A new series: Life in Your 20s 🎉

I feel a little hypocritical, as I admit I'm only 21, but nonetheless I still think I've got some things to say!

Today I'm bringing you everything about friendships, particularly those we make in our 20s. The trend of "never be the coffee date friend" is showing up again and again on my FYP (not sure if it's a little niche, but you'll get the idea!).

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In this episode, we dive into the concept of independence—what it really means and how it evolves at different stages of life. From moving out for university to landing your first job and traveling solo, we explore the highs and lows of making it on your own. Is independence just about financial freedom, or does it go deeper into emotional resilience and decision-making?

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Lately, life has felt… heavy. Between navigating a breakup, feeling completely burnt out, and struggling with the pressure tokeep going, I’ve had to take a step back and really ask myself—what do I actually need right now? In this episode, I’m getting real about slowing down, sitting with discomfort, and the messy reality of healing. I’ll also open up about my struggles with rest, the fear of relapse, and why I’m learning (the hard way) that recovery isn’t just aboutdoing more—sometimes, it’s about doing less. If you’re feeling stuck, exhausted, or just a little lost, this one’s for you 💛

January has felt like the longest month EVER! I'm back today to put all that shit aside and focus on what truly matters: me.

Going into a new month is always good - a clean, fresh start. Let's help each other through these times, and work on coming back stronger.

Remember the only thing you can control is YOU - your emotions, your reactions, and your words. Hold onto that, and let go of the need to control everything else.

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Happy New Year!

It's a brand new year, and time to buckle down and get things done... and what I mean by this isn't your to do list, but rather working on yourself. And the first thing I'm going to be working on, and I hope you do too, is finding your independence. Whether you're introverted or extroverted, we can all do with a little more independence. Firstly, focus on your confidence - both internally with self-worth, and also externally and your effect on other people. Be confident, because who cares?! Show people what you're made of, and go out into the New Year smashing your goals and becoming the person you're dreaming of.

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Signing off now as we begin the crunch at work...

Elena xx

2024 has been a… different year. but all for good reasons. from dealing with quite a few relapses, to having the biggest comeback yet in my professional life, it’s been a whirlwind! here’s a little summary of everything i’ve learned:
🔅never be afraid to stand up for yourself
🔅self-care is the most productive thing you can do
🔅exercise should be a form of self-care, not a punishment
🔅learn to say let go of things that no longer serve you
🔅you have to put the work in; manifesting won’t get you there alone
🔅spending time with friends and family is the most magical feeling
🔅relationships can be hard; you have to put the work in there too
🔅saying no and implementing boundaries is the most powerful move you can do
🔅you are enough the way you are - never change for anybody ❤️

In this episode of The Pepetoe Podcast, we dive into the art of slowing down during one of the busiest times of the year. With the holiday rush in full swing, it's easy to push yourself to the brink of burnout—especially if you’re juggling work, social commitments, and personal goals.

I share my personal experience of navigating the festive chaos while starting a new job in the gym industry, and the strategies I’ve been using to find balance. From setting boundaries to prioritizing self-care, this episode is all about helping you stay grounded and energized without sacrificing your mental health.

If you’ve ever struggled to take your foot off the gas, this one’s for you. Let’s explore how slowing down can actually propel you forward.

Keywords:
slowing down, burnout prevention, work-life balance, holiday stress, self-care tips, festive season wellness, mental health during holidays.

In this episode, I’m diving deep into what makes relationships truly thrive. I’ll unpack topics like building reciprocal relationships, understanding and navigating different communication styles, and how to approach conflict in a way that strengthens your connection instead of tearing it down.

I’ll also share insights on knowing what you want, deserve, and need in your relationships, as well as tackling those moments when you feel “not good enough” or small. Expect a mix of personal stories, practical tips, and reflection exercises to help you grow and build stronger, healthier connections.

Whether you’re navigating challenges in love or just looking to improve your overall communication skills, this episode is packed with advice and inspiration for anyone on their relationship journey. Let’s grow together!

🎧 Tune in and let me know your biggest takeaway! DM me or share your thoughts on @pepetoebyelena (TikTok and Insta) 💌

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It's been a couple weeks but I'm back with a hefty life update episode! Over the last couple weeks I've been busy with starting my new job (eek!) and I can happily say it's going well so far. It's a big change to my previous roles but a big challenge is what I need right now to get me going again.

There is also a lot of change happening in my life right now (see exhibit A above) and so I thought it'd be a good idea to remind you how positive change can be, and although it's terrifying in the moment, it helps build up our strength and character and pull us in the right direction on our life journey. Enjoy the ride, people!!

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Keywords: life path, change, change in life, new job, career, social media marketing, digital marketing, scary, life updates, relationships, family, boyfriend

In this episode, I dive into the rise of fake eating disorder (ED) recovery accounts on social media. Inspired by Ro Mitchell and Emily Jane Fairs, who have spoken out about this issue, I discuss how many influencers portray their recovery journeys as healthy when, in reality, they’re continuing restrictive behaviors disguised as "wellness." These accounts often swap one form of control for another, focusing on clean eating and intense exercise, which can be incredibly harmful to their followers, especially those in early stages of recovery.

I explore how true recovery is about balance, food freedom, and self-compassion—not restriction or exercise obsession. While these influencers may not intend to cause harm, their content perpetuates a distorted view of recovery that keeps them and their audience trapped in a disordered mindset. Tune in as I unpack the dangers of following these accounts and discuss the importance of genuine recovery representation online.

Blog post: The Rise Of Fake Recovery Accounts on Social Media - https://pepetoe.net/2024/10/23/the-rise-of-fake-recovery-accounts-on-social-media/

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