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  • Excuses, Ego & Jackholes: A Salty Lesson

    Welcome back to The Salty Goddess Podcast — your Hump Day guilty pleasure and midweek reality check.

    This week Anne Margaret dives into one of the most underrated life skills left in modern society: accountability.

    Somewhere along the way people stopped owning their mistakes and started blaming everyone else — coworkers, friends, systems, circumstances, or the classic excuse: “everyone else was doing it.”

    In this episode, Anne Margaret breaks down why integrity, character, and personal responsibility still matter in work, leadership, healthcare, education, and everyday life.

    She shares hard-earned lessons from decades in medicine, business, and leadership, including why the strongest professionals are the ones who:

    • Admit mistakes quickly

    • Ask for help when they need it

    • Work as part of a team

    • Take responsibility instead of making excuses

      Because real leaders understand something simple:

      Your character is what you do when nobody else is looking.

      Of course, this wouldn’t be a Salty Goddess episode without a few extra observations about everyday irritations — from airport boarding chaos to people who drive slow in the left lane, ignore basic hygiene, or invent heroic stories about themselves that absolutely never happened.

      This episode is equal parts truth bomb, leadership lesson, and salty reality check.

      If you’ve ever dealt with workplace drama, dishonest coworkers, inflated egos, or people who simply refuse to take responsibility, this one’s for you.

      Subscribe, share, and join Anne Margaret every week for your midweek motivation with a salty twist.

      32 min
    • Here’s to Us: Petty Bitches, Loyal Dogs, Lifelong Friends & the Love of Family — A Salty Goddess Reflection on Gratitude & Perspective

      The Salty Goddess Podcast has officially survived one full year of truth bombs, sarcasm, and unapologetic perspective, and Anne Margaret is raising a glass to celebrate.

      In this episode, Anne Margaret reflects on the people, lessons, chaos, and gratitude that shaped the last 365 days — from mentors and family to petty friends, loyal dogs, Buffalo Bills heartbreak, and even the jackholes who accidentally taught valuable life lessons.

      Even while battling a cold, Anne Margaret reminds listeners that perspective is everything. A bad day, a broken nail, or a sick flight schedule might be annoying, but they’re nothing compared to the bigger picture.

      This episode dives into:

      • Why perspective changes everything

      • The importance of gratitude for both good and bad experiences

      • Lessons learned from mentors, family, and unexpected teachers

      • The joy of loyal dogs, real friends, and stubborn resilience

      • Why aging teaches you that half the things you worried about never mattered

      • And why sometimes the best wisdom comes from a little whiskey and a lot of honesty

        Anne Margaret also teases upcoming conversations about education failures, healthcare realities, and the jackholes we all encounter in life.

        Because sometimes the best way to navigate life is to look for the diamond-encrusted gold lining… and laugh at the chaos along the way.

        Subscribe, share, and join your weekly Hump Day Guilty Pleasure.

        31 min
      • 1 Year Later: The Salty Goddess Podcast Anniversary: Lessons, Failures, Glow-Ups & Unapologetic Growth

        It’s the ONE YEAR anniversary of The Salty Goddess Podcast, and we’re doing what most people are too scared to do — an honest, unfiltered evaluation of growth, failure, resilience, and real progress.

        Broadcasting straight from Salt Mine Studio in Lancaster, South Carolina, Anne Margaret reflects on:

        • Podcast growth and subscriber gains

        • Technology upgrades (because yes, bad equipment sounds like crap)

        • executive dysfunction conversations people didn’t want to hear

        • educator accountability in medical education

        • resilience during illness, setbacks, and delays

        • and the journey of creating confidence in your competence

          This episode is raw, reflective, and unapologetically authentic. No politics. No performative nonsense. Just real talk about what worked, what didn’t, and why consistency beats perfection every single time.

          If you’ve ever felt unheard, underestimated, or torn down by educators, colleagues, or life circumstances — this episode is your reminder:

          It’s not about being perfect. It’s about moving forward anyway.

          Expect humor, truth bombs, educator call-outs, and a little salty gratitude for the listeners who keep coming back week after week for their Hump Day Guilty Pleasure.

          Subscribe, download, and share — because confidence in competence is built, not gifted.

          22 min
        • “Must Be Nice” Energy: Virtue Signaling, Gatekeeping Confidence & Why People Shrink Your Success

          Welcome to your Hump Day guilty pleasure — The Salty Goddess Podcast with Anne Margaret Perry, where confidence meets competence and performative humility gets called out for what it really is.

          This week’s episode dives into the uncomfortable truth about how people react to your success, achievements, credentials, and growth. From backhanded compliments like “must be nice” to the so-called humility police who think you shouldn’t state your accomplishments, we’re unpacking the psychology of virtue signaling, insecurity, and social gatekeeping in modern professional and personal spaces.

          Anne Margaret breaks down:

          • Why virtue signaling is often disguised as etiquette

          • The difference between bragging and establishing credibility

          • How backhanded comments are emotional undermining (not praise)

          • Why silence after your wins is still communication

          • How insecurity shows up as moral superiority and faux humility

          • The real reason people minimize your credentials, success, and ambition

            With salty humor, real-world examples, and unapologetic truth, this episode is a masterclass in intrinsic motivation, professional confidence, and refusing to shrink yourself to make others comfortable.

            If you’ve ever been told:

            “Must be nice.”
            “You got lucky.”
            “Let your work speak for itself.”
            “Someone else should say that about you.”

            This episode is your permission slip to stay accomplished, confident, and unbothered.

            Follow, download, and subscribe to The Salty Goddess Podcast — your midweek dose of motivation, mindset, and audacious authenticity.

            36 min
          • When Empathy Excuses Accountability

            In this unapologetic episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret Perry dismantles one of the most dangerous lies people tell themselves: “I understand their trauma, so I should keep tolerating the damage.”

            No. Absolutely not.

            This episode is for anyone who:

            • Explains bad behavior instead of stopping it

            • Accommodates dysfunction instead of containing it

            • Gives endless chances because they “know the backstory”

            • Mistakes insight for accountability

            • Confuses temporary improvement with real change

            • Walks on eggshells while someone else refuses to do the work

              Anne Margaret breaks down the pattern she sees over and over again in patients, clients, students, relationships, families, friendships, and workplaces: trauma removing the lid on behavior — not creating it.

              You’ll hear hard truths about:

              🔥 Why awareness isn’t treatment
              🔥 Why empathy without boundaries becomes self-betrayal
              🔥 How silent treatment, avoidance, and denial are emotional misconduct
              🔥 Why compassion does NOT mean becoming collateral damage
              🔥 How insight without sustained behavior change is manipulation, not growth
              🔥 When it’s time to stop explaining and start exiting

              If you wouldn’t tolerate this behavior from an employee, a coworker, or a manager, then why the hell are you tolerating it in your personal life?

              Time is your most valuable currency.

              Stop spending it on people who refuse to invest theirs.

              This episode isn’t gentle.

              It’s honest.
              And if it pissed you off a little… good. That means it hit.

              33 min
            • What You Deny For Others You Demand For Yourself

              In this unapologetic episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret Perry dismantles one of the most toxic workplace behaviors of our time: people who expect excellence from others while delivering mediocrity themselves.

              We’re talking about:

              • Leaders who don’t lead

              • Professionals who don’t perform

              • And systems that reward bare minimum effort with participation trophies and fake “accomplishments.”

                Time is your most valuable currency — and when people waste it with incompetence, avoidance, and performative productivity, they rob everyone around them.

                This episode dives into:

                ✔️ Double standards in leadership
                ✔️ Accountability vs entitlement
                ✔️ Why low expectations breed low results
                ✔️ The danger of certification culture without competence
                ✔️ How “busy” became a cover story for useless
                ✔️ Why real growth requires raising the damn standard

                If you’re tired of carrying teams, covering for incompetence, and watching unqualified people collect praise they didn’t earn, this episode will give you language, clarity, and permission to stop enabling nonsense.

                Because accomplishments that are handed out like participation trophies aren’t worth the paper their certificates are printed on.

                And if you demand excellence from others…

                You better be willing to live it yourself.

                28 min
              • Comfort Culture is for Quitters.

                Why are you still dragging 2025 into 2026 like a bad ex you refuse to block?

                In this fiery episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret Perry delivers a no-nonsense wake-up call about growth, habits, and why comfort is the most dangerous drug of all. If you’ve been naming your problems but refusing to change your behavior, this one’s for you.

                We talk about:

                • Why people maintain their cars better than their mental health

                • How micro-changes can rewire your brain in just 28 days

                • Why not everyone deserves a seat on your growth journey

                • The difference between toxic positivity and real accountability

                • How to protect your peace without burning down your life

                • Why success is the best revenge

                  You’ll learn simple daily practices to reframe your mindset, break bad habits, and stop repeating the same year over and over again. From neuroscience and habit formation to boundaries and self-respect, this episode is part motivation, part tough love, and part salty therapy session.

                  If you’re tired of comfort, excuses, and replay loops, this episode will help you design a calmer, stronger, more intentional life.

                  🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon, iHeartRadio, Podbean & YouTube

                  📚 Salty Goddess Coloring Books & Salty Goddess Press titles on Amazon

                  Follow, download, share, and give someone else their Hump Day guilty pleasure.

                  33 min
                • Stop Romanticizing Self-Awareness: Growth Requires Action, Not Labels

                  You don’t get credit for naming your trauma if you refuse to do anything about it.

                  In this unapologetically salty episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret Perry dismantles the myth that self-awareness equals growth. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t. If you can perfectly explain your triggers, diagnoses, and patterns—but keep repeating the same destructive behaviors; you’re not evolved. You’re just well-versed.

                  Using sharp analogies from medicine, research standards, human development, and real-life relationships, Anne Margaret calls out the comfort of outdated beliefs, emotional inertia, and performative insight. From five-year medical guideline reviews to gum-snapping coworkers, tailgaters, trauma labels, and hypocritical relationship dynamics, this episode exposes why growth isn’t intellectual, public, or loud.

                  Growth is behavioral. Growth is embodied. And growth happens quietly, especially when no one is watching.

                  If you’re serious about not replaying 2025 in 2026, this episode is your mirror. And fair warning, if you feel triggered, it’s probably because she’s talking about you.

                  32 min
                • Comfort Is Killing Your Potential

                  If you keep talking about growth but somehow keep ending up in the exact same place, this episode is your mirror, and you might not like what it shows.

                  In this Hump Day Guilty Pleasure episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret delivers a no-nonsense truth bomb about why so many people swear they want change… yet keep replaying the same year on loop.

                  We’re talking outdated self-image, comfort disguised as rest, motivation myths, performative growth, intellectual laziness, and why discipline - not hype - determines who actually moves forward. From outdated beliefs and borrowed opinions to why learning never stops (even after the classroom does), this episode calls out the habits that quietly sabotage your growth.

                  If your words don’t match your actions… if you’re “inspired” but unchanged… if you keep saying “I should” instead of “I did”, well, this one’s for you.

                  Warning: this episode may end friendships, shatter excuses, and force you to decide whether you’re growing......or just comfortable.

                  🎧 Listen now, share it with someone who needs it, and decide whether 2026 is going to be different… or just a rerun.

                  32 min
                • Allergic to Hard Work? 2026 Isn’t for You—Enjoy the 2025 Replay Loop.

                  If you’re allergic to hard work, growth, and accountability, 2026 isn’t waiting for you. In this season finale of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret delivers the unfiltered lessons 2025 demanded we learn; about intrinsic motivation, integrity, honest self-assessment, and the real consequences of avoiding the work. This episode is a wake-up call for anyone stuck repeating the same patterns, blaming the same problems, and wondering why nothing changes. Growth is optional. The replay loop is automatic.

                  30 min

                About The Salty Goddess

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                Anne Margaret Perry | The Salty Goddess
                Audacity. Authenticity. Authority.
                Competence Crushes Chaos.