The Peter & Tekky Show

In today’s vlog:

• Why I need to test new shoes and clothes before they become “safe clothes”
• Why persistence and resilience can matter more than being smart in business
• Learning to treat difficult periods as checkpoints and enjoy the journey more
• What I’m learning about fashion branding — and why tone causes so many relationship arguments

In today’s vlog:

• Our experience seeing psychiatrists in Vietnam, getting new medication and thinking about healthcare accessibility
• Catching myself automatically blaming Peter for something that was actually my fault — and why our brains jump to the easiest explanation
• Why other people might not understand your dreams, why sharing ideas too early can kill them, and why making something exist matters more than making it perfect
• Why willingness to try, communicate and keep growing is one of the biggest reasons Peter and I have made our relationship work

In today’s vlog:

• We officially hit day 50 — halfway through the challenge — and I’m thinking about what kind of vlogs I actually want to make after the 100 days
• Choosing fabrics and colours for the first clothing samples, and deciding I’d rather accept higher costs than make stiff, uncomfortable clothes just for better margins
• Talking about how AI could change the way we run the clothing brand, from customer service and marketing to repetitive work I absolutely hate doing
• Why figuring out who is “objectively right” rarely fixes a relationship argument — plus some thoughts on adaptability, comfort and catching myself slipping back into old ADHD habits

In today’s vlog:

• Going through the next stage of the clothing brand — choosing fabrics, colours, testing for colour bleeding and getting ready to make our first samples
• Turning our clothing tag into a reusable scented wardrobe bag and figuring out what fragrance actually fits the brand
• Helping Joel and Dan work through an argument and why having trusted outside perspectives is one of my favourite parts of being in a quad
• How seeing the way all four of us react differently to conflict has made me more compassionate — and less focused on deciding who’s right or wrong

In today’s vlog:

• Continuing yesterday’s conversation about friendship vs love — and figuring out why I actually want to spend so much time with my partners
• Why the people I’m with usually matter more to me than the destination, and why travelling with the boys is so much more fun
• Clothing brand updates, trademark headaches and why I have to keep some of the exciting stuff secret for now
• Designing everything around ease and comfort — including my very serious rule that I do not want clothes that need ironing

In today’s vlog:

• Peter joins me to figure out what actually separates a best friend from a romantic partner

• Breaking down romantic, physical and sexual attraction — and realizing they don’t necessarily come together
• Whether love is about caring, sacrifice, compatibility, effort, or simply wanting someone to be a bigger part of your life
• Somehow starting with why humans obsess over maintaining lawns and ending up discussing why people need hobbies, enjoyment and things that give them purpose

In today’s vlog:

• Shopping with our fashion designer, figuring out our personal style and potentially having Peter model for the clothing brand
• Realising that right now might actually be the “good old days” — and trying to appreciate my health, freedom and life while I have them
• Relationship habits we want to try, from assuming good intentions and showing appreciation to deliberately creating new ways to connect
• How all four of us handle conflict differently — and why understanding how your partner needs to repair an argument matters more than following one rule

In today’s vlog:

• Why going through pain and difficult periods can sometimes be what finally pushes us to change
• How thinking about different brain types has made me question what “normal” actually means and become more patient with people
• Learning to appreciate being healthy by remembering how life feels when my body isn’t cooperating
• Why I now value my energy more than money — and will happily spend money to remove tasks that drain me

In today’s vlog:

• A first look at the clothes we’re designing — and why the entire collection is being built around comfort first
• Injuring myself at the gym, learning to listen to my body, and how ADHD medication affects my morning routine
• Why these vlogs sound less polished than short-form content — I’m basically thinking out loud with you
• Religion, Satanism, religious rules and why I think we should critically question our beliefs while still respecting other people’s perspectives

In today’s vlog:

• What I’d tell myself 10 years ago about failure, health, ADHD and building the life you actually want
• Why constantly making more money stopped feeling meaningful once my basic needs were already met
• The little systems and backups I build around my ADHD instead of expecting myself to suddenly stop forgetting things
• How being open about our quad—and dealing with other people’s opinions—has helped me care less about approval and live much more authentically