The Reclamation Project

A couple of months ago, Julianne had a 1:1 session with a client. During the session, the client focused on her experience receiving finger-pointing Instagram comments that were critical of her feminine expression. She expressed to Julianne that she felt like she was being shamed because she wasn't feminine enough and felt the pressure to be a certain kind of feminine...and this got Julianne thinking.

What Julianne offers in this episode is a handful of practices you can use to bring back your ferocity. When we awaken our feminine, we often swing really hard into one polarity, and then naturally swing back to balance it out. Julianne's own journey of softening has been very deep in the last year, and now she's bringing her ferocious self back online and showing you how you can, too.

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Last week, Julianne put up a reel about the incredible growth that is happening in the sexual health and wellness industry; it's growing like rapid fire, and Julianne is SO excited about it! It's one of the fastest growing industries out there, with the market size expected to reach $125.1 billion by 2026 (a 12.4% rate increase!). We are truly waking up to our sexual selves and our eroticism.

With this in mind, if you are a service provider, be it a healer, guide, mentor, coach, or therapist, and you work with people, it's time for you to answer the call and bring the world of sexuality and somatics into your practice. You can only take your clients as far as you've taken yourself, so going into this work will be transformative not only for you, but for your clients as well.

Listen for Julianne's list of things you can use to bring this conversation into your communities, relationships, and dynamics with clients.

Quotes:

"It needs to be part of the conversation. A system or methodology that does not address our sexual body and energetics or unite our sexuality with spirituality is incomplete."

"It's important for the client to feel like you can hold that space. When they start to open up to you about their sexuality, sex life, and past traumas, it's going to feel good for them when the person they open up to feels really solid and non-judgmental."

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At the time of recording this episode, it was Black Friday, which got Julianne thinking about spending. We talk a lot about money on the podcast, whether it's spending, investing, etc. In this episode, Julianne gives you some solid mindset shifts to help you play a bigger money game when it comes to:

• Making big investments while dealing with your fear voice
• Getting to a level of making larger investments
• How to know what to invest in: what's really meant for you
• Handling money objections

Quotes:

"The best recipe for growth is feeling safe, but not too safe. We want to stretch ourselves out, but we don't want to over-trigger our nervous system, and that's how I like to go about balancing and investing."

"It's so important when you hear yourself giving yourself a reason for why you can or cannot, the invitation here is to get to the bottom of it by being brutally honest with yourself and getting to the root of the fear. Unpack it layer by layer."

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Most of the learnings in Julianne's lifetime have come about as a result of relationships. In this episode, we explore dearmoring of the heart and learning to love yourself first and foremost before loving another. It's very easy for women to lose themselves in partnership. Listen for Julianne's 5 tips on how to hold onto your Self in a healthy relationship.

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Today's episode is all about the incredible magic that is happening inside Julianne's program In the Flesh, her facilitator training for women who are wanting to dive into somatic sexology, quantum bodywork, sexual healing, pussy reclamation, and the erotic blueprints.

Listen more to learn about:

• What In the Flesh is and who it's for
• Why the program is called "In the Flesh"
• How it came to fruition and Julianne's goal with the program
• The power this container has to change communities
• Objections to investing in yourself and how to turn it into a "fuck yes"
• How Julianne enrolled a $40K client!

Interested in joining In The Flesh? Reach out to Julianne on IG or hop on a call with her to see if it's a good fit!

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She may lead you to places and people and things that make you nauseous...

nauseous at the challenge it gives you ;)

Know that it's for your highest good…and rise to the challenge.

You're bleeding yourself dry with the indecision…and draining your precious energy.

Quotes:

"What is sitting in the indecision giving you? That energy you're using to sit in that place of indecision is actually holding you back from progressing in more than one area of your life."

"Pussy will lead you to the places that will challenge you and will demand your courage and bravery to move forward."

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Something that appears over and over in coaching containers Julianne leads or is part of is the universal fear of fucking it up, doing it wrong, and using your voice as a leader.

It can show up as:

• growing an audience and then saying the wrong thing
• being in a position of leadership and messing up

There's so much pressure, as we live in the time of "cancel culture." A lot of us have this fear deeply embedded in us from ancestral wounding and trauma in our DNA. So this fear is real.

In this episode, Julianne shares how to overcome this fear and continue to play big and play loud. Julianne 100% believes that when you mess up, it's just an opportunity for you to be a better leader.

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A few weeks ago, Julianne had a conversation with a friend who noticed that Julianne's "following" list on Instagram was down to zero. She expressed that accounts that have many followers but don't follow anyone really bother her and make her feel like those people are self entitled.

Julianne replied one word to her: boundaries. In this episode, Julianne recounts why she unapologetically decided to unfollow all of the people she was following and how this choice has positively impacted her mental health and sanity. Listen here for tangible steps to feel comfortable setting boundaries and protecting your energy.

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This episode was taken from Julianne's guest appearance on the Unbuckled Podcast with Intimacy Architect Christi Anne Bela

"Embodiment is not something that came easily at first to me or my guest Julianne Vaccaro. For both of us, the journey was one of healing from sexual trauma and learning to distinguish our fear from our intuition.

Julianne began her path in the fitness world, hyper-focused on the physical, and realized that just because she was working out or eating well didn't mean she was emotionally or spiritually in her body. It was through a somatic practice that she began to connect the pieces and feel present to the passion of truly living in the flesh. This has been the foundation of her work with Women, to heal and reclaim their erotic Goddess energy.

In December of 2021, she is launching a program 'In the Flesh,' a Mystery School where you can discover your freedom, pleasure, and power, as you play together."

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https://www.intimacyarchitect.com/

IG: @intimacy_architect

Unbuckled Podcast

Ted Talk: Building A Better Life With Boundaries

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Julianne's clients have seen 2-3x increases in income all through working with their sex and their sexuality. Two of Julianne's clients even recently reached out to ask if they could pay their invoices early (these clients were actually nervous that they couldn't make this big of an investment when they first started!)

Working with a 5-6 figure coach forces you to break past what you previously believed was possible - a big testament to your worth. Money is a representation of what you think you are worthy and capable of. In this episode, Julianne explores this subject and encourages everyone to dream big, play big, and learn to love the money game.

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Take the Erotic Blueprint quiz to learn what your erotic language is!

Want to connect with Julianne? Send her a DM on Instagram @juliannevaccaro!