Our guest Dana Bowman, in her new book, How to Be Perfect Like Me, discusses the lure of perfectionism, trying to be a flawless wife, mother, and person in recovery. In this funny and revealing follow-up to her best-selling book Bottled , Dana reflects on how we live in a society of excess, always pushing ourselves to do and be better. However, it doesn’t take her long to realize that self-care and getting over herself is the key to happiness.