The Royal Access

The Royal Access

By Kerel PinderReligion & SpiritualityChristianity
Download on the App Store

The Royal Access episodes

  • Mentorship: The Power of Influence with Felecia Burrows

    Have you ever wondered why we hold the words spoken by people like Beyonce, Oprah, Jay-z, T.D. Jakes, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Sarah Jakes- Roberts, Oprah, Myles Munroe, and so many others in such regard? It’s the power of influence that they operate in resulting in them directly and indirectly being a mentor to many.

    Who holds the power of influence in your life? Think for a moment who has helped to transform and has been a major influence in your life? I want you to think about that person or persons as we dive deeper into our series mentorship and the power of influence.

    Proverbs 9:9; Titus 2:4

    Main Points:

    • Mentors provide a voice of reason in decision making.
    • Mentors help you to learn from others mistakes.
    • Mentors provide a different perspective concerning your situation. (We view life through the lens of our experiences, but our mentors guide us in looking a situations from a different perspective).

      • Take away point (Tweet):

      • Holy Spirit is one of the greatest mentors given to us.

        • *******************************************************

        You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

        The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

        18 min
      • Mentorship - Mommy and Me

        Welcome BACK!! We are diving into a season called Mentorship

        I sat down with my mom to have a candid conversation about her role as my Spiritual Mentor, some key takeaways from this episode

        1. Seek informal mentorship, you don't have to always make a formal request to ask someone to be your mentor

        2. Sometimes we are too close to a situation to see another perspective and therefore mentors help you to see things you may have not seen on your own! 

        3. Mentorship can come on a need to know bases, putting weekly or monthly restrictions on it can lead to burnout, use wisdom

        *******************************************************

        You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

        The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

        26 min
      • REST - Re SET

        Truth is I'm tired and your girl is in need of a break! But first I wanted to update you on how we got here! So listen to the life update and some below Inspiration if you are in a similar season. 

        1 Kings: 19 

        Matthew 11: 28-30: 

        28-30 “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”

        Rest is a sign of your need to surrender

        Rest brings new revelations and new word from God

        Rest prepares you for the journey ahead

        *******************************************************

        You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

        The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

        27 min
      • Relationship vs Religion - Discipleship

        On this week’s episode, our guest host Travis chops it up with his friend and colleague Denaj Seymour. Denaj is the Next Generation

        Director at New Providence Community Church and heads up the Free Radicals Youth Ministry. For this episode, they download on what Religion vs Relationship in light of Discipleship. They talk about their walks, and how they see discipleship playing a role in their lives both in and out of the church. 


        To learn more about what Denaj is up to in his ministry, you can follow Free Radicals on Instagram @free__radicals or get connected at radicalandfree.com

        40 min
      • Relationship vs Religion - Christian Police- w/ Kerel & Travis

        Kerel and Travis sat down to unpack the benefits and the downfalls of what happens when believers decide to criticize or correct a fellow believer. They took a deep dive into the questions below and had a lot of great verses especially from James to complement the episode. 

        What and who are Christian Police? 

        What’s Good about Christian Police? 

        What’s Harmful about Christian police ?

        Have you ever been a Christian police? 

        Have you had a personal experience with Christian Police? 

        Some of the verses they unpacked include but are not limited to: 

        James 5:19

        “My dear friends, if you know people who have wandered off from God’s truth, don’t write them off. Go after them. Get them back and you will have rescued precious lives from destruction and prevented an epidemic of wandering away from God.”

        James 5:19-20 MSG

        2 Timothy 4:2

        2 Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage--with great patience and careful instruction.

        “Don’t speak evil against each other, dear brothers and sisters. If you criticize and judge each other, then you are criticizing and judging God’s law. But your job is to obey the law, not to judge whether it applies to you. God alone, who gave the law, is the Judge. He alone has the power to save or to destroy. So what right do you have to judge your neighbor?”

        James 4:11-12 NLT

        *******************************************************

        You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

        The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

        47 min
      • Relationship vs Religion - Church Hurt w/ Felecia Burrows

        Introduction: Main Points:

        • What is Church Hurt? In Greek the word church comes from the words Kaleo (meaning to call) and is prefixed with et (meaning out). Therefore, in Greek it means to call out. In Hebrew Church means Assembly. However, the English word church actually comes from the word Kuriakon meaning dedicated to the Lord.

          • In the context of today’s episode when we refer to the “church” we will be talking about the body of believers who gather.

          Hurt is defined as causing pain or injury.

          Quote on Church Hurt by Stephen Mansfield:

          “The Confirmation of History is that we are not called despite our wounding and betrayal; we are wounded and betrayed because we are called.” Our wounds are pain put us in position to testify of how God allowed us to overcome.

          Keys to Dealing with Church Hurt.

          1. Acknowledge that you are hurt.
          2. Talk to the person or persons who hurt you to resolve the matter
          3. If the matter isn’t resolved carry unbiased believers with you to try and win your brother/ sister over.
          4. Forgive and give grace.

            5. Take away Tweet:

            • If imperfect people gather pain or disagreements are inevitable… it’s what you do during pain or disagreements that makes the difference.

              • Conclusion:

              When experiencing church hurt, we never want to dismiss the fact that the pain you feel is real. It’s okay to be angry about it, but don’t sin, it’s okay to process what happened to you and seek wise counsel, but don’t gossip and sow seeds of discord, it’s okay to find a different church family, but don’t bash and belittle the church family you once called home. There is always a way to show honor and give grace because as believers we are called to take the high road. While it is not okay to stay in abusive or toxic environments it’s necessary to forgive.

              *******************************************************

              You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

              The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

              40 min
            • Relationship vs Religion- Don't let Religion Kill your Witness - Kerel

              People won't come to Christ out of fear tactics they need to understand the relationship behind your faith 

              Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it. But do this in a gentle and respectful way.

              1 Peter 3:15-16 NLT

              MARK 16:15 KJV "And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature."

              1. Religion says I have to do it in a church

                2. Relationship with God understands that God is omnipresent so I can pray to God anywhere have a conversation with God anywhere

                On the beach when I wasn’t chosen for a Grant

                1. Religion I depend on leaders ONLY to give me revelation of the word and the way God wants to work in my life

                  2. Relationship I understand omniscience that God is all knowing and if the Holy Spirit lives in me, and I never sit still enough to hear what The holy spirit is saying, lines up with the word of God.

                  1. Religion I try to follow all the rules.

                    2. Relationship Omnibenevolence I follow God because I love him, A God who is all knowing,

                    How to Spread the Gospel without a Track.

                    1. Invite Someone to a LIVE/ Small group/ Virtual Church
                    2. When someone is going through a rough time offer to pray for them. Or just send a prayer to them when you are thinking about them. New Year’s prayer
                    3. Volunteer for Mission outreach with your church or do your own. We do Mission Mondays
                    4. Live Set Apart - How to live a life not filled with judgement but with love, Be known as a giver, seek to create peace and Harmony, be a giver

                      5. *******************************************************

                      You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

                      The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

                      30 min
                    5. Should Christians Get Tattoos? - W/ Kerel
                      We love self expression, however can this form of expression with Tatoos be outside of the will of God.
                      What does the Bible Say?
                      “Don’t gash your bodies on behalf of the dead. “Don’t tattoo yourselves. I am God.”
                      Leviticus 19:28 MSG
                      The Canaanites would customarily slash their bodies for ritualistic purposes, especially to mourn their dead and honor their gods
                      Romans 12:1 Therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, I urge you to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God; this is your spiritual worship
                      Why do you want Tattoo?
                      What is your motive for the Tattoo
                      1 Corinthians 10:31
                      31 So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
                      What is the meaning of the Tattoo?
                      However, this does bring us to 1 Corinthians 10:23: “‘I have the right to do anything,’ you say —but not everything is beneficial. ‘I have the right to do anything’— but not everything is constructive.”
                      What is the Holy Spirit saying to you?
                      What should I do now If I already have tattoos that I am now convicted about?
                      Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! 2nd Corinthians 5:17
                      John 7:24 “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgement." 
                      *******************************************************
                      You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:
                      The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode
                      37 min
                    6. Should Christians Go To Church

                      So many believers have decided to not go to church and today we talked about the reasons why and why some believers still believe it's an important practice! 

                      Why Believers choose not to attend

                      1. Too many hypocrites go to church -I’m spiritual not religious
                      2. Too many bad experiences with Crooked leaders, sleeping around and stealing your money - Visit the church
                      3. I have a personal relationship with God, involving the church in that isn’t necessary - Personally God has instructed us in his word to go, when I surrender , working somewhere
                      4. None of them deliver the word like my online TV Pastor I straight - UB Students

                        5. There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death - Proverbs 14:12

                        Why Believers choose to attend

                        1. Reframing of mind- Bride of Christ and not an just institution you were forced to go to when you didn’t want to Ephesians 5:22-33
                        2. People hurt not the entire church - I’m not a bad person, I’ve done bad things 
                        3. Members are an extension of family and there in the time of need and Vice versa - Hebrews 10:25
                        4. They lovingly help you to grow and provide accountability in your own life - Jackie Perry Prayer - The while if the new testament is addressed to the church

                          5. “For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.”

                          Ephesians 5:25-26 NLT

                          “And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near.”

                          Hebrews 10:25 NLT

                          Why I am thankful I go to church

                          1. Community
                          2. I grew into who God called me to be- earliest memory, Harvest
                          3. I get to serve others, teach others and sow back into God’s people
                          4. Foundation of accountability


                            5. *******************************************************

                            You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

                            The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

                            39 min
                          5. Should Christians Have premarital Sex w/ Kerel & Travis

                            The practice of waiting for Marriage to have sex can be very overwhelming and even as believers there has been a lot of debate on whether Christians should wait on not

                            Reasons Christians say waiting isn't worth it 

                            1. I can get married and have a horrible sex experience
                            2. If I make a commitment to God and this person to be together for life why does the Government have to get involved
                            3. What if I never get married, I’m just suppose to never have sex
                            4. A lot of other Christians have sex and get married and have Christian marriages and stay together for life, I don’t understand why I’m being asked to do it differently and vice versa
                            5. I want a kid and I’m not going to marry someone just because I want one so I’m going to have one.

                              6. Scriptures people may use out of context to defend their desires

                              Psalm 37:4

                              Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

                              Reasons why Christians say you should wait 

                              1. Sex is good and was designed by God for a specific purpose (The container of marriage)
                              2. Sex outside of marriage has consequences 
                              3. Sex is often misused as an escape versus turning to God for restoration
                              4. How we honor and show love for God and begin to practice self control and commitment- Proverbs 25:28 a man without self control. If you love me you will keep my commands verse

                                5. Popcorn Kerel and Travis express how they feel about the below topics!

                                How far is too far?

                                1. Views on Oral Sex
                                2. Views on Masturbation
                                3. Views on Traveling and Sleepovers
                                4. Views on Heavy petting and kissing

                                  5. Overall Conclusion verse

                                  1 Corinthians 6: 16-20

                                  *******************************************************

                                  You are welcome to JOIN OUR COMMUNITY. Click the link below to enter the Royal Access. You can also check out or Pre- Series Queenship when you join. Facebook:

                                  The Royal Access https://www.facebook.com/groups/theroyaltycode

                                  1 hr 10 min

                                About The Royal Access

                                From the publisher's feed

                                How do I balance it all? What is my purpose? Will I ever get married? Is this the relationship God chose for me? How long do I have to wait? Does prayer really work?  How do I grow in my relationship with God? And the biggest question of all What is your will for me, Lord?