The Peaceful Home

In parenting (and in life) we tend to have expectations of what we believe our kids are capable of. For most parents, this is rooted in our own stories of inadequacy, rejection, and judgment. 

We react from fear and rescue, fix and take the pressure off. Oh, Johnny can’t possibly clean up the living room, he is stressed and needs to relax. Or Jane is too little to be expected to keep her hands to herself so you are left policing every interaction Jane has with every human on the planet, including her siblings. Or, Bobby has an issue with food textures, he won’t eat that, when a separate meal is not prepared by you.

But if you raise the bar, and recognize that they are capable of more than you anticipate, you give your kids space to not only surprise you but surprise themselves too, this is the space of growth. When we stretch ourselves outside of what we thought we could do. 

In this Episode Pam shares areas of life and ways to raise the bar and expect more, all of which is backed by brain-based research. Check it out! 

Free Workshop: 7 Steps to Clearing Out Your Emotional Baggage (So You don’t pass it on to your kids!) 

Join us and get started!!

Start Regulating Your emotions, clearing out the triggers that have you stuck, and shifting your parenting strategies with my brand new program The Calm Project → Yours for FREE when you join the Align Mom’s Membership Today! 

Follow Me on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

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If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create a journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

We have a MAJOR problem in our culture. We set new years resolutions that just end up making us feel worse about ourselves, contributing to more time on the couch and less time out chasing your dreams!

In this episode Pam will help you unpack this destructive habit, and develop an actual process to explore your desires and take action on them. 

After all, it doesn’t matter how good a ‘starter’ you are, if you never finish…

Exploring the difference between, resolutions, goals and intentions and how to make them work for you and your family this year. As well as the 3 step process to get you moving! 

Free Workshop: 7 Steps to Clearing Out Your Emotional Baggage (So You don’t pass it on to your kids!) 

Join us and get started!!

Start Regulating Your emotions, clearing out the triggers that have you stuck, and shifting your parenting strategies with my brand new program The Calm Project → Yours for FREE when you join the Align Mom’s Membership Today! 

Let's Connect on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know Pam is a therapist? That's right and she is currently taking on 1:1 therapeutic coaching clients.  What is therapeutic coaching? It's coaching that brings in the science and therapeutics of 25 years as a therapist. With real strategies, tool and techniques that will help you get the most out of every moment. 

So if you are struggling to regulate, are stuck in old stories and just can't seem to get out of your own way when it comes to growth and healing in your relationships, or your career, book a call and jump start your success this year! 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

The holidays can be a really hard time with all the extra pressure of “getting it right.” In this weeks episodes, my dear friend Mandy and I sat down to talk, setting boundaries, deepening connection and only doing what you truly want for you and your family this holiday season! 

Listen is as we talk ups and downs on our own journeys and how we landed where we are. 

And as two ADHD moms we are talking neurodivergence, over stimulation and strategies for managing both for ourselves and our ND kids!! 

Free Workshop: 7 Steps to Clearing Out Your Emotional Baggage (So You don’t pass it on to your kids!) 

So join us and get started!!

Start Regulating Your emotions, clearing out the triggers that have you stuck, and shifting your parenting strategies with my brand new program The Calm Project → Yours for FREE when you join the Align Mom’s Membership Today! 

Follow Me on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

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FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

The holidays can be a really hard time with all the extra pressure of “gettign it right.” In this weeks episodes, my dear friend Mandy and I sat down to talk, going minimal, deepening connection and only doing what you truly want for you and your family this holiday season! 

Listen is as we talk ups and downs on our own journeys and how we landed where we are. 

And as two ADHD moms we are talking neurodivergence, over stimulation and strategies for managing both for ourselves and our ND kids!! 

Free Workshop: 7 Steps to Clearing Out Your Emotional Baggage (So You don’t pass it on to your kids!) 

So join us and get started!!

Start Regulating Your emotions, clearing out the triggers that have you stuck, and shifting your parenting strategies with my brand new program The Calm Project → Yours for FREE when you join the Align Mom’s Membership Today! 

Follow Me on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

If you have ever felt like you want to pull your hair out of your head cuz your kids just Will Not Listen… we are speaking YOUR language!!

As much as you want your kids to just be ok, to grow up happy & healthy, when it comes down to day to day parenting it can be really tough to just roll with the struggles, especially when on top of everything else you can’t get them to help out. 

Free Workshop: 7 Steps to Clearing Out Your Emotional Baggage (So You don’t pass it on to your kids!) 

This week we are diving into what doesn’t work, and what will get their attention and their cooperation. 

So join us and get started!!

Start Regulating Your emotions, clearing out the triggers that have you stuck, and shifting your parenting strategies with my brand new program The Calm Project → Yours for FREE when you join the Align Mom’s Membership Today! 

Follow Me on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

Free Workshop: 7 Steps to Clearing Out Your Emotional Baggage (So You don’t pass it on to your kids!) 

Do you feel like you are always battling with your kids to get them off their phones, to shut down the video games or to step away  from the screen? Do you have battles that result in meltdowns when you just want a device free dinner once in a while? 

Then chances are you have made one of these mistakes! 

Good news, there are easy fixes for this and I am sharing the process to get you device free with ease in no time! 

While WHAT you are doing is easy, how you are doing it will take some practice! So jump in and let us know how it goes!

And here’s to a decide free Holiday & New Years!! 

Start Regulating Your emotions, clearing out the triggers that have you stuck, and shifting your parenting strategies with my brand new program The Calm Project → Yours for FREE when you join the Align Mom’s Membership Today! 

Follow Me on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

Free Workshop: 7 Steps to Clearing Out Your Emotional Baggage (So You don’t pass it on to your kids!) 

The Holidays can be filled with *stuff* that takes up space but leaves the heart feeling a bit empty. 

The chaos, and busyness of the season often leave us feeling stressed and frazzled, and don’t get me started on the price tag for all the trendy gifts. 

This year, give the gift of Oxytocin! Yeah, you read that right, Oxytocin is the feel-good chemical your brain gets when you boost connection. How, you ask? Through giving the gifts of experiences instead of things. 

Not only does this support a minimalist approach to living, but it also creates amazing memories for all involved. This episode will give you a run down on how to make the shift into experiences this year.

We cover all the obstacles: 

👉 What to give as Experience gifts, at all price points. 

👉 How to get others on board in giving the experience.

👉 How to reinforce the experience giving. 

👉 Having the conversation. 

👉 Getting the kids on board. 

So dive in and pull out your notes app or pen & paper and make a note of your favorite. 

Start Regulating Your emotions, clearing out the triggers that have you stuck, and shifting your parenting strategies with my brand new program The Calm Project → Yours for FREE when you join the Align Mom’s Membership Today! 

Follow Me on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

Join Pam >> Free Workshop: Get Your Preteen/Teen to Listen & Cooperate without defiance, back talk, and conflict! 

This episode of The Peaceful Home Podcast delves into the intricate web of thoughts, emotions, and parenting. We'll explore how six common cognitive distortions can inadvertently sabotage your parenting efforts and discuss strategies for fostering a more adaptive mindset. Join us as we uncover these distortions and their impact on your interactions with your teens and tweens.

We dive into 6 Types of Cognitive Distortions that are creating problems in parenting and how these might look in your day-to-day life, as well as the impact of your thoughts and mindset on your parenting journey. 

Cognitive Distortions:

1. All-or-nothing thinking 

2. Mental Filter 

3. Overgeneralization 

4. Discounting the Positive

5. Catastrophizing

6. Personalizing

We explore how these might look in your day-to-day life and help you understand how cognitive distortions can directly impact your emotional state and, in turn, influence your reactions and interactions with your children. And explore the path to make the internal shift, so you can guide your adolescent as they grow!

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FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

If you are parenting a preteen or teenager, you may have had the thought, “What can I do to get them to listen?” This often leads to loss of screen time, removal of privileges and so much more. And for most parents, little is gained by this form of punishment. 

The truth is, the way you parented them at 7 stops being effective at 13. So something's got to give. You can no longer threaten to take away their toys and they do what you ask. Very often, what they do is raise you, like it's a game of poker. Staring you down they say "go ahead, see if I care..." 

In this week’s Episode, Pam will unpack the reason that punishment is not working, and what to do instead to get your kid on board with a new way of thinking and acting. 

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Follow Me on Instagram: @parentingtherapistpam

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FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude

Parenting preteens can be challenging for lots of reasons. These are the prime years for connection and collaboration. But they are coupled with growing needs, bigger emotions, and more complex relationships. 

In this week's episode, we will dive into the secrets that I have discovered in my 25 years working with families and preteens. 

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FEEDBACK: 

If you’re like “I love the Peaceful Home Podcast.” Please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here →  https://pamgodbois.com/ApplePodcast, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! 

WORK WITH PAM 1:1 

Did you know that Pam’s background is in therapy, YES, she still offers one-on-one services in the form of coaching. All Coaching is designed to help you create YOUR personal journey to a happier and healthier life. 

Want to do some relationship work with another adult in your life? This is one of Pam’s Specialties. And unlike therapy, this is all about building a plan and learning the skills to execute, not looking for someone to take your side, and continuing to spin your wheels. 

Book a call and see what is the right fit for you! https://calendly.com/pamgcoaching/30-min-consult

The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude