The Self-Love Survival Guide

The Self-Love Survival Guide

By Avery UnderwoodEducationSelf-Improvement
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The Self-Love Survival Guide episodes

  • How to Attract a Conscious Partner w/ Asa Baav

    I am SUPER excited about this episode, as Asa was a coach of mine last year. And I am absolutely FASCINATED about talking about relationships!


    In this episode we talk about:


    • The key things that make a strong and connected relationship
    • The important of self-love for a health relationship
    • The story of how she met her partner of 5 years
    • Rituals they do to keep their relationship strong and connected
    • How to overcome the fear of rejection
    • Advice for those looking for a conscious partner who feel frustrated they haven’t found one yet?

    • Below are the links to Asa's services (I would highly recommend the group programme Unapologetic, y'all!):


      Unapologetic – Asa Baav

      Unclaimed Love – Asa Baav


      Would love to hear what resonated the most for you in this episode! :)

      1 hr 6 min
    • The power of INTENTION 😍

      More info + sign up for Intention here 😍


      We start on the 26th of Dec! AND there's a free online Support Circle on the 30th of Dec as part of the challenge :) Put it in your cal, and see you there! 😍



      19 min
    • The mind-body connection (+ why you should GAF) w/ Lucy Strutt

      In this weeks episode I talk with Lucy Strutt, Holistic Therapist + Somatic Practitioner, about:


      • What the mind-body connection is and why it’s important to know and understand for the treatment of trauma
      • The journey from how we met as party girls, to now in the line of work that we do
      • The wonders of psychedelics and their treatment in trauma
      • Advice for those who are curious about psychedelics but hesitant
      • Some of her favorite somatic practices and their benefits!

      • AND sign up to my FREE New Years Challenge, Intention, here! 😍

        49 min
      • The HSP, self-love + alcohol dependency connection

        These revelations will blow your FUCKING mind, yall!!!


        In this week's episode, I talk about:


        • Why I started drinking in the first place - alcohol seems like the magic silver bullet that’s way easier than therapy or coaching to "do the work"
 until its not.
        • The reasons why I decided to stop drinking
        • Why HSPs /neurodivergents are TWICE as likely to drink than non’s
        • The correlation between being a HSP, a lack of self-love, and alcohol dependency
        • What you can do INSTEAD of relying on the booze to empower yourself instead!

        • Would love to hear if this resonates, if you're alcohol-free, OR curious to be so! Comment on the episode or shoot me a DM on instagram! @the.colourful.coach


          I am so incredibly fascinated by this!!


          P.S. Today actually marks day 21 of not drinking. I recorded this episode 1 week ago, but didn't upload it until now lol #neurodivergent #adhdbrain hahaha!


          Happy Saturday!

          20 min
        • The secret to success is self-care w/ Shanley Lewis

          Happy Monday gorgeous souls! In this week's episode, I talk with Self-Care + Business Coach, Shanley Lewis, about how the secret to success is self-care!


          In this week's episode we talk about:

          • The benefits of self-care including:
          • Why self-care makes entrepreneurship, business and life more FUN
          • How we should re-define success by throwing out hustle culture by prioritizing rest
          • What self-compassion is and why it’s so damn important
          • Shanley’s top tips for prioritizing self-care and doing things for YOU!

          • Would love to hear what you think of the episode by leaving a comment :)

            32 min
          • Creating a different reality for a better tomorrow

            This episode is all about how to create a different reality for a better tomorrow!

            It’s painful af to be faced with your triggers and your previous traumas and different fears. BUT, in my experience, it is even more painful to keep repeating the same patterns over and over again - especially if they’re not in your best interest.

            So what can you do about this?

            You have to figure out what’s not working, and try to shift your actions to align with how you WANT to show up, instead of blindly repeating what you’re used to.

            It can be confronting and uncomfortable as fuck - but it ultimately alleviates a lot of pain in the future <3

            So if you’re feeling like you’re finally ready to ditch some patterns that are no longer serving you - this episode I talk about my recent experience dealing with this, and you may just get something useful out of it about how you can handle it moving forward ;)


            If you're interested in more 1-2-1 support around this - check out the Bespoke 1-2-1 Self-Love Coaching info here + to apply:

            https://docs.google.com/document/d/1W57Osmb8sCrNHBQesTlqoGSoSsH2QdVbkISA0EsxAS8/edit


            See you next time beautiful!

            16 min
          • The emotional experience of abortion w/ Amanda Kingsley

            It was exactly a year ago that I had just found out I was pregnant. That 1 second changed my life forever, and spun me into a complete disarray for over a month while I tried to decide what I was going to do.


            I didn’t want to have a baby before I got pregnant - but nothing prepares you for the feeling of knowing there is a growing one inside of you. It is a totally wild, spiritual and surreal experience. I know people who were able to easily separate it as a medical thing, but for me - it was so much more than that. It was my growing child.


            Full disclosure, I almost had the baby. What’s wild is I would literally have a 2/3 month old right now - and it because I couldn’t bear the thought of having an abortion. But ultimately, I decided it was the right thing for me to do. And even though it was the hardest decision/process of my life, I don’t regret it for a fucking second.


            I want to shed light on how difficult the decision to have an abortion can be. I think a lot of pro-lifers think we’re just out here like YEAH LET’S DO IT WOO like it’s a fucking party and no big deal. In my experience it was totally the opposite.


            This episode is full of tears. It’s full of raw and vulnerable honesty. 


            I don’t regret it for a single second, but ti was hand downs the most traumatic and grueling decision and experience of my fucking life. Not to mention the emotional tidal wave it had on the people I love in my life and my relationship.


            In my experience, I wasn’t allowed to fully heal myself after because my attention was being focused on other people having a hard time about my decision, and the total degradation of my romantic relationship. 


            So if you want to hear a very real and honest talk about what it’s like to decide to have an abortion, and then actually do - give it a listen. 


            In this episode we talk about :

            • Our experiences with abortion
            • The emotional repercussions that come from making the decision
            • Then the physical/emotional repercussions of actually having the procedure/the aftermath
            • The intensity of the decision while the time bomb is ticking
            • How abortions affect relationships - especially mother/daughter
            • The crazy power to create + end life
            • Why abortion is so divisive

            • But that the bottom line is, no matter, what no one should have the power to take that decision away from you <3

              1 hr 8 min

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            Fall madly in love with YOU by rebelling against who you were told to be, so you can confidently be who you truly are 😉