The Peter & Tekky Show

In today’s vlog:

• Why Peter finds asking people for help so uncomfortable — and how we’re practising it together
• Realising it’s okay to depend on your partner for things you genuinely struggle to do yourself
• Why I think when you really want something, you somehow find the time to make it happen
• Questioning religion, the “God of the gaps,” and why context and curiosity can completely change how we see something

In today’s vlog:

• Why the 100-day vlog challenge is forcing me to keep going at the exact moments I would normally quit
• What struggling with daily Santai content taught me about persistence, accountability and improving instead of just repeating
• The “regret question” I use when making big life decisions — including why Peter and I moved to Vietnam
• Creating an alter ego to become the person I want to be, plus a moral dilemma: would you steal medicine to save your partner?

In today's vlog:

• The unexpected advantages of being in a quad, from supporting each other through conflict to growing old together
• Why arguments, frustration and discomfort can sometimes help us grow
• How moving from Australia to Vietnam and leaving corporate life helped me build a life I actually wanted
• How the people and environments around us shape what we believe is possible—and even what we learn to judge

So tired after coming back from our trip, so just some quick reflections and a message to my 3 boys ❤️

The audio for the first half is a bit difficult to listen to (apologies, I didn't realise the wind would disrupt the audio SO much... I was going to scrap the whole vlog but managed to salvage as much of it as I could).

In today's vlog I'm on the back of a motorbike on the way to dinner with friends and my bbs. From talking about where our relationship is going to how travel has changed the way I see the world.

A super short vlog today as I'm currently travelling. I asked 4 of my favourite people to give one piece of life advice - hope you are able to find value in something!

In this vlog:

• Why I keep so many old clothes and underwear just because finding something genuinely comfortable is so difficult
• How ADHD makes physical discomfort harder for me to ignore once I notice it
• Finally taking a holiday after working pretty much nonstop for two months
• Why boredom can actually feel worse to me than being tired from working
• How working for myself completely changed my relationship with “work”
• Why oversharing might actually be how you find people you genuinely connect with
• Why confidence comes from taking action, failing and figuring things out rather than waiting until you feel ready
• Learning to take other people’s advice as a data point instead of assuming their way will work for me
• Fidget toys, motion sickness and hunting an unreasonable number of mosquitoes in our hotel room

In today's vlog:

• Why packing for a trip is so stressful for me and how ADHD makes it even harder
• How struggling to put comfortable outfits together influenced why I wanted to start a clothing brand
• Slowly learning Vietnamese and why the tones and mouth movements are so difficult
• Why I don’t think the goal of life is to always be happy
• The difference between happiness, contentment and accepting uncomfortable emotions

• Why being exceptional sometimes means accepting that not everyone will understand you

• Religion, death, legacy and why people want to be remembered

• How our experiences shape what we believe is “real”
• Science, placebos, snake oil and how we decide which sources to trust

In today's vlog:

• Forgetting my gym gloves, getting two right gloves from Peter and why I’m so particular about comfort
• Why being “particular” is often just about making yourself feel comfortable
• The shared philosophy on life that originally brought Peter and me together
• Why having similar values and cultural understanding can matter in a relationship
• Learning how fashion designers turn an inspiration into something unique without making it tacky
• Designing our first collection around a “garden” concept
• Deciding which country/company should own the Santai trademark
• The constant business dilemma between optimising everything and just getting started
• Why I’m shifting Santai’s content towards slowing down, being present and enjoying the journey
• Trying to improve our content little by little instead of waiting until everything is perfect

In today's episode:

• Why I stopped and questioned whether I actually needed to close a cupboard door
• How many things we do simply because we’ve been taught that we “should”
• Why we judge people for doing things we don’t feel allowed to do ourselves
• Where all our free time went despite technology making everything faster
• Questioning astrology, science and how little we may actually understand about the universe
• Why celebrating milestones can help us stop and appreciate where we are
• Why love is built through thousands of small everyday acts, not just anniversaries
• Making sure you and your partner actually want the same type of relationship and life
• Thinking about death, fulfilment and what kind of life I actually want to live