The Pepetoe Podcast

In this episode, I’m speaking honestly about something that’s been weighing heavy lately — the reality of mental health struggles in the workplace. From the pressure to always perform to the fear of not being “enough,” it’s easy to lose yourself in the chaos of trying to keep up. I share my personal experiences of burnout, what it feels like when your job starts to impact your self-worth, and the hard but necessary lesson of learning to let go of what you can’t control. If you’ve ever sat at your desk with tears in your eyes or felt like you’re just one more task away from breaking — this one’s for you. You’re not alone, and you never have to be.

Links:

Blog - www.pepetoe.net

IG - @pepetoebyelena

TikTok - @elenaoverfield

For the perfectionists, the overthinkers, the ones who always need a plan — this episode is for you.

We're talking about what it really means to trust yourself, especially when you're in a season of uncertainty. Not knowing your next step doesn't mean you're failing. Wanting to rest doesn’t mean you’ve lost ambition. This month, we're ditching the pressure to glow-up, hustle, or fix ourselves — and instead choosing softness, stillness, and self-belief.

Expect real talk, gentle affirmations, and the reminder you might need right now: you're not behind. You're exactly where you're meant to be.

Socials:

Insta - @pepetoebyelena

Blog - pepetoe.net

TikTok - @elenaoverfield

Also... a very exciting new podcast is coming out SOOOON! Head over to the Insta @fuckedupfridayspodcast for more!

This week on The Pepetoe Podcast, I’m joined by the amazing Synead — a true ray of light in the fitness and mental health space!

We talk about what it really means to balance gym life, mental wellbeing, a full-time job, and a busy social calendar, all while learning to love your body along the way. Synead opens up about her own journey, the pressures of being online, and how she stays grounded in a world that’s always telling us to do more.

It’s a warm, honest, and inspiring chat full of heart, humour, and so many reminders that you’re doing better than you think.

Whether you're deep in your fitness journey, struggling with self-worth, or just need a boost — this one’s for you 💛

Synead’s Socials:

Insta – @synead_gym

TikTok – @synead_xx

Rate & review as always!!! 💕

Winter's out, the sun's in, and it's officially time to thrive girlies!☺️ April's bringing fresh energy, longer days, and the perfect chance to hit reset on your goals. In this episode we're diving into the idea of April Theory - why this month feels like a magical start, how to harness that spring momentum, and the small shifts that'll have you absolutely smashing life 💕

Get ready to shake off the winter slump and move into a new season with hope, motivation and peace ❤️

Links:

Blog: www.pepetoe.net

SMM Website: www.socialmediabyel.com

Guest episode pending next week! - Look out for this episode sharing with you guys VERY VERY soooooon!!

www.instagram.com/synead_gym

Your 20s are a whirlwind—trying to build a career, maintain friendships, have a social life, explore hobbies, and somehow still find time to rest. It’s the decade of opportunity but also of burnout, where balancing work, relationships, and personal growth feels like a never-ending tightrope walk.

In this episode, we break down the realities of juggling it all. How do you manage your social battery when everyone seems to be constantly making plans? Is it okay to put your career first? How do you avoid feeling like you're falling behind? We’ll unpack the pressures, the expectations, and the small mindset shifts that make it all feel a little more manageable.

Whether you're struggling to keep up or just need reassurance that you’re doing fine, this episode is your reminder that balance looks different for everyone—and that’s okay.

A new series: Life in Your 20s 🎉

I feel a little hypocritical, as I admit I'm only 21, but nonetheless I still think I've got some things to say!

Today I'm bringing you everything about friendships, particularly those we make in our 20s. The trend of "never be the coffee date friend" is showing up again and again on my FYP (not sure if it's a little niche, but you'll get the idea!).

Follow me on IG: @pepetoebyelena and subscribe (free!) to my blog www.pepetoe.net ❤️❤️❤️

In this episode, we dive into the concept of independence—what it really means and how it evolves at different stages of life. From moving out for university to landing your first job and traveling solo, we explore the highs and lows of making it on your own. Is independence just about financial freedom, or does it go deeper into emotional resilience and decision-making?

Blog | www.pepetoe.net

Insta | @pepetoebyelena

TikTok | @pepetoebyelena

Lately, life has felt… heavy. Between navigating a breakup, feeling completely burnt out, and struggling with the pressure tokeep going, I’ve had to take a step back and really ask myself—what do I actually need right now? In this episode, I’m getting real about slowing down, sitting with discomfort, and the messy reality of healing. I’ll also open up about my struggles with rest, the fear of relapse, and why I’m learning (the hard way) that recovery isn’t just aboutdoing more—sometimes, it’s about doing less. If you’re feeling stuck, exhausted, or just a little lost, this one’s for you 💛

January has felt like the longest month EVER! I'm back today to put all that shit aside and focus on what truly matters: me.

Going into a new month is always good - a clean, fresh start. Let's help each other through these times, and work on coming back stronger.

Remember the only thing you can control is YOU - your emotions, your reactions, and your words. Hold onto that, and let go of the need to control everything else.

Blog: www.pepetoe.net

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Happy New Year!

It's a brand new year, and time to buckle down and get things done... and what I mean by this isn't your to do list, but rather working on yourself. And the first thing I'm going to be working on, and I hope you do too, is finding your independence. Whether you're introverted or extroverted, we can all do with a little more independence. Firstly, focus on your confidence - both internally with self-worth, and also externally and your effect on other people. Be confident, because who cares?! Show people what you're made of, and go out into the New Year smashing your goals and becoming the person you're dreaming of.

FYI, new blogs out every other day at www.pepetoe.net where I talk about more things like this!

Follow me on Instagram @ pepetoebyelena

Signing off now as we begin the crunch at work...

Elena xx