The Royal Access

We premiered my first series in Freeport and Nassau and boy was it a LEAP of FAITH and a huge risk, I talk about my journey and the revelation God gave me about being successful and prosperous in him! 

“Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.”

Joshua 1:8 NIV

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.””

Joshua 1:9 NIV

Podcast Referenced: 

https://anchor.fm/galy-j/episodes/Stories-of-Faith--Arona-Aranha-e1cu1kn/a-a7800mk

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In Marriage the Red Flags we see our an indication that there is something we need to address, unlike dating, marriage is for life and so Red Flags help us to be honest about what we need to address. 

There are many red flags in marriage. Today we will only talk about three. 

Text that we want to overarch the conversation is 1 Cor 13:4-8

I know…it’s the familiar love text, but I promise you…hang in there and hear us out. Don’t take it for granted. It’s still Gods word. Still powerful and able to rebuke, correct, encourage and teach us something today. Allow it to do just that. 

- [ ] Secrets Ps. 51:6

- [ ] Unforgiveness

- [ ] Not seeking God together

Doing this is tough. I noticed a red flag as a result. I need/we need help! 

Rachel’s channel: Mom Warriors Pray

https://youtube.com/channel/UCxAdPTNpSn0j-_IsmxrxK-w

Do you believe good guys and good girls who want to be married really exist? Today we're going to talk about how you have to date in order to collect the data. If you jump into the fantasy that everyone you're attracted to, is your soon to be husband, you will miss the RED FLAGS 

Three things I learned from Speed Dating 

Foundational

peace - If they seem anxious - jealous, 

patience, - Impatient- 

faithfulness, - Inconsistency - Playing you hot and cold 

gentleness, - Aggressive tone or Nature 

self-control - Lack of self control 

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We are not meant to do life in isolation. We need people, we need community, and yes we need genuine friendships.

One of our new host Felecia Burrows who will be diving into Red Flags in relationships! 

Scripture Text: Proverbs 27:6 amp. ; 1st Samuel 18&19

Three foundational Red flags in friendships 

Jealousy-

Do you have friends who are always comparing...do they always try to one up you? Do they covet what you have? Show signs that they are never happy when you succeed?

Unable to be Honest with you -

Do you have a bunch of “ yes men” around you? Or people who are too afraid to tell you the truth?

We need honest genuine friends in our lives (even when it's hard to hear the truth) .

Again Proverbs 27:6 states “Faithful are the wounds of a friend who corrects out of love and concern, but the kisses of an enemy are decitful because they serve a hidden agenda.

They are not trustworthy-

Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Although we are talking about friendships one of the things Dr.Henry Cloud and Dr.John Townsend said in their book “Boundaries in dating” Is that without trust there is no relationship.

Can you trust them with the real you ?

Evaluate how you show up in your friendships and if you identified a friendship with one or more of these red flags communicate with your friend, give them an opportunity to change the behavior, and don't be your own foe evaluate, communicate, and ask holy spirit for wisdom on how you should navigate your journey.

We also introducing a new segment to the podcast week after week you get to ask us questions that  we will answer at the end of the next episode . You can send us your questions by sending us a message in our Facebook group “The Royal Access” We're excited to read and answer your questions!! 

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In this episode we met our NEW HOSTS - Felicia Burrows and Joy Mckinney 

We talk about some Red Flags that indicate to us that we may need to become more self aware: 

- Unexplained Anger

- Not being able to express pain to people that have hurt you 

- Finding it hard to forgive yourself & those close to you 

- Not being able to take criticism from others 

- Failing to process things with the Holy Spirit 

- Saying Statements like " This is just who I am" disregarding the opportunity to become the best version of yourself! 

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We often want God to do something NEW but we are too afraid to remove the things we want so that we can make room for what he wants. Why is this so hard, why can't we be like Noah and simply be obedient? 

“Noah did everything just as God commanded him.”

Genesis 6:22 NIV

Are you willing to remove the below out of the way: 

My will

My way

My Ego

My habits

My plans

My schedule

Focus on the task- Don’t look out for the rain

Remove projects he told you to remove out of the way

Remove friends he told you to remove out of the way

Remove self defeating thoughts out the way 

“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”

2 Corinthians 10:5 NIV

Thoughts - Feelings- Actions - Result

If we want to live in the dream God has dreamed for us, we have to make room for him to do it! 

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A lot of us believe in our hearts that we have "earned" the right for Him to bless us with certain things and it's simply not true. Nothing we have, we've earned! NOTHING!! 

We are continually blessed because of Grace! 

What is Grace ?

It is understood by Christians to be a spontaneous gift from God to people – "generous, free and totally unexpected and undeserved" – that takes the form of divine favor, love, clemency, and a share in the divine life of God.

The bottom line of the Gospel is that most of us have to hit some kind of bottom before we even start the real spiritual journey. Up to that point, it is mostly religion.

What does the Bible say about Grace?

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”

Ephesians 2:8-10 NIV

Why is it so hard for us to understand and operate in Grace as Christians ?

Use to earning value the world standards but spiritually we are living disciplined

Pure

Self control

Spiritual Growth

Makes God Happy

Grace is a person - It’s not a license to sin it’s the reason I run from it.

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How to Receive Love

Love - A Deep affection for someone

a gentle feeling of fondness or liking.

Love is patient, Love is kind, Love rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Living by the wrong definition

Practical when a situation doesn’t go your way, ask God what do you want to show me, teach me, or help me see in this moment.

   2. Love gives you what you need not always what you want

“Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me.”

Psalms 51:5 NIV

Truth - I’m fueling what’s going to cultivate self control, humility, patience

Practical - When your at a crossroad ask yourself, why am I making this decision

At the heart of witchcraft is the desire to know the future and control events that are not ours to control. Those abilities belong only to the Lord. This desire has its roots in Satan’s first temptation to Eve: “You can be like God” - Genesis 3:5

  3. Love requires TRUST

I don’t trust someone I don’t know, when I haven’t talked to you for a long time on an intimate level

  4. Love requires Patience

Why did you make me go through this. Your character is building in the delay

Conclusion

“We love because he first loved us.”

1 John 4:19 NIV

Love is not innate to me, Lust is so unless I learn and understand how to receive the love of God then I can’t give it to others

It’s like being in school and the teacher saying explain what I taught to the class and you weren’t listening. We have to spend time with God to know how to receive love from God and to love others. 

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Are you a Mary or a Martha, are you too busy to hear what God wants to say. 

Luke 10:38-42

Busy and distracted- I could be successful and miss what God wants to do in my life because the enemy has me “Booked and Busy” and distracted by the life I always wanted.

Martha was distracted - If the enemy can keep you distracted, he keeps you from filling the craving

Because if you ever really fill the craving with Christ you would know the other things you're chasing have been a lie

Why and How is accepting God going to Fill me. I’ve tried Jesus and I still had a craving for other things.

You have to train your pallet how to eat. Life is a metaphor

Worried and Anxious about so many things. 

let the main thing be the main thing.

The craving is for God, not anything else

When I’m thirsty my craving is actually for water even though 9 times out of 10 I drink something else that has been made to taste better

The more water you drink the more it flushes out the toxins the more you crave it.

Martha

Servant Heart

Order & Tradition

Honor and Respect

Controlling*

Impatient *

Ambitious

Martha was Type A

Mary

Free spirited

Honor and Respectful

She was hungry for the word

Servant Heart

Jesus wants your heart more than your works. Works without Christ having your heart are fruitless

“This only I want to learn from you: Did you receive the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith?”

Galatians 3:2 NKJV

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A lot of prophets have declared 2022 as the year of Expansion, Acceleration and Overflow

However God told me the worst thing is to encounter new platforms while not having the capacity for growth

Don’t let your ambition take you to place where your character can’t sustain you

Character-integrity, honesty, courage, loyalty, fortitude (Walking in the spirit of truth, no matter what)

In order to walk through the Royal Access you must be: 

I was Exposed to different things

I was prepared differently

I was rewarded differently

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