The Queer Confidence Podcast

Two weeks ago we talked about Glory Holes, now we are talking about Edging?

What is this?

I'll give you a little taste:

When I learned to Edge in life, I had similar results to the bedroom.

More joy.
More desire.
More passion.
More explosive energy.

And more glorious eruptions.

It turned the process of dating, of building a business, and of showing up authentically into an ORGASMIC experience.

Take a listen and try out Edging today 😏🌋

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Whoa! Are you ready for today's guest?!?!

I can talk with her about anything,
And we frequently laugh till we cry... or pee our pants... or both 😂

My Grandma is on today's podcast.

We talk about her life, me coming out to her, her love for the LGBTQIA+ community, advice for young singles, and... poppers???
You'll just have to listen.

Join me on today's episode to catch all the laughs and life-changing advice with Grandma.

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It's that time of the year again when everyone is making vision boards, manifestation journals, and setting their goals.

Today I'm not offering you a new system, there are way too many out there already.

Instead, I want to offer you a different approach to your resolutions this year.

We humans love to have control over everything.

On one hand, it is incredibly beautiful that we are creators who have the opportunity to plan ahead.

On the other hand, when we plan too much we miss out on the joy and experience lots of frustration.

So today, take a lesson from glory holes.

Consider how simply setting an intention, and doing minimal planning + work could actually make your goals easier and more delightful this year!

Happy 2022!

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I am wrong sometimes.
Maybe event oftentimes.

And I have had some wild realizations about myself over the past month.

Some of the things I saw I didn't like.

In today's podcast episode, I want to make sure you know one thing above all else:

Nothing I say (or that anyone says) is absolute Truth.
You always have the power to take what you find helpful and toss the rest in the trash.
And by doing so, you can get clearer on why you believe what you believe and why you love it.

You are, and have always been, completely empowered!

Enjoy the episode, and may this New Year be a time of totally submerging yourself in the realization of your own autonomy.

You already have your Truth within.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/48

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On today's podcast, Confident Queer MaShawn Jones joins me again to give you alllllll the gold nuggets on what helped him become confident.

MaShawn is standing up for himself in relationships and making bold career moves.

He shares what it's like to be truly living authentically, and how you can be doing it too.

AND he share's his mind-blowing takeaway from our last session together.

This episode is gonna light you up with new possibilities and the truth of your own capability.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/47

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Stop harming your self-esteem with goal setting.

The reason goal setting feels like self-harm and not like self-love is because of why you chose to set your goals.

Goal setting is not for the purpose of enjoying the accomplishment of the goal.

I mean reaching goals IS fun!

But goals are just an excuse to play the game.

Setting goals gives you a game to play to have a reason to collect experiences.

Listen to today's episode and think about are there goals you have, that you don't want to play the game required for them?

And are there games of life you want to play, but haven't set goals that would require you to play them yet?

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What if you change your mindset too much?

If you are like me, you might be fearing "what will happen if I change too much? How will I be able to relate to others? Will I lose friends?"

And let me just rip the bandaid off for you... the answer is yes.

It won't be nearly as bad as you think it will be though.

Listen to today's podcast episode to step out of the Matrix in a way that empowers you and those who are still stuck in it.

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What is the most important ingredient for massive success?

It's not knowing the right people, knowing how, or having a fail-proof plan.

It's your capacity to take risks.

Creating massive, blow your mind, holy-shit-am-I-really-capable-of-that? success is ALWAYS preceded by doing something that feels risky.

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This is the shit no one warns you of when you head out on your self-development journey.

As you make big leaps and bounds, you WILL hit a progress hangover (many of them).

Listen to today's episode to understand the science behind it, and partner with your body through the draining experience.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/43

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If your current big life goal strategy is filled with a lot of pressure, focus, planning, envisioning, basically anything but pure ease and blissful joy... may I suggest there is a much better and more effective way?

My client Keila J. Brown used this method and ended up on Law & Order SVU in less than 2 weeks.

Listen on to learn the process for yourself.

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https://coachalexray.com/podcast/42

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