The Most Detailed Predator Expose That We Have Ever Heard!

PJ, a licensed therapist, reacts to episode 2 of the Netflix series “Bad Vegan: Fame. Fraud. Fugitives”.  As PJ explores, Bad Vegan contains so many great examples of emotional abuse and what we call “predatory behaviour”; the kind of behaviour where an abuser manipulates and coerces their partner solely for the purposes of meeting their own needs and satisfying their own selfish gratification. 

In the first episode PJ discussed how Sarma is the quintessential  ‘prey’: kind, thoughtful and people-oriented.  Unfortunately, this also makes her a real target.  In the second episode, PJ breaks down Mr. Fox’s constant coercion and manipulation of Sarma, to the point of turning her most loyal friends against her.  

We encourage you to watch the show itself before listening to this episode, and check out this episode on youtube if you want to get the most out of our breakdown! 

After the show launched, Sarma also spoke out against how the series ended and the impressions this ending left audiences with.  We strongly encourage everyone to check out Sarma’s Instagram for more: @sarmamelngailis

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WE STRONGLY ENCOURAGE WATCHING THIS EPISODE ON OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: https://youtu.be/sGaohAhrY6o

PJ, a licensed therapist from prey vs predator the podcast, reacts to the Netflix series “Bad Vegan: Fame. Fraud. Fugitives”, pointing out how we can see the patterns of emotional abuse in Sarma’s relationship with Mr. Fox..  This show has TONS of examples of what we call “predatory behaviour” and the prey-predator dynamics of emotional abuse.

In the first episode, PJ discusses how Sarma is established as a hard-working, highly conscientious person dedicated to building a thriving business and investing in the people around her.  In the language we use on our podcast, she is a quintessential  ‘prey’: kind, thoughtful and people-oriented.  Unfortunately, this also makes her a target for exploitation by less kind actors, individuals we refer to on this podcast as ‘predators’.

We encourage you to watch the series before listening to this episode if you want to get the most out of this breakdown!

Finally, after the show launched Sarma spoke out against how the filmmakers ended the series and the impressions this ending left audiences with.  We strongly encourage everyone to check out Sarma’s instagram for more: @sarmamelngailis

Want to get in touch?  We would love to hear from you.  You can message us on Instagram or Facebook, or email us at [email protected]

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In the series Bad Vegan: Fame. Fraud. Fugitives on Netflix, we can see a ton of examples of the prey-predator dynamics we explore in our podcast.

In short, the show chronicles the relationship between Sarma, a highly successful business woman in New York, and Mr. Fox, a man who systematically exploited her in every possible way throughout their relationship.

While this is certainly an extreme case, it nevertheless contains some amazing examples of so many of the concepts we explore in our show, from gaslighting, to love bombing and beyond.

We encourage you to watch the series before listening to our podcast if you want to get the most out of this episode!

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What is the language of abuse?   

Have you ever been told by a partner, friend of family member, "I know you better than you know yourself"? Amber, one of our hosts on this podcast, discusses how her mother used this phrase to control and manipulate - to tell her who she was and what she could accomplish.  

One of the most powerful ways predators control their prey is by imposing themselves on their prey’s story.  They can do this by laying claim to an insider’s knowledge of another person, saying things like, “I know you better than you know yourself”.  Amber experienced this with her mother who was constantly telling her who she was, her flaws and failures, and diminishing her successes.   It may seem benign but this simple strategy is a powerful way predators shut up and shut down their prey. 

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Welcome to Prey VS Predator!

This podcast is all about helping people identify and put a language to emotional abuse. 

As survivors of emotional abuse, what we call PREY on this podcast, we three hosts (Jill, Amber and PJ) all draw from wells of personal experience to equip others with the language and tools they need to navigate relationships with predators.

Tune in every week as we unpack what it means to be 'PREY' and 'PREDATOR', and how understanding these patterns of behavior can help us navigate our world.

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Links for crisis shelters and other victim resources can be found below: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html https://sheltersafe.ca/ https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh