The Reconnect Marriage Podcast

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We often try to avoid conflict because it usually doesn't go well. So, what's the point of working through conflict? To create understanding and connection.

Listen in As Dr. Steve Call and Lisa Call offer insight through a practical example into engaging conflict that leads us toward the desired outcome.

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There are 3 common and core issues couples experience sometime in their marriage:
1) feeling stuck
2) loneliness
3) contempt

Listen in as Dr. Steve Call and his wife, Lisa Call, engage in a conversation that helps listeners become more aware of the three common and core issues for couples and how to engage these issues well.  

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There is often some resistance, perhaps caution, to remembering our past. Naturally, remembering the past, particularly experiences in our family of origin, is painful. Yet, many of our everyday moments in marriage reflect the past and can be difficult to navigate well if we choose not to remember the past.

Listen in as Dr. Steve Call and his wife, Lisa Call, engage in a conversation that helps listeners connect to the importance of linking the past to the present and the potential meaningful connection that can occur.

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Envy is a common feeling and experience in marriage! Yet, for many of us, envy can imply there is something wrong or that we ought not to feel it. In marriage, envy shows up often, and it can create disruption and disconnection, and we aren't aware of the source.

Listen in as Dr. Steve and Lisa Call offer insight into navigating envy and helpful ways to communicate when it is present. 

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Lingering in the discomfort can feel uncomfortable. We often rush or hurry to solve or fix what our spouse may be feeling or experiencing. Yet, we often need our spouse to linger - to stay present and be with us. 

Listen in as Dr. Steve and Lisa Call offer insight into how lingering in the discomfort fosters and develops a sense of resilience and reminds our spouse of the soothing comfort of presence. 

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A common fear we each have is the fear of abandonment. It's the core fear from the moment we are born. It's common for us to experience this fear when we experienced an emotionally unavailable parent. Sometimes, this fear can become activated in our marriage when our spouse is emotionally unavailable. 

Listen in as Dr. Steve Call and Lisa Call have a conversation about the fear of abandonment and helpful ways we can navigate the fear. 

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Containment is the relational engagement with our partner or spouse, particularly in times of distress or need.  Containment is a movement toward and the capacity to hold what the other might be feeling or thinking. 

Listen in as Dr. Steve and Lisa Call have a conversation on the need for containment and how couples can pursue containment with one another. 

Containment is the relational engagement with our partner or spouse, particularly in times of distress or need.  Containment is a movement toward and the capacity to hold what the other might be feeling or thinking. 

Listen in as Dr. Steve and Lisa Call have a conversation on the need for containment and how couples can pursue containment with one another. 

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The struggles and tensions in marriage are often connected to differences. We can have different thoughts, beliefs, ideas, needs, and these differences can lead to a sense of disconnection rather than connection. 

Listen in as Dr. Steve and Lisa Call offer an engaging conversation about how differences in our marriage can create a level of intimacy in marriage.

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Often in a marriage relationship, we have reactions to one another when our spouse's thought, idea, feeling, or belief is different or unexpected.  We simply have reactions rather than reflections. 

Listen in as Dr. Steve and Lisa Call offer helpful insight into the value of reflections with our spouse rather than reactions.