The Purpose Circle

By Adaora Lumina MbeluEducation Self-Improvement

The Purpose Circle episodes

August 27, 2020How to Deal with Self Doubt | EP 23
In this episode of the #SwitchOnWithAdaora, I speak with Tolulope Oludapo, Founder of LifeGiva Consult, about identifying and overcoming self-doubt, on your journey to self-mastery and greatness.
Often, when people worry about not finding their purpose or using their gifts, it’s more about Self-doubt than ignorance. You’re always one step away from a totally different life; you are your only limit. Self-doubt makes you question your abilities and holds you back from who you’re meant to be.
In this episode, you will find How to handle the crippling effect of Self Doubt.
SHOW NOTES:
[3:51] Self-doubt often shows up when you invalidate your talents by comparing yourself to others, or not receiving the accolades or applause you thought you would from your parents, friends or the world.

[13:26] Self-doubt directly affects your perception of the value of your skills and offerings and your ability to monetize them.

[17:25] Seeing the value in other people, it’s a complete life shift; the law of attraction; if you don’t see value in others, or consistently underrate others, it would be the same for you.

[18:02] A compliment is another form of currency that can eliminate self-doubt.

[20:04] Acknowledging that it is there, is the first way to get over self-doubt, be true to yourself.

[22:37] Reminding yourself of the greatness within you by looking back at your past results and journey.

[23:42] Overcoming your fear of failure.

[30:18] Focusing on the message and the people that it’s for; making it more about others and the people that it’s for than you.
33 min
August 26, 2020The Glass Ceiling Of Comparison | EP 22
Comparison comes in different forms, it is relative and can be damaging in so many ways. Listen to this episode of #SwitchOnWithAdaora where I share a new dimension of comparison that we often ignore.
In my book, “This Thing Called Purpose”, I share a lot about comparison. I also have a short e-book on abandoning comparison and different ways to get over it; if you’d like to get this, you should definitely sign up for my newsletter on my Website, where I share a lot of information and my personal stories on Purpose and Productivity.
Show Notes:
[1:18] What we think of comparison vs what it actually is.

[2:29] My personal experience with comparison - in my marriage.

[6:00] Dealing with ego-driven comparison that serves as a glass ceiling and makes you comfortable with mediocrity.
9 min
August 25, 2020Leadership Is About Listening | EP 21
In this episode of the #SwitchOnWithAdaora Podcast, I speak about leading yourself first and leading others by serving, listening and taking action.
In this episode, you will learn what leadership is
Show Notes
[2:34] To lead means the initiative in an action; an example for others to follow.

[3:20] We are all leaders in different ways and every leader is a follower.

[4:25] Leadership is about leading; leading others, and leading yourself.

[7:05] As a leader, do you listen to your own advice? Do you practice the things that you share? Do you listen to other thought leaders?

[7:40] The better you become, the easier it becomes to teach people and share from a place of knowledge; Lead yourself first.

[14:41] Leadership is about listening; being present when people are sharing their experiences and moments.

[16:16] Leadership is also about taking action
19 min
July 30, 202010 Personal Branding Mistakes | EP 20
In 2020, personal branding has become an important part of positioning for anything whether it’s to showcase your talents, to search for a professional opportunity, to raise awareness for a cause, get people together to make a difference. In this class, I share some of the personal branding mistakes that you may be making, and how to fix them.
SHOW NOTES
Let's talk about 10 Personal Branding Mistakes you're making.
[1:25] Do not tie your brand too close to what you do; tie it to who you are at the core of your being.

[1:36] Personal branding is about making and keeping promises to people.

[2:57] Execute physically, amplify digitally.

[3:20] Do not be afraid to tell your true story; who you are now.

[3:45] Do not create a persona that you can not keep up with.

[4:48] Do not try to be on all media platforms when you initially begin so you do not spread yourself too thin.

[5:30] Begin with a platform that aligns with your personal brand.

[6:10} Start on a platform, build it then expand to other platforms.

[6:17] Do not try to attend every event.

[6:50] Showing up at every event is not equivalent to relevance.

[7:13] Attend events that are valuable or exciting to you and resonate with your personal brand.

[7:28] Do not respond to messages immediately when you are triggered.

[8:49] Have standardized rates that you charge based on your value so you are not tagged unprofessional.

[10:08] Do not partner with or promote brands that are not in alignment with your values.

[11:05] Your approach to brand partnerships should always be quality vs quantity; quality should always be your priority.

[11:29] Do not take your community for granted.

[11:43] Do not forget your Day-1s that have always been supporting you.

[12:03] Once in a while, take out time to appreciate and engage with your community.

[12:59] Do not lose yourself in the building of your brand; this is about who you are, not what you do.
15 min
July 30, 20209 Tips to Handle Your Speaker Bookings (The Business Of Speaking) | EP 19
Whether you’re a professional speaker or speaking is a side gig for you, I believe structuring your booking process such that you can focus on the actual delivery, and impact that you’re trying to make with your speech. For you to do this effectively, you need to ensure that you or your team, have a process in place that allows for efficiency and excellence. In the previous episodes, I shared about how to become a better public speaker. I also shared how to manage your public speaking engagements.
SHOW NOTES
On this episode, I share 9 tips to handle your speaker bookings.
[1:08] Create a speaker deck containing your bio, what you speak on, past events, rates and any other information you need to communicate to your client.

[1:50] Have a booking form to receive information about your audience, logistics and other event details.

[2:21] Have a speaking fee for your value.

[2:57] Do not be afraid to charge money or you would shortchange yourself.

[3:10] Paid Bookings vs unpaid bookings; clearly outline your goals for the year.

[3:44] How to determine which bookings ought to be paid or unpaid for and other benefits you could gain asides monetary compensation.

[4:52] Invoice properly for your services and keep records over email.

[5:04} Include your terms and conditions in your invoice and clarify the intricacies of your speaking engagement.

[6:03] Always confirm the details of your logistics.

[7:36] Always ask about your target audience; this determines your presentation and other details, down to your appearance.

[8:48] Always show up on time.

[9:41] Ensure there is constant communication with the event organizers.

[10:38] Always ask upfront if you can bring any materials to showcase or sell.

[11:55] Always send a Thank You note to the organizers and include feedback on how they can improve.
15 min
July 30, 20206 TIPS To Help You Plan Your Speaking Engagements | EP 18
In the previous episode, I shared some tips to become better at public speaking. If you’re trying to do this more professionally, amongst the other things you have going on, it becomes important for you to structure and plan out your speaking engagement, to allow you focus on effective delivery. On this episode, I share 6 tips to help you plan your speaking engagement.
SHOW NOTES
[0:54] Know your audience; always find out the details and target demography of those you would be speaking to.

[1:27] Do not go in blindly; knowing your audience allows you to plan your content and delivery more effectively.

[1:43] Talk about what you know about.

[1:54] Avoid topics you are not conversant with. However, if it is unavoidable, invest time in researching and learning more.

[4:01] Keep track of your time by segmenting your presentation.

[5:04] Leave time for questions if required.

[5:08] Take time to rehearse and go through your presentation.

[5:33] Preparation helps you with your delivery and makes you more comfortable and confident.

[5:57} The size of your audience does not matter; speak to 10 people the same way you would speak to 1,000 people.
8 min
July 30, 2020How To Become A Better Speaker | EP 17
Every day people around the world stand in front of some audience to speak. Chances are, you find yourself having to convince someone about an idea that you have. Or you may need to motivate someone to go out and do something. Or you may want to advocate for cause, or sell your product, or inspire a group of people. Public speaking is an important part of your purpose journey. Many people have the ability to speak, but very few have the ability to communicate clearly. Communication skills are crucial for personal and professional success, and improving this area is one of the greatest benefits of public speaking. Communication is an art. Public speaking is an art too. On this episode, I’m going to share some steps to becoming a better public speaker, so you can go on to tell your story and make amazing impact in the world.
SHOW NOTES
This 12 minutes Podcast is filled with practical hacks to speak like a Pro.
[0:55] Many people have the ability to speak, but not many people communicate; communication is an art, public speaking is an art too.

[1:31] Begin with some fun things about yourself to break the ice and reduce the tension.

[2:01] Speaking to people is about connection and humanity.

[2:34] Focus on the message and not the verbiage or the words to use.

[2:50] Do not equate intellectual ability to complex grammar.

[3:33] Tell personal stories that emphasize your experience and understanding of the subject matter.

[4:18] You do not have to infuse humour; find your strengths and build upon them.

[5:21] Pause if you have to; you came to speak, not rap.

[5:57} Take your time and focus on your message; it reduces your umms and ahhs and allows you to think and communicate effectively.

[6:29] Be charismatic and make eye contact; confidence is everything and it makes people listen to you.

[7:17] Watch your body language; do not slouch and keep your chin up.

[7:23] Do not be vague; use convincing language to communicate your expertise, confidence and understanding.

[8:05] Do not focus too much on your audience’s reaction.

[8:13] Do not make assumptions about your audience’s reaction; focus on your delivery.

[9:08] Be honest about everything.

[9:32] It is okay to not have answers to everyone; you can refer them to a person or resource.

[10:14] Speaking is responsibility; you have to make sure you are giving the right information.

[10:32] Personalize your experience.

[10:48] Anxiety is normal; even the best speakers go through moments of anxiety.

[11:07] Public speaking can be improved upon.

[11:18] Pat yourself on the back at the end.
13 min
July 30, 2020 Your History Will Shape Your Beliefs | EP 16
Beliefs are strong. I didn’t start asking for what I want and need, until recent years. The moment I started asking, it changed the dynamics of some of my relationships, friendships, and even business relationships etc. It also helped me value my contribution to anything - work, and personal.
It is easy to underestimate history. But history is important in order to understand your present. Ask Questions. Find out the WHY from the people who raised you - whether its your parents, your siblings, or someone else in your family. The more you ask to understand, the more you’ll find out about why you carry some of your beliefs.
8 min
July 30, 2020 #SwitchOnBolt: Exponential Growth | EP 15
Keep in mind that things grow exponentially - one thing leads to another. So, just take action today, and know that your action sets off another action, which sets off another, and another and another, and it keeps going.
4 min
July 30, 2020 #SwitchOnBolt: Actions Speak Louder Than Words | EP 14
I’m a super fan of affirmations. They help us build self confidence, and push ourselves towards the lofty goals that we envision. However, what happens when you continuously tell yourself that you’re all these things, and will do all these things, when in fact you’re doing nothing to work towards being and doing what you envision.
3 min

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Welcome to The Purpose Circle, a podcast dedicated to exploring how to live more authentically in this world. Hosted by Adaora Lumina Mbelu—a Bright Light, Chief Storyteller, and Purpose Driver—this…

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