In an age obsessed with visibility, applause, and platform, this episode of The New Rules Podcast confronts a hard but necessary truth: real leadership is not built on reputation — it’s forged through weight, substance, and unseen seasons.

Adrian Crawford and Brianna Clark unpack why chasing approval leads to fragile influence, why the next generation of leaders won’t have the luxury of skipping hard formation, and what it actually takes to build something that endures when the applause fades. 

This conversation isn’t about branding yourself better. It’s about becoming someone worthy of lasting impact. Most leaders chase reputation. Few build substance.

If you’re tired of shallow leadership advice and ready to build something that carries real weight, this episode is for you.

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Leadership is changing—and the leaders who thrive in today's fast-paced world are the ones who can make quick, confident decisions under pressure.

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian breaks down a simple but powerful 3-step framework that every leader needs for sharp, effective decision-making.

Learn how to: 

• Use self-awareness to guide your thinking in high-stakes moments

• Perform decision “autopsies” that help you grow from mistakes and wins

• Apply first-principle thinking to cut through the noise and focus on what matters

This isn’t about moving fast just to keep up. It’s about moving with clarity, confidence, and intention—even when the pressure is on.

🧠 Reflection Questions: • How does anxiety impact your decision-making speed? • Are you reacting to pressure or responding with clarity? • What’s one recent decision you wish you had slowed down for?

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In a world filled with uncertainty, leadership isn't about waiting for clarity—it's about finding the next “yes” in the midst of chaos.

In this episode, Adrian and Bri dive into the challenge of building something meaningful when the rules keep changing. From NIL and the transfer portal in college athletics to launching new ventures in economic downturns, they explore what it means to lead, risk, and stay grounded in purpose—even when nothing feels stable.

You’ll hear: 

- How to lead authentically when systems feel unfair or inconsistent - Why fear and apathy are the biggest threats in uncertain times - What “finding the yes” looks like in real-life decision-making - Lessons from launching businesses in economic downturns - How to develop the resilience to keep going when you're exhausted

Reflection Questions:

• What’s one area of your life where you’re waiting for clarity before moving forward?

• Where are you blaming external systems instead of asking “What can I do?”

• What’s one risk you've been avoiding that could lead to real growth?

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What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t because of your vision—but because of your systems?

In this episode we break down the hidden wiring of your life—the internal frameworks that either sustain your growth or sabotage it. This isn’t about grinding harder. It’s about building smarter.

 Adrian and Bri unpack:

• The reason vision alone will burn you out

• The daily decisions that quietly shape your future

• Why outdated internal systems are holding people back

• How to rebuild your rhythms to actually support your calling

They walk through 4 core systems every leader needs:

 ✅ Behavioral Systems – The habits that support your direction ✅ Self-Awareness Mechanisms – Internal sensors that keep you grounded ✅ Adaptability & Flexibility – Structures that bend with transition, not break ✅ Purpose Alignment – A compass that ensures your systems lead somewhere meaningful

If you’ve ever felt like your life is outpacing your infrastructure, this one’s for you.

Reflection Questions

1. What part of your daily routine needs an upgrade to match your goals?

2. Where are you being rigid instead of adaptable?

3. Are your current habits truly aligned with your long-term calling?

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What if the delay isn’t a denial—but part of your preparation?

We all hit moments where it feels like nothing is happening—where all the work, effort, and faithfulness seem invisible. But what if what you’re building is bigger than your timeline?

🎙️ In Episode 79, we dive into: ✅ How to know if you're in a delay or a dead end ✅ Why internal growth often comes before external results ✅ The challenge of building in the dark when no one is watching ✅ How to shift from frustration to focus on long-term impact ✅ Why movements don’t start with crowds—they start with consistency

If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this episode is for you.

🔗 Watch now & stay the course. Your future is waiting.

📢 Reflection Questions:

• Where in your life are you struggling with delays?

• Are you focusing too much on external results while missing internal growth?

• What’s one thing you can commit to consistently, even when no one is watching?

Check out Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Silicon Valley's Bill Campbell:

https://www.amazon.com/Trillion-Dollar-Coach-Leadership-Playbook/dp/0062839268 

 

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🔥 Is ambition a gift—or a dangerous trap?

We live in a culture that either glorifies the grind or demonizes ambition. But the truth is, ambition itself isn’t the problem—it’s what’s driving it.

In this episode, Adrian, Bri, and Christie dive into: ✅ How to differentiate healthy ambition from destructive ambition ✅ The danger of chasing opportunity just because you can ✅ Why we mistake movement for momentum (and how to avoid it) ✅ The balance of sprinting vs. recovering—and why most people get it wrong ✅ How burnout sneaks up when you take on responsibilities that aren’t yours

⚡ Reflection Questions:

• Are you chasing opportunities for impact or validation?

• What’s driving your ambition—purpose or insecurity?

• Are you in a sprint or a season of recovery, and are you honoring it?

💡 Don’t miss this conversation

 

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🔥 What if your greatest purpose is hiding in your deepest pain? Most people think of purpose as something they find—but what if it’s something you uncover? The journey to discovering purpose requires digging into pain, facing uncomfortable truths, and breaking patterns that have shaped your life. In this episode, we’re diving deep into: ✅ Why avoiding pain keeps you from discovering purpose ✅ How past struggles shape your future calling ✅ The role of “getting to the basement” in personal growth ✅ Why most people chase success but still feel empty ✅ How to identify the “silent assassins” of purpose in your life 🚀 If you’ve ever felt lost, directionless, or like something is missing—this conversation is for you. 📌 Reflection Questions:

1. What’s one painful experience that has shaped who you are today?
2. Have you been avoiding discomfort instead of facing it?
3. What does success mean to you—and is it actually fulfilling?

Want to check out Mask Off: Unlocking Authenticity In An Age Of Imposters? Click the link below!

https://www.amazon.com/Mask-Off-Unlocking-Authenticity-Imposters/dp/B08LJ9F1DT

Interested in listening to the The Daily episode we referenced? Click the link below! https://www.nytimes.com/2025/02/25/podcasts/the-daily/ai-chatgpt-boyfriend-relationship.html 

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🔥 What if culture isn’t what you say—it’s what you tolerate? 🎙️ Culture isn’t just a corporate buzzword—it’s the invisible force shaping every decision, every interaction, and every outcome in your organization. It’s not just about values on a wall or feel-good mission statements—it’s about what actually happens in the day-to-day. In this episode, we’re breaking down what culture really is, why most leaders fail at creating it, and how it determines success or failure. Whether you’re leading a business, a team, or even just yourself, understanding culture is the key to lasting impact, high performance, and alignment between vision and reality. We explore: ✅ What is culture, really? (Beyond the feel-good definitions) ✅ How leaders unconsciously create toxic environments (even with good intentions) ✅ The difference between culture and strategy—and why getting it wrong leads to disaster ✅ How to measure and improve culture in your business or team ✅ What happens when a company’s values don’t match its actions? ✅ How vision should attract & repel the right people ✅ The impact of culture on leadership, business growth, and team success 🚀 If you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or someone who just wants to understand how culture shapes everything—this episode is for you. 🧠 Reflection Questions:

1. What’s one unspoken rule in your workplace or community that defines its culture?
2. Does your organization’s stated culture align with how people actually experience it?
3. Are you building a culture that attracts the right people—or repels them?

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What if the past isn’t behind you—it’s within you?

🎙️ Your choices today shape more than just your life—they create ripple effects for generations.

In Part 2 of Rewriting Time, we shift from understanding past patterns to breaking cycles and shaping the future. Adrian and Bri discuss the power of intentionality, leadership, and decision-making in transcending time and leaving a lasting impact.

We explore: ✅ Why critical thinking is a skill that will set you apart in the future ✅ How being present helps you make better decisions and strengthen relationships ✅ Why saying “I don’t have time” actually means time is controlling you ✅ How the mindset of “it is what it is” keeps you from taking action ✅ The legacy effect—how today’s choices shape the world for those who come after you

🚀 If you missed Part 1, go back and listen to "Rewriting Time: Part 1 – Understanding the Patterns of Your Past" to get the full picture!

🧠 Reflection Questions:

1. What’s one belief you hold about yourself that has shaped your decisions?

2. Are you controlling your time, or is time controlling you?

3. Where in your life are you letting fear hold you back from moving forward?

4. What’s a small but meaningful habit you can change today to shape a better future?

5. If your great-grandchildren were impacted by today’s choices, what would you want that impact to be?

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Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform:

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• Listen on Apple Podcasts (linked)

• Watch on YouTube (linked on lib)

Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. 

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What if the past isn’t behind you—it’s within you?" In Part 1 of this powerful two-part episode, Adrian and Bri explore how time isn’t linear; it’s dense, layered, and often hidden in the way we think, feel, and lead. The conversations we have today, the choices we make, and even the insecurities we carry are often echoes from the past—shaping us without us even realizing it. Through personal reflections and raw honesty, they unpack how family history, childhood experiences, and seemingly small moments have ripple effects in our lives. But this isn’t just about looking back—it’s about understanding the present and recognizing how presence is a skill that can transform relationships, leadership, and self-awareness. Key Takeaways:

• The Layered Nature of Time: How the past, present, and external influences overlap more than we realize.
• Hidden Time Capsules: Unprocessed moments from childhood that shape how we view ourselves and the world.
• The Legacy of Family Patterns: How inherited beliefs impact our identity and leadership styles.
• The Power of Presence: Why slowing down and being present is harder than it sounds—but more transformative than we think.
• Processing the Past: How to acknowledge your history without letting it define your future.

Reflection Questions:

1. What "time capsules" from your past might still be influencing your present decisions?
2. Are there patterns in your life that you’ve accepted as normal but may be rooted in unresolved history?
3. How do you define being “present” in your daily life? What distracts you from it?
4. What’s one small moment from your past that shaped you more than you realized?
5. How can understanding your past help you become a better leader, friend, or family member today?

 Don’t miss Part 2, where we shift the conversation to the future—how to navigate uncertainty, think critically, and create the life you’re meant to live.

 

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