Cara and Alicia talk about what it really means to follow your inner knowing when the noise around you is loud, why your logical brain can't map the next chapter of your life (and what to do instead), and the simple but powerful mindset shift — wonder over worry — that just might change the way you move through uncertainty.

        If you've been waiting to feel ready, second-guessing your next step, or quietly wondering if there's something more for you — this one's for you, mama.

        In this episode we cover:

        • Trusting your intuition over outside opinions
        • Building self-trust while you're still becoming 
        • Why being confused might mean you're right on track 
        • The energy of surrender vs. the grip of fear
        • Who to share your dreams with (and who to keep them from)
        • EPISODE RESOURCES

          Connect with Cara:

          • 6 in 6 Mastermind: Learn More 
          • Website: TutumTeadershipCoaching.com
          • Instagram:@tutumleadershipcoaching
          • LinkedIn: @CaraNance
          • YouTube: Watch her channel here
          • Connect with Alicia:

            • Come Home To Yourself: A Guided Group Experience: Grab Your Spot
            • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
            • 45 min
            • Why You Feel Disconnected and How to Come Back to Yourself

              In this episode, Alicia shares a recent experience that completely shifted the way she moves through her life.

              Nothing around her changed — but for the first time, she didn’t lose herself in it.

              If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or like you’re just holding everything together… this episode is for you.

               

              EPISODE RESOURCES

              • Come Home To Yourself: A Guided Group Experience: Grab Your Spot
              • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
              • Episode 31 - When Survival Mode Becomes Normal: Listen Here
              • Nervous System Regulating Subliminal (YouTube): Listen Here
              • 17 min
              • Letting It Be Easy: Ambition, Motherhood & Flow with Susanne Eifler

                In this deeply grounding and expansive conversation, Alicia sits down with Susanne Eifler—former international business owner turned intuitive coach—to explore what it really looks like to build a life and career that supports you, not the other way around.

                After building and leading a successful international company for 27 years, Susanne shares how she approached business and motherhood differently from the very beginning. When she became a mother in 2001, she made a clear and intentional decision: her life would come first and her business would be designed to support it.

                From that point on, she set non-negotiable boundaries—including keeping Fridays completely off—and built a company that allowed her to be present for her family without sacrificing her ambition.

                Together, Alicia and Susanne unpack the quiet tension so many ambitious moms feel—the pull toward something more, even when life looks successful on paper—and what it looks like to follow that pull with trust instead of force.

                This conversation explores:

                • What it looks like to design your business around your life from the start
                • Why success can still feel misaligned—and how to navigate that 
                • The power of self-trust, even when you don’t have the full plan 
                • Letting go of timelines, expectations, and rigid outcomes 
                • Simple ways to reconnect with your inner voice through meditation and journaling 
                • The difference between forcing results and allowing them to unfold 
                • If you’ve been feeling the pull toward something more—but can’t quite see the full path yet—this episode will feel like a deep exhale and a gentle reminder:

                  You don’t need to burn your life down.

                  You need to come back home to yourself.

                  EPISODE RESOURCES

                  Connect with Susanne:

                  • Website: https://susanneeifler.com/
                  • Podcast: https://susanneeifler.com/podcast
                  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanne.eifler_/
                  • Join Newsletter Community: https://susanneeifler.com/newsletter-opt-in
                  • Free Conscious Leadership Quiz: https://link.feacreate.com/widget/quiz/QVEXhC6LyfWT5O4TlFCv
                  • Book a free call with Susanne: https://link.feacreate.com/widget/booking/wf8HzYMkQE7vY5ful3J4
                  • Meditation Resources:

                    • Total Meditation with Lil John(Yup, Lil John has a meditation album on Spotify and it’s amazing – perfect for new meditators and millennial moms)
                    • The Calm App (Where I started my meditation journey and the sleep stories are the best!)
                    • Next Level You with Christina the Channel(Looking for something deeply spiritual and dreamy? This has been my favorite source for guided meditations this year!) 
                    • Connect with Alicia:

                      • Schedule a free Aligned Ambition call: Here 
                      • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
                      • 39 min
                      • The Moment You Realize Your Life No Longer Fits with Elizabeth Rave

                        In this episode, I sit down with Elizabeth Rave—artist, therapist-in-training, and relationship coach—for a deeply honest conversation about what happens when the life you built no longer feels aligned.

                        Elizabeth shares her journey from creative, purpose-driven work into motherhood, and the subtle way she found herself pouring all of her energy into others—until one day, she realized she had lost her own sense of direction.

                        We talk about the quiet identity shift so many ambitious moms experience, and how to recognize when your “buckets” are out of balance—when you’re showing up fully for your family, but feeling disconnected from your work, your passions, or yourself.

                        Elizabeth opens up about what it actually looked like to recalibrate her life without burning everything down—starting with one small step of reconnecting with art after 20 years.

                        Inside this episode, we explore:

                        • Why fulfillment can quietly drift after becoming a mom 
                        • How to recognize when your life is out of alignment 
                        • The power of starting small instead of waiting for clarity 
                        • Why trying to plan your entire life creates overwhelm 
                        • How to release mom guilt and trust that your kids are okay 
                        • If you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, “This isn’t quite it…”—this conversation will help you understand why, and what to do next.

                          EPISODE RESOURCES

                          • Connect with Elizabeth:
                            • Instagram: ElizabethRaveArt
                            • Podcast: Seeking True Love (Check out episode #13 with Alicia!) 
                            • Free Gift: “5 Dating Mistakes that Every Highly Sensitive Woman Should Avoid” PDF
                            • Connect with Alicia:
                              • Schedule a free Aligned Ambition call: Here
                              • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
                              • 26 min
                              • The Truth About Hard Seasons: Why Everything Is Still Working in Your Favor

                                Today’s episode is a raw, heartfelt conversation about navigating hard seasons—the ones that stretch you, test you, and ask more of you than you feel ready to give.

                                If you’re in a season that feels heavy, uncertain, or just harder than expected, this episode will remind you that you’re not stuck—you’re evolving.

                                Alicia shares the mindset shifts and beliefs that have carried her through years of challenge, including how to reframe difficult seasons, trust that everything is unfolding for your growth, and stay anchored in faith even when you can’t yet see the full picture.

                                This is your reminder that the pressure you feel isn’t random—it’s preparation. And even now, something beautiful is unfolding.

                                EPISODE RESOURCES

                                • Connect with Alicia:
                                  • Schedule your free Aligned Ambition coaching call: Here 
                                  • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
                                  • 25 min
                                  • They Told Her She Couldn’t—So She Built a School Anyway with Lindsay Jacobi

                                    What do you do when the dream on your heart doesn’t make sense to anyone else?

                                    In this episode, I’m joined by Lindsay Jacobi, founder of Acton Academy Morristown and creator of the Glow Up Collective, who shares the story of how she built a school—while raising three young children, including a newborn—despite being told she wasn’t qualified and that it couldn’t be done. 

                                    This conversation is about more than entrepreneurship—it’s about trusting yourself when your vision doesn’t fit inside traditional expectations.

                                    We talk about:

                                    • What it really looks like to pursue a “big” dream in the middle of motherhood
                                    • How to move forward when others don’t understand (or support) your vision
                                    • The mindset shift that allowed her to keep going despite doubt
                                    • Why you don’t have to have it all figured out to begin
                                    • And one of the most powerful reminders from this episode:

                                      You don’t have to blow up your life to start moving in the direction of your dream.

                                      If you’ve been feeling the pull toward something more—but questioning whether it’s realistic, responsible, or even possible — this episode will meet you right there and expand what you believe is available to you.

                                      EPISODE RESOURCES

                                      Connect with Lindsay:

                                      • Free gift! The 48 Hr Glow-Up Protocol: https://glowupcollective.co/resources
                                      • Website: https://glowupcollective.co/
                                      • Instagram handle: @lindsaystewartjacobi
                                      • Connect with Alicia:

                                        • Schedule your free Aligned Ambition coaching call: Here 
                                        • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
                                        • 23 min
                                        • What If Your Career Misalignment Is Actually Leading You to Your Purpose?

                                          If you’re an ambitious mom questioning your career path and wondering if you’re meant for something more aligned, this episode explores how career transitions can lead you back to your true purpose. 

                                          In this reflective solo episode of Mom’s Got This… Mostly, Alicia shares a powerful realization that came through during a recent breathwork experience about purpose, career alignment, and why the next step in your career may be the doorway to something deeper. 

                                          Many ambitious moms reach a moment where life looks successful on paper — the career, the credentials, the responsibilities — yet something inside quietly asks, Is this really the path I’m meant to be on?

                                          Alicia explores how so many women become disconnected from their deeper purpose as life, expectations, and responsibilities accumulate over time, and why discovering your purpose often begins with a simple but courageous step: questioning whether the work you chose years ago still aligns with who you are today.

                                          In this episode, she shares:

                                          • Why your next career move doesn’t have to be your final destination

                                          • How fear and “sunk-cost thinking” keep women stuck in misaligned work
                                          • The difference between reacting to life and intentionally designing it
                                          • Why a strategic transition can be the first step toward your purpose

                                          If you’ve felt the quiet pull toward something more aligned, this episode will help you see that your next step might simply be the next evolution of who you’re becoming.

                                          EPISODE RESOURCES

                                          • Schedule your free Aligned Ambition coaching call: Here 
                                          • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
                                          • 23 min
                                          • You Can Love Being a Mom… and Still Want More with Jessica Hammock

                                            What happens when the dream you carried for years finally comes true… and you still feel a pull for more?

                                            In this powerful conversation, Jessica “Vibrant” Hammock shares her journey through marriage trauma, infertility, and ultimately becoming a mother after a ten-year wait. But what surprised her most wasn’t motherhood itself — it was the identity recalibration that followed.

                                            For ambitious women who once believed motherhood would be the final destination, this episode explores what it means when purpose expands beyond what we originally imagined.

                                            We talk about:

                                            • navigating grief when dreams evolve
                                            • releasing shame around wanting more beyond motherhood
                                            • modeling ambition and boundaries for your children
                                            • redefining legacy and long-term impact
                                            • and building a life that honors both nurture and calling

                                            If you’re a driven mom who loves your children deeply but feels a quiet pull to create, lead, or build something meaningful alongside motherhood, this conversation will remind you that wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful — it makes you self-aware.

                                            You don’t have to choose between presence and purpose. You can design both — intentionally.

                                            EPISODE RESOURCES

                                            • Connect with Jessica:
                                              • Facebook: Vibrant Voice by Jessica
                                              • Instagram: JessicaVibrant_Hammock
                                              • Website: www.vibrantvoice.life
                                              • Gift: Get Your Free Scale and Shift Guide HERE
                                              • Connect with Alicia:
                                                • Schedule a free Aligned Ambition call: Here 
                                                • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
                                                • 30 min
                                                • The Great Millennial Career Crisis — And Why It Hits Ambitious Mothers Harder

                                                  The “Great Millennial Career Crisis” is everywhere right now — burnout, financial stagnation, and the realization that the traditional work-hard-and-you’ll-be-secure promise hasn’t delivered.

                                                  But for ambitious mothers, this crisis goes even deeper.

                                                  In this episode of Mom’s Got This… Mostly, Alicia unpacks why millennial women didn’t just buy into career ambition — we bought into total life optimization. Thriving careers. Present motherhood. Fit bodies. Beautiful homes. Strong marriages. Financial independence. And somehow doing it all effortlessly.

                                                  No wonder so many high-achieving moms feel exhausted.

                                                  This isn’t laziness. It isn’t failure. It’s math.

                                                  You’ll learn:

                                                  • Why burnout among millennial women is at an all-time high
                                                  • How “having it all” became “doing everything at once”
                                                  • Why quitting isn’t the only option
                                                  • A simple two-step recalibration framework to regain agency
                                                  • How to prioritize strategically instead of burning your life down
                                                  • If you’re a driven working mom who feels successful on paper but overwhelmed in reality, this episode will help you shift from panic to power — and start building ambition that aligns with your real life.

                                                    EPISODE RESOURCES

                                                    • Schedule a free Aligned Ambition call: Here 
                                                    • Instagram: @a.s.grantham
                                                    • 19 min

                                                    About The Mom's Got This... Mostly Podcast

                                                    From the publisher's feed

                                                    Welcome to The Mom’s Got This… Mostly Podcast — the show for full-time working moms who are crushing career goals, wrangling tiny humans, and wondering if “doing your best” can include cereal for dinner. Hosted by coach and former corporate mama Alicia Grantham. Each episode offers honest conversations, mindset shifts, and real-life strategies for navigating work, motherhood, and everything in between. From daycare drama to burnout recovery to finding 5 freaking minutes for yourself, this podcast is your weekly reminder that perfection is overrated and you’re doing better than you think.