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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, our NICC® therapists are back for another My Counselor Says conversation!
Host Megan Hughes is joined by Amy Bark and Greg Cooney to explore a question that sounds simple but can become surprisingly complicated:
"Who am I?"
Maybe you've recently experienced a major life change. Your kids are growing up, your career is shifting, a relationship has ended, or you're entering a season of life that looks nothing like what you expected.
Suddenly, the roles, routines, and relationships that once helped define you are changing. And you find yourself wondering...
"If I'm not who I used to be, then who am I now?"
Identity struggles can leave us feeling lost, disconnected, and uncertain about our purpose. But what if these uncomfortable seasons of change could also become opportunities to discover more of who God created us to be?
In this episode, Amy, Greg, and Megan explore why our sense of identity can feel shaken during life transitions, what remains constant as we change, and how we can develop a stronger, healthier sense of self.
Together they discuss:
Sometimes the hardest part of change isn't what we're losing around us. It's the feeling that we're losing ourselves in the process. You may be changing, but that doesn't mean you're losing yourself.
Your identity is more than your job, your relationships, your accomplishments, or the season of life you're in. You might be discovering more of who you were created to become.
So instead of asking, "How do I get back to who I used to be?", maybe a more helpful question is: "Who is God inviting me to become in this season?"
Key Takeaways:
Meet Megan Hughes: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/megan-hughes/
Meet Amy Bark: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/amy-bark/
Meet Greg Cooney: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/greg-cooney/
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
If you've been struggling with your identity, questioning your purpose, or feeling overwhelmed by life changes, you don't have to navigate those questions alone.
📖 Start with our FREE 2-Minute Anxiety Check-In:
https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling-for-anxiety/
And when you're ready for additional support, visit https://mycounselor.online/ to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can help you explore your identity, navigate life's transitions, and take practical steps toward greater confidence, clarity, and healing. ❤️
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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, our NICC® therapists are back for another My Counselor Says conversation!
Host Megan Hughes is joined by Amy Bark and Greg Cooney to talk about something every single one of us will face at some point:
Uncertainty.
Maybe you're facing a major life transition. Maybe you're waiting for an answer about your health, finances, career, or relationships. Or maybe life just isn't going according to plan, and you have absolutely no idea what comes next.
And if you're anything like most of us, not knowing can feel pretty uncomfortable. We like plans. We like answers. We like knowing what's around the corner.
But what happens when life doesn't give us those things?
In this episode, Amy, Greg, and Megan explore why uncertainty can feel so threatening, how our nervous systems respond to the unknown, and what it looks like to navigate life's unpredictable seasons with greater confidence, flexibility, and faith.
Together they discuss:
Uncertainty is part of life, but it doesn't have to control how we live.
When we don't know what's coming next, fear can tempt us to overthink, worry, and try to control everything around us. But peace doesn't require having all the answers.
Learning to navigate uncertainty means understanding our fears, letting go of what we can't control, and trusting God as we take the next step. ❤️
Key Takeaways:
Meet Megan Hughes: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/megan-hughes/
Meet Amy Bark: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/amy-bark/
Meet Greg Cooney: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/greg-cooney/
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
If you've been struggling with anxiety about the future, feeling overwhelmed by life transitions, or finding yourself constantly trying to control what happens next, you don't have to navigate it alone.
📖 Start with our FREE 2-Minute Anxiety Check-In, and download The Anxiety Field Guide Here:
https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling-for-anxiety/
And when you're ready for additional support, visit https://mycounselor.online/ to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can help you understand what's happening underneath your anxiety and take practical steps toward navigating uncertainty with greater confidence and peace. ❤️
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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, our NICC® therapists are back for another My Counselor Says conversation!
Host Megan Hughes is joined by Amy Bark and Greg Cooney to talk about something almost all of us have done at one time or another:
The cost of pretending you're fine.
You know how it goes.
Someone asks, "How are you doing?" And before you've even had a chance to think about it, you respond:
"I'm fine!" 😊
But are you?
Maybe you're overwhelmed, anxious, exhausted, frustrated, or hurting. Maybe you don't want to burden anyone else with your problems. Or maybe you've become so good at pushing through that you don't even realize how much you're carrying.
Here's the thing: Pretending you're fine might feel like it's helping you get through life, but what is it actually costing you?
In this episode, Amy, Greg, and Megan explore why we hide our emotions, what's happening in our nervous systems when we do, and how we can begin creating healthier patterns of honesty, connection, and healing.
Together they discuss:
If you've been struggling behind the scenes while telling everyone you're doing great, you don't have to pretend you're okay to be worthy of love, connection, and support. God didn't create us to live behind a mask.
Healthy emotional living doesn't require telling everyone everything. It means learning to recognize what's happening inside us and finding appropriate, safe ways to be honest about it.
So the next time someone asks how you're doing, take the first step toward healing by sharing what's actually going on.
Key Takeaways:
Meet Megan Hughes: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/megan-hughes/
Meet Amy Bark: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/amy-bark/
Meet Greg Cooney: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/greg-cooney/
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
If you've been hiding your emotions, struggling with people pleasing, or feeling the pressure to keep everything together, you don't have to figure it out alone.
Visit https://mycounselor.online/ to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can help you understand what's happening underneath those patterns, reconnect with your emotions, and take practical steps toward greater honesty, connection, and healing. ❤️
We're cheering you on as you grow in this friend!
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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, our NICC® therapists are back for another My Counselor Says conversation!
Host Megan Hughes is joined by Amy Bark and Greg Cooney to talk about something most of us would probably rather avoid:
Hard conversations.
You know something needs to be said, a boundary needs to be communicated, feelings have been hurt, expectations aren't lining up... There's tension in a relationship, and you know ignoring it probably isn't going to make things better.
But every time you think about bringing it up, your brain begins churning the conversation into the worst possible outcome.
So how can we talk about hard things without damaging the relationships we care about and overcome that fear?
In this episode, Amy, Greg, and Megan discuss:
Avoiding a difficult conversation can feel like you're protecting the relationship.
But sometimes, the conversation you're afraid could hurt the relationship is the conversation the relationship actually needs.
Having the courage to talk about the hard thing is an important step toward healing the relationship.
Key Takeaways:
Meet Megan Hughes: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/megan-hughes/
Meet Amy Bark: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/amy-bark/
Meet Greg Cooney: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/greg-cooney/
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
If you've been avoiding an important conversation, repeatedly getting stuck in conflict, or aren't sure how to communicate what's happening in your relationships, reach out to https://mycounselor.online/ to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can help you navigate the difficult conversations in your life. We're cheering you on friend! ❤️
Stay Connected with Us!
📺 Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more inspiring content.
🌐 Visit the Road to Happiness Podcast Webpage to explore all our episode landing pages.
❤️ Explore if Christian Counseling is the next right step for you.
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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, our NICC® therapists are back for another My Counselor Says conversation!
Host Megan Hughes is joined by Amy Bark and Greg Cooney to tackle something that can look productive on the outside while creating anxiety, exhaustion, and pressure on the inside:
Perfectionism.
Maybe you call it having high standards. Maybe you just really like doing things the “right” way. Or maybe you’ve discovered that no matter how much you accomplish, it never quite feels like enough.
So when does pursuing excellence cross the line into perfectionism?
And more importantly, how do you stop letting perfectionism run your life?
In this episode, Amy, Greg, and Megan discuss:
Breaking free from perfectionism doesn't mean you stop caring, lower every standard, or abandon excellence. It means learning that your worth doesn't rise and fall with your performance.
You can make mistakes. You can disappoint someone. You can learn as you go.
And you can pursue excellence without demanding perfection from yourself.
Maybe overcoming perfectionism begins with replacing the question “How do I get everything right?” with a different one:
“Why does getting this wrong feel so threatening?”
Key Takeaways:
Meet Megan Hughes: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/megan-hughes/
Meet Amy Bark: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/amy-bark/
Meet Greg Cooney: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/greg-cooney/
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
If perfectionism, people pleasing, anxiety, or the pressure to perform is leaving you exhausted, you don't have to untangle it alone.
Visit https://mycounselor.online/ to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist - possibly one here on the podcast - who can help you understand what's underneath your perfectionism and take practical steps toward greater freedom and healing. ❤️
Stay Connected with Us!
📺 Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more inspiring content.
🌐 Visit the Road to Happiness Podcast Webpage to explore all our episode landing pages.
❤️ Explore if Christian Counseling is the next right step for you.
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Hey friend! We're doing something new today on The Road to Happiness Podcast!
We're introducing My Counselor Says, conversations with MyCounselor.Online's own NICC® therapists about the questions, struggles, and challenges they help people navigate every day.
For this first conversation, your host Megan Hughes is joined by Amy Bark and Greg Cooney to talk about something every single one of us experiences:
Emotions.
Why did God give us such big emotions? What are we supposed to do with them? And why do Christians sometimes treat emotions like anger, sadness, fear, or disappointment as if they're inherently bad?
In God's Good Design for Emotions, Amy, Greg, and Megan explore what Scripture teaches us about our emotional lives and some of the common pitfalls that can make emotions even harder to navigate.
In this episode, they discuss:
Sadness, anger, fear, disappointment, joy, excitement, and everything in between are part of the emotional capacity God designed into you.
The goal isn't to never experience difficult emotions, but learning how to recognize them, understand them, and respond to them in healthy ways.
So the next time a big emotion shows up, instead of immediately asking, "How do I get rid of this?", get curious:
"What is this emotion trying to tell me?"
Key Takeaways:
Meet Megan Hughes: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/megan-hughes/
Meet Amy Bark: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/amy-bark/
Meet Greg Cooney: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counselors/greg-cooney/
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
If you're struggling with big emotions and aren't sure how to navigate them on your own, you don't have to figure it all out by yourself.
Visit https://mycounselor.online/ to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can help you understand what's happening beneath those emotions and take your next steps toward healing. ❤️
Stay Connected with Us!
📺 Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more inspiring content.
🌐 Visit the Road to Happiness Podcast Webpage to explore all our episode landing pages.
❤️ Explore if Christian Counseling is the next right step for you.
Thank you for joining us on The Road To Happiness! We're cheering you on as you Mature into True Happiness!
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Hey friend, we've made it to the final episode of The Anxiety Signal! ❤️
Throughout this series, Josh & Cassie have explored anxiety through the lenses of neuroscience, relationships, trauma, emotional health, Scripture, community, therapy, medication, and healing.
Now we're wrapping things up with one of the more complicated conversations in anxiety and trauma treatment:
👉 What should Christians think about marijuana, ketamine, psychedelics, and other drug-assisted approaches to mental health treatment?
There's a big difference between recreational drug use and substances being explored or used within professional treatment settings. There are also important questions about effectiveness, risks, wisdom, legality, medical supervision, and how these approaches fit within a Christian worldview.
Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie unpack how they think about these questions and how Christians can approach emerging treatments thoughtfully rather than reacting from either fear or hype.
In this episode, Josh & Cassie discuss:
After 19 episodes, here's one of the biggest things we hope you take away from The Anxiety Signal:
Your anxiety is worth listening to.
There are many tools that may play a role in treating anxiety. Some are well established. Others are still developing. Some may help with symptoms, while deeper work may be necessary to address what's underneath them.
The goal isn't to chase the newest treatment or reject something simply because it's unfamiliar.
The goal is to become informed, seek wise and appropriately qualified guidance, understand your options, and pursue healing with discernment.
Most importantly, you don't have to walk that journey alone.
Key Takeaways:
Free Download: The Anxiety Field Guide https://mycounselor.online/anxiety
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Get To Know Josh & Cassie: https://joshcassie.com/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
When you're ready for additional support, visit MyCounselor.Online to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can help you explore your anxiety and determine appropriate next steps for your healing journey.
The series may be ending, but we pray your journey toward maturing into True Happiness is just beginning. We're cheering you on to that journey friend! ❤️
Stay Connected with Us!
📺 Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more inspiring content.
🌐 Visit the Road to Happiness Podcast Webpage to explore all our episode landing pages.
❤️ Explore if Christian Counseling is the next right step for you.
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Hey friend, welcome back to The Anxiety Signal series.
When you're struggling with anxiety, there are a LOT of things people tell you to try.
Medication. Exercise. Better sleep. Therapy. Prayer. Changing your diet. Managing stress.
And many of those things really can help.
But here's the bigger question:
👉 Which one actually helps anxiety the most?
Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie explore some of the most common approaches people use to address anxiety, what each one can and can't do, and what it looks like to move beyond simply managing symptoms toward addressing the root of your anxiety.
In this episode, Josh & Cassie discuss:
So, what helps anxiety the most? There's an important difference between helping your anxiety symptoms and healing what's causing the alarm to keep sounding.
And when you're ready to explore what's underneath that signal, you can begin moving beyond symptom management toward deeper healing.
Key Takeaways:
Free Download: The Anxiety Field Guide https://mycounselor.online/anxiety
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Get To Know Josh & Cassie: https://joshcassie.com/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
When you're ready to explore the root of your anxiety, visit MyCounselor.Online to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can walk alongside you in your healing journey.
Don't just silence the alarm. Discover what it's trying to tell you. ❤️
Stay Connected with Us!
📺 Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more inspiring content.
🌐 Visit the Road to Happiness Podcast Webpage to explore all our episode landing pages.
❤️ Explore if Christian Counseling is the next right step for you.
Thank you for joining us on The Road To Happiness! We're cheering you on as you Mature into True Happiness!
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Hey friend, welcome back to The Anxiety Signal series.
After spending this series unpacking what anxiety is, why it happens, and what healing can look like, we're tackling one of the biggest questions of all:
👉 Can anxiety actually be cured?
Can you reach a place where anxiety no longer controls your life? Does healing mean you'll never feel anxious again? And if anxiety is a signal, what happens when you've finally addressed what the alarm has been trying to tell you?
Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie explore what lasting healing from anxiety can really look like and the hope Jesus offers for your healing journey.
In this episode, Josh & Cassie discuss:
So, can anxiety be cured for good? Maybe the better question is this:
Can you heal to the point that anxiety no longer needs to run your life?
Your anxiety has been sounding an alarm for a reason. Healing is about learning to understand that signal, address what's underneath it, and help your nervous system discover that it doesn't have to stay on high alert.
The goal isn't to become a person who never feels anxiety.
It's to become someone who can recognize the signal, understand what it means, and respond from a place of greater peace, maturity, and freedom. The alarm can finally rest. ❤️
Key Takeaways:
Free Download: The Anxiety Field Guide https://mycounselor.online/anxiety
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Get To Know Josh & Cassie: https://joshcassie.com/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
When you're ready for deeper support, visit MyCounselor.Online to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can walk alongside you on your healing journey.
Your anxiety doesn't have to write the rest of your story. Healing is possible. ❤️
Stay Connected with Us!
📺 Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more inspiring content.
🌐 Visit the Road to Happiness Podcast Webpage to explore all our episode landing pages.
❤️ Explore if Christian Counseling is the next right step for you.
Thank you for joining us on The Road To Happiness! We're cheering you on as you Mature into True Happiness!
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Hey friend, welcome back to The Anxiety Signal series.
When someone you love is struggling with anxiety, what role are you supposed to play?
And if you're the one struggling, where does the Church fit into your healing?
Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie explore the role of the Church in healing anxiety and why caring for one another's emotional and mental health isn't something Christians should leave entirely to professionals.
Professional counseling matters. But so does the Body of Christ.
In this episode, Josh & Cassie unpack:
The answer to our mental health crisis can't simply be, "Go see a therapist."
Sometimes professional care is absolutely needed. But we also need friends. Mentors. Pastors. Families. Small groups. Churches. We need people willing to bear one another's burdens and walk alongside each other through difficult seasons.
That's part of what it means to be the Body of Christ. You have a role to play. We can become the kind of people, and the kind of Church, where no one has to struggle alone.
Key Takeaways:
Free Download: The Anxiety Field Guide https://mycounselor.online/anxiety
Receive Christian Counseling: https://mycounselor.online/christian-counseling/
Get To Know Josh & Cassie: https://joshcassie.com/
Connect With Us:
🌎 Website: https://mycounselor.online/
🚨 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRoadToHappinessPodcast
🌴 Our LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/joshcassie
Listen to the episode and subscribe to continue following The Anxiety Signal series.
And when professional support is the right next step, visit MyCounselor.Online to get matched with a Christ-centered therapist who can walk alongside you in your healing journey.
We are the Body of Christ. Let's learn how to carry one another's burdens well. ❤️
Stay Connected with Us!
📺 Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more inspiring content.
🌐 Visit the Road to Happiness Podcast Webpage to explore all our episode landing pages.
❤️ Explore if Christian Counseling is the next right step for you.
Thank you for joining us on The Road To Happiness! We're cheering you on as you Mature into True Happiness!
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Welcome to The Road to Happiness Podcast! Hosted by Josh Spurlock - licensed Christian counselor - and his wife Cassie Spurlock, this podcast delves into the transformative power of Neuroscience…