Who are you after trauma?
When your life has been shaped by survival, coercion, or exploitation… reconnecting with your identity can feel overwhelming—and sometimes impossible.
In this episode of The Phoenix Project, Jennifer Chandler is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist, clinical sexologist, and AASECT-certified sex therapist and supervisor, Wendy Haggerty.
Together, they explore what it really means to rebuild your sense of self after trauma.
This conversation dives into:
How trauma and exploitation impact identityPerformance-based survival vs. authentic selfShame, grief, and disconnectionReclaiming your voice, boundaries, and bodyHealing your relationship with sexualityLearning to say no—and mean itMoving from survival into true self-connectionIf you’ve ever felt disconnected from who you are… this episode will help put language to what you’ve been feeling—and remind you that you are not broken.
And you can come back to yourself.
This is The Phoenix Project—where we are turning pain into purpose, one step at a time.
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