I’m spilling the real secret sauce: never stop courting. If you are wanting lasting love, success, and fulfillment? You need to show up as your best—every single day. 

Conger and I just celebrated 31 years of marriage (34 years together), and I’ve lived this message right alongside him. You work hard to get something amazing in your life—whether it’s a partner, a career, or a dream—and the work doesn’t stop once you have it. You cherish it. You nurture it. You never stop counting, never stop putting in the effort, never stop showing up.

In this episode, I’m sharing my perspective on how to keep the excitement alive, avoid drifting away, and honor what you’ve worked so hard for. This isn’t just about marriage—it’s about how you approach everything you value.

If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to build something worth keeping, this one’s for you. 

Birds of a feather flock together—and that’s exactly why you need to pay attention to who’s in your circle. 

The people you surround yourself with have the biggest influence on your energy, your outlook, and your future. If you’re constantly around negative people, it’s only a matter of time before their mindset rubs off on you. But if you’re intentional about choosing happy, positive, productive humans—you’ll rise higher, faster. 

In this episode, I’m diving into the power of your circle, why auditing your relationships matters, and how to align yourself with people who make you better. Because at the end of the day, the company you keep is shaping who you become! 

You are the solution! 

Your happiness? That’s on you.
The energy you bring? That’s on you.
How you show up every single day? That’s on you.
Paying for your life, doing the work, making progress on what matters—yep, all on you.

Nobody owes you a thing. Let me say that again: nobody owes you anything. But you? You owe yourself everything. You owe yourself the hustle, the discipline, the joy, the fight. You owe yourself the life you dream about when your head hits the pillow at night.

If there’s something you haven’t achieved yet—something you want so badly you can taste it—it’s yours for the taking. But here’s the truth: you are the only one who can go out and get it. No more waiting for permission. No more blaming the world. No more complaining about what’s not happening.

This is about showing up, doing the work, and surrounding yourself with people who make you better—not bitter. The kind of people who push you, challenge you, and believe in you as much as you should believe in yourself.

It’s time to take full responsibility, ignite your energy, and go after the life you want with everything you’ve got. Because the solution? It’s been you all along.

How you end your day is how you begin your next—are you doing it right? 

I’m sharing my 3-step nightly power-down that helps me rest easy, clear the junk, and wake up fired up and aligned! 
It’s simple. It’s powerful. It’s a total game-changer:

1. Gratitude – No matter what your day looked like, find something—big or small—to be thankful for. There’s always good. 

2. Release – Let. It. Go. The stress, the worry, the chaos—don’t carry it into tomorrow. 

3. Intention – Speak life over your future. Want peace? Say it. Want clarity? Declare it. Want abundance? Claim it.

I’ll walk you through exactly what I say before my head hits the pillow, every single night. This is your permission slip to reset, recharge, and rest like the rockstar you are.

Let’s build a life that feels just as good at night as it does in the morning! 

I’m not an empty nester—I’m a bird launcher, baby! I’ve had the absolute honor of raising and launching two incredible young men out into the world to do good, to serve others, and to live a big life. This episode is for every parent, every dreamer, every leader who wants to launch greatness.

But let me tell you something: this podcast isn’t just for you. There are three reasons I do this every week—
1. To remind myself what’s GOOD.
2. To serve YOU.
3. To pay it forward.

That’s why I show up. That’s why I hit record. Because I want you to live a life so full of love, leadership, and legacy it overflows.

And to all the mamas and dads out there—say a blessing over your kids every night. I told my boys two things growing up:
-  You are destined for greatness.
-  Don’t forget your thanks and your prayers.

Let’s launch some birds, let’s build the future, and let’s never stop believing in what’s possible. Winners win. Always. 

Let’s talk about 3 magic words that can transform your relationships:

Never. Stop. Courting.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what makes a marriage (or any relationship in your life, even your job) work. I’m giving you 3 tips and tricks that have kept my marriage strong and full of love. Because here’s the truth—I love love. I believe in marriage. I believe in commitment. 

And the best part? These magic words came from my husband, that insanely hot guy I hang with, Jim Conger. He said, “Easy math. I worked really hard to get her… and I will never stop courting her.” 

If you’re in a relationship—or want one—this one’s for you. Because everyone deserves real, lasting love. 

Let me tell you something—winners freaking win. That’s it. End of story. I’ve got a tale for you today that fires me up every single time. His name is JJ Spaun. An underdog. A man who faced injury, setbacks, loss—you name it. But did he give up? No way. He kept going. And he won the U.S. Open.

Listen, life’s going to try to knock you out. It’s going to throw some heavy punches. But the secret? You don’t quit. You can’t quit. You rise. You grind. You believe that no matter what’s in front of you, you're going to win.

Because that’s what winners do. Winners win. Period. Let’s go. 

Let’s get one thing straight—you are the secret to wild success. In this powerhouse episode, I’m coming to you live from the Women’s Council of Realtors, where I break down the 3 secrets to wild success (and no, it’s not what you think).

We talk mindset, aura, and vibe—because how you show up matters. And if your energy’s off, guess what? It’s time to housekeep. Clean it up. Own your mess. We all have one—and anyone who says they don’t? Total BS.

You’re a fixer, a doer, a force. And the best piece of advice I’ve ever been given? 
Don’t watch the news. It’ll scare the hell out of you and shrink your power.

So tune in, turn up, and let’s get to work on the only thing that matters: you. 

You’ve heard it before—misery loves company. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to sit at that table. In this episode, I break down why your environment matters, how to identify the energy drainers around you, and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who push you toward your best self. It’s time to do a circle audit—because the people in your life either fuel your fire or put it out. Choose wisely! 

Start Your Day With This

Let’s talk about how you start your day—because it matters. The way you wake up, the first thoughts you think, the energy you bring—it all sets the tone. In this episode, I’m sharing something deeply personal: the prayer I say every single morning. It’s from Louise Hay and it’s powerful, simple, and a total game-changer.

This isn’t just woo-woo morning fluff—this is a foundation. A mindset reset. A soul spark. Say it with me and let’s start showing up happier, healthier, and ready to lead with love. The world needs your light—so let’s flip the switch first thing.