The Peter & Tekky Show

In today's episode: I bring you guys out as Peter and I go for lunch with our other 2 boyfriends, Joel & Dan!

In today’s vlog:

• Being so distracted hanging out with the boys in Singapore that I completely forgot to film
• Why all four of us would stay together if we could — but one bed is simply way too squishy
• My ADHD making me leave expensive protein shakes unrefrigerated in my bag overnight
• Realising I need to start using alarms as external reminders for things I know I’ll otherwise forget

In today’s vlog:

• Getting unexpectedly jealous watching Peter and Joel kiss — and trying to understand where that feeling actually came from
• Why I think genuinely good people don’t need everyone to know about the good things they do
• Finishing more of our dreamy indoor anime-style garden/street setup before leaving for Singapore
• Talking about sleep, Peter’s mood improving, and choosing fragrances for our clothing brand packaging

In today’s vlog:

• One of my boyfriends has quit his job — and why I secretly want all three of them to quit
• My dream of building businesses together so we have more freedom, flexibility and time together
• Why having three boyfriends can give us more pillars of support when someone’s mood is down
• Why I’d rather try an unconventional life and fail than reach the end wondering what could have happened if I tried

In today’s vlog:

• Why being disliked by some people can actually mean you're living more authentically

• How 68 days of daily vlogging has helped me become more comfortable with myself and overcome embarrassment

• One of my boyfriends quits his job, and why I believe moving towards things that scare us is how we grow

• Why love is often found in the little things, from helping each other with chores to understanding when Peter doesn't have the energy to do something

In today’s vlog:

• Why disagreements can actually help partners understand each other better
• What saying “I love you” means to me — choosing to care for and support someone
• How spending time as a quad keeps teaching me new things about relationships
• Why I’m happier living authentically, even when other people judge or don’t understand it

In today’s vlog:

• Why Peter and Dan deliberately tell us earlier times because Joel and I are terrible at time management
• Why I’m completely okay with those little white lies if it means we actually arrive somewhere on time
• Going to a music festival that we personally really didn’t enjoy — even though some of our friends loved it
• Drinking possibly the strongest, darkest black coffee we’ve ever seen and talking about caffeine, sugar and how differently our bodies react to them

In today’s vlog:

• Realising how differently I pair with each of my three boyfriends
• Why having more partners can mean having more pillars of support
• How we naturally split up, help each other and balance each other’s energy
• What each trip together teaches me about relationships beyond just two people

In today’s vlog:

• Why I don’t want friends buying Santai State just to support me
• Finishing our first proper scripted skit and figuring out the next episodes
• Packing for our trip to reunite with our other two boyfriends — and the reality of long distance
• Trying meditation instead of pushing through exhaustion and realizing I need new strategies for different outcomes

In today’s vlog:

• Filming our first Modern Family-style skit for Santai State
• Why we’re starting to value time and mental energy more than saving every dollar
• What burnout, ADHD and diagnosis have taught me about working differently
• Preparing Santai State for a possible 11.11 launch and figuring out how our content fits the brand