Did you lose your temper with your teen this summer? Wondering how to reconnect after an argument?

Conflict is part of every family—especially during the unstructured days of summer, vacations, and the transition back to school. The good news? Relationships aren't strengthened by never making mistakes. They're strengthened by repairing them.  

In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, clinical psychologists Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen explain why a genuine apology is one of the most powerful ways to rebuild trust with your teenager or tween. You'll learn why apologizing doesn't weaken your authority—it actually strengthens your relationship—and how a few common mistakes can unintentionally make an apology less effective.

Whether you recently yelled, overreacted, or simply wish you had handled a parenting moment differently, this episode offers practical, evidence-based strategies to help you reconnect with your child and model the kind of healthy relationships you hope they'll build throughout their lives.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why apologizing actually increases your teen's trust and respect for you
 • The three biggest apology traps parents fall into—and how to avoid them
 • How to repair your relationship after an argument without giving up your authority
 • Why "I'm sorry, but..." almost always backfires
 • How to apologize without expecting your teen to apologize back
 • Why relationship repair is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child

Episode Highlights

00:00 – Why relationship repair matters more than getting parenting "right"
 02:50 – Does apologizing make parents lose authority? What the research—and experience—actually shows
 05:20 – The three apology traps: losing authority, "tit for tat," and "double dipping"
 11:51 – How to make an apology feel genuine instead of manipulative
 17:22 – When it's not too late to apologize—and why timing matters less than sincerity
 18:42 – How repairing conflict teaches your teen to build healthier future relationships
 21:00 – Simple, effective ways to apologize that teens and tweens are more likely to hear
 27:00 – What your teenager learns when they see you own your mistakes
 33:00 – This week's parenting takeaway: Progress over perfection

If you've ever searched "I yelled at my teenager," "How do I reconnect after an argument with my teen?" or "How do I repair my relationship with my child?", this episode is for you.

Because parenting isn't about being perfect. It's about showing your children what healthy relationships look like—even after things go wrong.

If you found this episode helpful, please share it with another parent, subscribe to The Parenting Pair Podcast, and leave us a review. Your support helps more families discover practical, evidence-based parenting advice.

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Food allergies don't just affect what your child  or teen eats—they can shape your family's entire experience of school, friendships, and independence. In this episode, therapist and author of May Contain Anxiety Tamara Hubbard joins Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen to talk about food allergy anxiety in kids and teens, and how parents can build trust instead of fear.

Together, they explore how parents can balance vigilance with confidence, help children gradually build independence, and avoid letting anxiety shrink their family's world. Tamara shares practical, evidence-based strategies for navigating food allergy anxiety while maintaining a strong parent-child relationship and preparing tweens and teens to safely manage their allergies as they grow.

Whether your child was recently diagnosed or is preparing for college, this episode offers compassionate guidance to help your family move from fear toward confidence.

In This Episode You'll Learn:

• Why food allergy anxiety is common—and when it becomes problematic
• How to balance safety with quality of life
• The difference between food allergy anxiety and food allergy social anxiety
• How to help tweens and teens gradually build independence
• The 6 "allergy parenting traps" that quietly increase anxiety over time
• Why trust is essential when preparing teens to manage allergies
• How to respond when your teen isn't taking allergies seriously
• The power of curiosity instead of lectures
• How Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) principles can help parents
• Ways family and friends can better support children with food allergies
• Practical strategies for reducing anxiety while keeping kids safe

Here are some highlights from the episode:

00:00 How to Raise Independent Kids With Food Allergies

00:30 Food Allergies: Today's Topic 
01:10 Meet Tamara Hubbard, MA, LCPC, Therapist & Author of "May Contain Anxiety" 
02:18 Coping With Food Allergy Anxiety 
06:01 Building Confidence Through Skill Development 
08:40 Why Professional Guidance Matters 
10:30 Living by Your Values, Not Your Anxiety 
13:18 Teaching Kids With Food Allergies to Self-Advocate 
16:39 Food Allergy Anxiety vs. Food Allergy Social Anxiety 
17:54 How Parents and Kids Experience Food Allergy Anxiety Differently 
20:43 Less Lecturing, More Understanding 
23:44 Common Anxiety Thinking Traps 
27:42 When Burnout Becomes a Wake-Up Call 
29:02 Food Allergy Support Groups: Benefits and Drawbacks 
31:55 How Others Can Better Support Kids With Food Allergies 
33:59 How to Connect With Tamara Hubbard

Resources Mentioned

📘 May Contain Anxiety: Managing the Overwhelm of Parenting Children with Food Allergies — by Tamara Hubbard, MA, LCPC

🌐 Food Allergy Counselor

• https://www.foodallergycounselor.com
• Educational resources, articles, and support for families.

🏥 Academy of Food Allergy Counseling

• https://www.foodallergycounseling.org
• Directory of allergy-informed mental health professionals and clinician education.

👩‍⚕️ Tamara Hubbard's Private Practice

• https://www.tamarahubbard.com
• (Illinois, Ohio & Florida via telehealth)

📱 Follow Tamara Hubbard

• Instagram: @FoodAllergyCounselor
• Facebook: Food Allergy Counselor

Key Takeaways

✔️ Anxiety is common for families managing food allergies—but it doesn't have to define family life.

✔️ The goal isn't eliminating all risk—it's learning to accurately assess risk while maintaining quality of life.

✔️ Building trust through gradual skill development helps teens become confident, independent allergy managers.

✔️ Parents often help most by replacing lectures with curiosity and open-ended conversations.

✔️ Sometimes the most supportive question anyone can ask a family managing food allergies is simply: "How can I be helpful?"

👍 If you found this episode helpful, please leave us a rating or review — it helps other parents find the show.

🎙️ Hosted by Clinical Psychologists, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen.

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Have you ever noticed that the more you remind, explain, lecture, or give advice… the less your teen seems to listen?

In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen explore one of the simplest—but most powerful—communication strategies for parents of tweens and teens: saying less.

As parents, it's natural to want to help by offering reminders, solutions, opinions, and guidance. But sometimes our well-intentioned words can overwhelm our children, make them feel controlled, or unintentionally shut down communication.

Instead, learning to pause, listen more, and create space can strengthen trust, encourage independence, and help teens develop confidence in solving their own problems.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why "saying less" actually helps teens communicate more
• How over-explaining can unintentionally damage connection
• The difference between supporting and over-directing
• How to encourage independence without withdrawing emotionally
• Practical ways to reduce conflict and increase cooperation
• Why silence can become one of your most effective parenting tools

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Want Your Kids to Trust You More?

00:35 Say Less: A Simple Parenting Strategy That Works 

00:59 What Does "Say Less" Really Mean? 

02:34 Why Saying Less Builds Stronger Connections 

05:26 Raising Independent and Confident Kids 

06:38 The Benefits of Talking Less as a Parent 

08:41 When Can Parents Practice Saying Less? 

11:49 Final Thoughts: Small Changes, Big Impact

If you're parenting a tween, teenager, or young adult, this episode offers clinically-informed strategies that can improve communication and strengthen your relationship.

💬 We'd love to hear from you:
 What is one situation where you could try "saying less" this week?

👍 If you found this episode helpful, please leave us a rating or review — it helps other parents find the show.

🎙️ Hosted by Clinical Psychologists, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen.

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DISCLAIMER: The Parenting Pair Podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about your or a family member's wellbeing, please contact a licensed mental health professional or physician.

Is your teen struggling to make friends, maintain friendships, or navigate their social world?

Many parents worry when their tween or teen seems lonely, has difficulty connecting with peers, misses social cues, or struggles to maintain friendships. But social communication is a complex set of skills—and many young people need support learning them.

In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, clinical psychologists Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen welcome Deirdre Flores, M.S., CCC-SLP, founder of The Teen SLP, to discuss the social communication skills that help tweens, teens, and young adults build meaningful relationships.

Together, they explore:

✔️ What social communication skills actually are
✔️ Why making friends is harder for some teens than others
✔️ The connection between executive functioning, ADHD, and friendships
✔️ How parents can provide support without taking over
✔️ Why social struggles are often about skills, not shyness
✔️ Ways to coach teens around texting, planning hangouts, and maintaining friendships
✔️ Why clubs, hobbies, jobs, and shared interests matter so much socially
✔️ How to reduce shame and build confidence in socially struggling teens

Here are some highlights from the episode:

00:00 Social Communication Is Built on Executive Functioning
00:57 Meet Deirdre Flores, Speech-Language Pathologist
02:49 What Does a Speech-Language Pathologist Do?
04:52 Why Social Communication Skills Matter
05:44 The Link Between Executive Functioning and Communication
10:15 Breaking the Stigma Around Social Skills Coaching
13:18 Why Speech-Language Pathologists Play a Critical Role
15:52 Understanding the Emotions of Both Parents and Teens
17:14 How Parents Can Gradually Remove the Scaffolding
20:59 The 4-Week Rule, Volunteering, and Part-Time Jobs
28:13 How to Connect with Deirdre Flores

Social skills are life skills. The ability to communicate, connect, and maintain relationships affects friendships, dating, college success, and future careers. The good news? These skills can be learned and strengthened.

If you're parenting a tween, teen, or young adult who is struggling socially, this conversation offers practical, compassionate, and expert-informed guidance.

Where to find Deirdre Flores, M.S., CCC-SLP:

https://theteenslp.com/
https://www.instagram.com/theteenslp/

👍 If you found this helpful, subscribe to The Parenting Pair Podcast and share this episode with another teen or tween parent.

🎙️ Hosted by Clinical Psychologists, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen.

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We're re-releasing this episode because the topic keeps coming up — over and over again — in our work with parents. How we think matters. It shapes how we feel, how we act, and how we show up in our relationships with our teens. Parenting isn't only about our kids — our own well-being, our own thought patterns, and our own mental health matter too. If you caught this one when it first aired as Episode 13, we think it's worth a second listen. And if you're new here, this is a great place to start.

Do you ever catch yourself thinking your teen "should" have done something differently — or spiral from one bad moment straight to imagining the worst? You might be stuck in a 'thinking trap.'

In this episode, Dr. Suzanne Allen and Dr. Annalise Caron break down three of the most common thinking traps parents of tweens and teens fall into, and share simple, practical ways to shift your thinking so you can show up calmer, clearer, and more connected.

What we cover:

• "Should" thinking — why this one word quietly cranks up frustration and how to swap it out
• Mental filter — when you zoom in on everything going wrong and tune out everything that's going right
• Jumping to conclusions — how one moment with your teen can send your brain spiraling into worst-case scenarios
• One powerful question — "What else could be true?" — that works for all three traps

Whether you're navigating daily friction or a more serious situation with your teen, these tools will help you pause the spiral and respond with more patience and perspective.

Timestamps:
 00:00 – Are You Spiraling About Your Teen?
 01:00 – What Are Thinking Traps & Why They Matter
 03:00 – Dr. Allen's Checkout Line Moment
 05:24 – Trap #1: "Should" Thinking
 09:34 – Trap #2: Mental Filter
 16:26 – Trap #3: Jumping to Conclusions
 20:23 – One Question to Reframe Everything

👍 If you found this helpful, subscribe to The Parenting Pair Podcast and share this episode with another teen or tween parent.

🎙️ Hosted by Clinical Psychologists, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen.

🔔 New episodes every Wednesday — subscribe so you never miss one.

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DISCLAIMER: The Parenting Pair Podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about your or a family member's wellbeing, please contact a licensed mental health professional or physician.

Summer break is supposed to be relaxing—but for many parents of tweens and teens, it quickly turns into a battle over screens, video games, YouTube, and endless hours indoors.

In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, clinical psychologists Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen tackle a question many parents are asking right now:

"What do I do if my teen wants to spend the entire summer gaming or watching TV?"

Whether your child is too old for traditional summer camps, too young for a job, or simply facing weeks of unstructured time, it can be incredibly stressful to watch screens become the default activity. Parents often find themselves worrying that they're failing, arguing constantly about technology, or wondering if their child is missing out on important developmental experiences.

In this practical and compassionate conversation, Annalise and Suzanne discuss how parents can approach summer differently—moving away from power struggles and toward collaboration, curiosity, and realistic expectations.

You'll learn:

✔️ Why many parents feel guilty about summer screen time
✔️ How anxiety and catastrophizing can make screen conflicts worse
✔️ Ways to collaborate with your tween or teen when planning summer activities
✔️ How to shift from pessimism to possibility-focused thinking
✔️ Why video games don't have to be the enemy
✔️ The concept of creating a balanced "summer diet" of activities
✔️ How to encourage independence, social connection, and exploration without constant battles
✔️ Practical resources and ideas for families navigating long, unstructured summer days

Chapters:

00:00 -  Introduction: Expanding Your Teen's Summer Possibilities
00:44 - Summer Break & Screen Time: Helping Teens Balance Free Time
02:36 - Four Key Areas to Consider This Summer
03:05 - 1. Common Parenting Thinking Traps Around Summer Screen Time
07:42 - 2. How to Collaborate With Your Teen Instead of Fighting Them
09:57 - 3. Questions That Help Teens Explore New Summer Opportunities
13:53 - 4. Resources for Evaluating Games, Apps & Media Content

If you're worried your teen will spend the entire summer on YouTube, Xbox, TikTok, or their phone, this episode offers guidance to help you reduce conflict and create a more balanced summer experience.

Useful resources discussed in this episode:

Common Sense Media:
https://www.commonsensemedia.org/

Family Media Plan:
 https://www.healthychildren.org/english/fmp/pages/mediaplan.aspx?_gl=1*cx15ma*_ga*MTcxNzk0OTc3MC4xNzgxNzk3NzUw*_ga_FD9D3XZVQQ*czE3ODE3OTc3NTAkbzEkZzEkdDE3ODE3OTc4MzEkajQ2JGwwJGgw

💡 Remember: the goal isn't perfection. It's helping your child build a summer that includes connection, growth, rest, and fun.

👍 If you found this helpful, subscribe to The Parenting Pair Podcast and share this episode with another teen or tween parent.

🎙️ Hosted by Clinical Psychologists, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen.

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DISCLAIMER: The Parenting Pair Podcast is designed for informational and educational purposes only. Do not rely on the information presented in this podcast as a substitute or replacement for professional -- psychological or medical -- advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about you or a family member's well being, please contact a licensed mental health professional or physician.

Starting college is exciting—but it can also be overwhelming for both young people and parents.

In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, clinical psychologists Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen are joined by clinical psychologists and college transition experts, Dr. Liz Seidler and Dr. Sarah Olivo to discuss what really happens when teens leave home and begin living on their own.

From homesickness and making friends to executive functioning, self-advocacy, managing emotions, and navigating newfound independence, they share practical, evidence-based strategies to help families prepare for one of life's biggest transitions.

Whether your child is heading off to a dorm, moving away for the first time, or simply preparing for college life, this conversation offers actionable advice that can reduce stress and set both parents and students up for success.

In this episode, you'll learn:
🎓 How to prepare teens for the transition to college
🏠 Common challenges students face when living independently
💬 Why self-advocacy is one of the most important college skills
🧠 How executive functioning impacts college success
❤️ Ways parents can support without becoming overinvolved
📚 Practical tips for fostering resilience and confidence

Highlights from this episode:

00:00 Why Meaningful Connection Is All Your College Student Needs

01:05 Meet Dr. Liz Seidler & Dr. Sarah Olivo

01:42 Helping Teens Transition to College Independence

04:44 The Biggest Challenges Students Face During Freshman Year

08:44 How Parents Can Best Support Teens Starting College

10:07 4 Ways Parents Can Help: Mind the Story You Tell About College

12:13 4 Ways Parents Can Help: Ask Better Questions & Invite Conversation

15:39 4 Ways Parents Can Help: Create an Emotional Plan Before Move-In

18:42 4 Ways Parents Can Help: Listen Before You Problem-Solve

22:12 Parent Group Chats: Helpful Resource or Hidden Pitfall?

26:35 What College Students Actually Find Most Helpful

28:46 Why Meaningful Campus Connections Matter for Student Success

31:44 Listen to the “College Is Fine, Everything's Fine" Podcast

If you're getting ready to send your child to college or you have a college student who has just returned home, this episode is one you won't want to miss.

To learn more about Dr. Liz Seidler and Dr. Sarah Olivo, please visit their “College is Fine, Everything’s Fine” podcast website, YouTube channel or individual practice websites:

Listen to “College Is Fine, Everything's Fine” Podcast here: https://www.collegeisfinepodcast.com/

“College is Fine, Everything's Fine” YouTube Channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@CollegeIsFinePodcast

Dr. Liz Seidler’s website:  https://www.cbtridgefield.com/

Dr. Sarah Olivio’s website: https://www.drsaraholivo.com/

Additional Resources Discussed in this episode:

Mental Health in College: What Research Tells Us About Supporting Students by Alexis Redding
https://www.amazon.com/Mental-Health-College-Research-Supporting/dp/B0FQ9HXNB6

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🎙️ Hosted by Clinical Psychologists Annalise Caron and Suzanne Allen.

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DISCLAIMER: The Parenting Pair Podcast is designed for informational and educational purposes only. Do not rely on the information presented in this podcast as a substitute or replacement for professional -- psychological or medical -- advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about you or a family member's well being, please contact a licensed mental health professional or physician.

Sleep problems are incredibly common among women—but they're often misunderstood.

In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, clinical psychologists Annalise Caron and Suzanne Allen sit down with renowned sleep expert and board certified behavior sleep medicine specialist Dr. Shelby Harris to explore why women experience unique sleep challenges throughout their lives, from adolescence and parenthood to perimenopause and menopause.

Together, they unpack the biological, hormonal, emotional, and lifestyle factors that contribute to insomnia and sleep disruption, while offering practical, evidence-based strategies to improve sleep quality and overall well-being.

Whether you're a parent struggling with sleep, supporting a teen with sleep challenges, navigating midlife hormonal changes, or simply wondering why a good night's rest feels so elusive, this conversation is filled with actionable insights and hope.

In this episode, we discuss:
✔️ Why insomnia is more common in women
✔️ Hormones, sleep, and life transitions
✔️ The impact of stress, anxiety, and caregiving responsibilities
✔️ Sleep challenges during pregnancy, parenthood, perimenopause, and menopause
✔️ Common misconceptions about insomnia
✔️ Evidence-based strategies for improving sleep
✔️ When to seek professional support

Highlights from this episode:

00:00 Introduction: Why Women Struggle With Sleep

00:46 Meet Dr. Shelby Harris, clinical psychologist and Diplomate in Behavioral Sleep Medicine

03:10 Book Recommendation: The Women's Guide to Overcoming Insomnia

03:52 How Women's Sleep Changes Across the Lifespan

07:31 How Sleep Differs Between Women and Men

09:04 Trouble Sleeping? Why You Should Get Evaluated

09:39 What Insomnia Really Is (And What It Looks Like)

13:56 Why Women Often Delay Seeking Help for Sleep Problems

14:56 When and Where to Get Your Sleep Evaluated

20:53 CBT-I Explained: The Gold Standard for Insomnia Treatment

24:47 Sleep Apnea and Weight: Are They Related?

27:02 Sleep Apnea in Women: What the Research Shows

32:20 Revenge Bedtime Procrastination or "Momsomnia"

38:15 Follow Dr. Shelby Harris for More Sleep Tips

40:26 Dr. Shelby Harris's Top Recommendations for Better Sleep

Sleep affects every aspect of our lives—from emotional regulation and mental health to parenting, relationships, and physical health. Understanding how sleep changes across the lifespan can help you make informed decisions and develop healthier habits.

Resources discussed in this episode:

Where to find Dr. Shelby Harris:
https://www.drshelbyharris.com/
@sleepdocshelby

The Women's Guide to Overcoming Insomnia, Dr. Shelby Harris
https://wwnorton.com/books/9780393711615

The Essential Guide To Children's Sleep: A Tired Caregiver's Workbook for Every Age and Stage, Dr. Andrea Roth, Dr. Allison Shele & Dr. Shelby Harris
https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/essential-guide-childrens-sleep

The Parenting Pair Podcast: Why Teens Don't Sleep (and What Parents Can Do About It)

https://drscaronandallen.com/podcast/episode/why-teens-dont-sleep-and-what-parents-can-do-about-it/

The Parenting Pair Podcast: Sleep Struggles in Tweens and Teens: Insomnia, Nightmares and When Parents Should Seek Help
https://drscaronandallen.com/podcast/episode/sleep-struggles-in-tweens-and-teens-insomnia-nightmares-and-when-parents-should-seek-help/

If you found this episode helpful, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who could benefit from this conversation.

🎙️ Hosted by Clinical Psychologists Annalise Caron and Suzanne Allen.

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DISCLAIMER: The Parenting Pair Podcast is designed for informational and educational purposes only. Do not rely on the information presented in this podcast as a substitute or replacement for professional -- psychological or medical -- advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about you or a family member's well being, please contact a licensed mental health professional or physician.

Does your teen constantly run late, underestimate how long tasks will take, or seem completely unaware of how much time has passed? It might be time blindness.

In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, clinical psychologists Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen explore time blindness — a common but often misunderstood executive functioning challenge that affects tweens, teens, and young adults. Many parents interpret these struggles as laziness, avoidance, or irresponsibility. But for many teens, time blindness is connected to real differences in brain functioning, ADHD, and executive functioning.

In this episode, we cover:

• What time blindness actually is
• Why some teens genuinely struggle to "feel" time passing
• How ADHD and executive functioning are connected to time blindness
• Why lateness triggers panic, frustration, and family conflict
• "Waiting mode" and why teens get stuck before tasks
• Why shame and punishment often backfire
• Practical strategies parents can use at home — timers, visual calendars, clocks, task chunking, and more

Highlights from this episode:

00:00 — What Time Blindness Really Feels Like

01:36 — What Is Time Blindness? Signs Parents Should Know

06:06 — How Time Blindness Impacts Family Life

06:14 — Why Teens With Time Blindness Are Often Late

08:14 — The Big Emotions Behind Time Blindness: Panic, Stress & Frustration

09:36 — “Waiting Mode” and Why Teens Get Stuck

13:07 — Time Blindness Is a Brain-Based Challenge, Not a Character Flaw

14:48 — Practical Strategies That Help With Time Blindness

15:04 — Strategy 1- Building Understanding and Compassion at Home

16:01 — Strategy 2- How Alarms Can Support Teens With Time Blindness

17:28 — Strategy 3- Why Visible Clocks Matter More Than You Think

18:11 — Strategy 4- Using Countdown Timers to Improve Time Awareness

18:23 — Strategy 5- Visual Calendars That Actually Help Teens Stay Organized

19:22 — Strategy 6- Why Start Timers Help Teens Begin Tasks

19:54 — Strategy 7- Time Tracking and “Backing Out” of Time Explained

21:28 — Strategy 8- Why Teens Need Scheduled “Free Brain Time”

23:32 — Strategy 9- Breaking Big Tasks Into Smaller Daily Steps

24:12 — Can ADHD Medication Help With Time Blindness?

25:03 — Final Thoughts: Supporting Teens With Time Blindness

Whether you're parenting a tween, teen, or college student, this conversation offers practical, compassionate guidance grounded in adolescent psychology.

🔔 New episodes every Wednesday — subscribe so you never miss one.

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DISCLAIMER: The Parenting Pair Podcast is designed for informational and educational purposes only. Do not rely on the information presented in this podcast as a substitute or replacement for professional -- psychological or medical -- advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about you or a family member's well being, please contact a licensed mental health professional or physician.

Teen breakups can feel overwhelming, heartbreaking, and all-consuming — not only for teens, but for parents watching their child struggle through intense emotions for the first time. In this episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, Dr. Annalise Caron and Dr. Suzanne Allen explore what first heartbreaks are really like for tweens, teens, and young adults, and how parents can respond in ways that build trust, resilience, and ultimately healing.

We discuss why teen relationships matter so deeply, how heartbreak can deeply impact teenagers, and what supportive parenting looks like during emotional crises. From validating emotions without escalating them, to knowing when to step in if your teen becomes stuck in rumination or distress, this conversation offers practical and compassionate guidance for parents navigating one of the most emotionally charged parts of adolescence.

We also explore:

• Why teen heartbreak should not be minimized
• How grief and loss show up after a breakup
• What helps teens emotionally recover
• When boundaries may be necessary
• How to avoid accidentally dismissing your teen’s pain
• Signs your teen may need additional mental health support

If you are parenting a tween, teen, or college-aged child through friendship loss, rejection, or a relationship breakup, this episode will help you better understand their emotional world — and how to support them through it.

Here are some highlights from the episode:

00:00 — Teen Breakups: When First Love Feels Devastating

00:41 — Helping Your Teen Through a Painful Breakup

02:21 — Teen Heartbreak + School, Friends & Social Pressure

04:01 — What Parents Can Do: Supporting the Grief Without Fixing It

06:38 — Why “Doing” Can Help More Than Talking After a Breakup

08:16 — When Teens Get Stuck in Heartbreak and Rumination

10:54 — When Parents Should Step In to Stop the Overthinking Spiral

16:16 — When Boundaries Are Necessary After a Teen Breakup

18:10 — Signs Your Teen May Need Extra Mental Health Support

19:48 — Final Thoughts: Helping Teens Heal After Heartbreak

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