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The Pineapple Express Podcast: Performative Bisexuality in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces with Violet Fawkes

In this thought-provoking episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley is joined by sex writer and educator Violet Fawkes to discuss the concept of performative bisexuality within swinging and non-monogamy spaces. Together, they explore how bisexuality is often misunderstood or exploited for the pleasure of others in non-monogamous settings and the impact this has on genuine sexual expression and identity.

Violet shares her insights on how to navigate these dynamics while fostering an environment of authenticity, consent, and self-awareness. This episode offers a deep dive into the complexities of bisexuality, how it intersects with gender and sexual politics, and ways to create more inclusive, respectful communities.

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• The meaning of performative bisexuality in non-monogamy and swinging.
• How to foster authentic bisexual expression in sexual relationships.
• Violet Fawkes’ expert advice on creating more inclusive and respectful non-monogamous spaces.

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Pineapple Express Podcast: Embracing Consent Mistakes in Non-Monogamy and Swinging with Consent Educator Mia Schachter

In this insightful episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley welcomes Mia Schachter, a renowned consent educator, for an open and honest discussion about embracing mistakes in non-monogamy and swinging. Mia shares her unique perspective on how consent is an ongoing learning process, especially in dynamic relationship styles. They talk about the importance of acknowledging mistakes, learning from them, and creating a culture of accountability and growth.

Whether you're new to non-monogamy or a seasoned swinger, this episode offers invaluable insights into how to navigate the complexities of consent while maintaining trust, communication, and emotional safety.

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• How to handle consent mistakes and turn them into learning opportunities.
• The importance of ongoing consent and clear communication in non-monogamy and swinging.
• Practical advice from Mia Schachter on fostering a culture of accountability and growth in your relationships.

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Pineapple Express Podcast: Enthusiastic Consent in Swinging, Kink, and Non-Monogamy Spaces with Susan Wright from NCSF

In this impactful episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley is joined by Susan Wright, the founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), to explore the vital role of enthusiastic consent in swinging, kink, and non-monogamy communities. Together, they unpack how consent culture has evolved in these spaces, offering essential guidance for creating safe and respectful environments. Susan shares her extensive knowledge on the importance of clear communication, enthusiastic participation, and protecting boundaries within dynamic, non-traditional relationships.

Whether you're curious about non-monogamy, actively involved in the swinging or kink communities, or simply want to deepen your understanding of consent, this episode delivers thoughtful, real-world strategies for building trust and fostering positive, consensual experiences.

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• The definition and importance of enthusiastic consent in non-monogamy, swinging, and kink.
• How to set and respect boundaries in consensual, safe environments.
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Pineapple Express Podcast: Empowered Consent in Non-Monogamy and Swinging with Ally Iseman

In this empowering episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley welcomes Ally Iseman, a passionate advocate for ethical non-monogamy and consent-based communication. Together, they unpack the complexities of consent in non-monogamous and swinging communities, offering listeners a deep dive into the principles of empowered consent. Ally shares her expertise on building trust, fostering open dialogue, and setting clear boundaries in dynamic relationship styles, providing invaluable tools for navigating ethical relationships.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone exploring non-monogamy or swinging, looking to strengthen their communication skills, or seeking to create safer and more fulfilling relationships. Tune in for thoughtful insights, real-life examples, and actionable advice on how to prioritize consent in your intimate connections.

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• The importance of empowered consent in non-monogamy and swinging.
• How to navigate boundaries, desires, and agreements with confidence.
• Practical tips from Ally Iseman on creating trust and respect in relationships.

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On the Pineapple Express podcast, host Kiley engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Hazel Grace, a trauma-informed sex educator known for their empathetic approach to navigating complex topics surrounding sexuality. In this enlightening episode, they delve into the crucial concept of embodied consent, emphasizing its importance in fostering healthy relationships and self-awareness. Dr. Grace shares their expertise on how understanding one's own body and boundaries can lead to more meaningful connections, ultimately transforming the way individuals approach intimacy. Through candid discussions and relatable anecdotes Dr. Grace creates a warm and empowering atmosphere, encouraging listeners to embrace vulnerability and prioritize consent in their everyday lives.

Dr. Hazel Grace Yates (They/Them)  is a trauma-informed somatic sex educator and a certified sexological bodywork practitioner.

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[Welcome to another episode of the Pineapple Express podcast, where we explore the juicy and vibrant world of relationships! Today, we have a special guest with us—Dr. Marie Thouin,  author of 'What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships.' 

In this enlightening episode, we’ll dive into the transformative concept of compersion, a feeling of joy and empathy that arises when we see our partners thrive in other relationships. Dr. Thouin will share her insights on how understanding compersion can deepen connections, enrich our experiences, and foster healthier dynamics in consensually non-monogamous settings.

Marie Thouin, PhD is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, The Times of London, and HuffPost. Marie has also published seminal research studies, the first encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and resources on the topic of compersion. She is the Founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she supports and guides people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives.

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Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, where we dive into the multifaceted world of relationships, love, and everything in between. I’m your host, Kiley, and today we have an exceptional guest joining us—Laura Boyle, the brilliant mind behind the thought-provoking book *Monogamy? In this Economy?*.

In this conversation, Laura shares her insights on polyamory, modern relationships, and the changing dynamics of love in today's society. We'll explore the ideas behind her book, discussing how people can navigate different types of relationships and the challenges and rewards that come with them. It's a must-listen for anyone curious about alternative relationship styles and looking for a fresh perspective.

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Welcome back to another episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, where we explore the diverse and fascinating world of alternative lifestyles and relationships. I’m your host, Kiley, and today we have a very important discussion lined up for you. Joining us is Matt Turnquist, a swinger and fitness enthusiast who is male identified.
In this episode, Matt will chat with us about the emotional intricacies that men face while navigating the swinger lifestyle. We’ll tackle topics like jealousy, communication, and emotional well-being, shedding light on the often-overlooked male perspective. Whether you’re already part of the lifestyle or simply curious, this conversation promises valuable insights and practical advice.

So, kick back, relax, and join us for an open and honest discussion about men's emotions and challenges in the swinger community with Matt Turnquist.

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In this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks with Brett Chamberlin the co founder of OPEN about the week of visibility for non monogamy. They talk about how by promoting visibility, challenging stereotypes, and celebrating love in all its forms, we can pave the way for a world where non-monogamous families and relationships are not just accepted but celebrated.

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