Don't be self-righteous
Don't try to dominate, nag, scold and complain
Don't lose your temper
Don't try to push anyone but yourself
Don't keep bringing up the past
Don't keep checking up on others
Don't wallow in self-pity
Don't make threats you don't intend to carry out
Don't be over-protective
Don't be a doormat
Do forgive
Do be humble
Do take it easy, tension is harmful
Do play, find recreation and hobbies
Do keep trying whenever you fail
Do learn the facts about your problem
Do attend meetings/social gatherings
Do pray