In this conversation, Lisa Kohn shares her profound journey growing up in the Unification Church, detailing the complexities of her childhood, the impact of her family dynamics, and her path to healing and self-discovery after leaving the cult. She reflects on the duality of her life, navigating between the cult's teachings and her father's contrasting lifestyle, and how these experiences shaped her understanding of self-worth and personal growth. In this conversation, Shanny Payton and Lisa Kohn delve into the complexities of growing up in a cult, the impact of codependency, and the long-lasting effects on mental health and relationships. They explore the challenges of navigating identity, acceptance, and the struggle to break free from the ingrained beliefs of their upbringing. The discussion highlights the emotional trauma associated with cult dynamics and the journey towards self-discovery and healing. In this conversation, Lisa Kohn shares her experiences growing up in a cult, the complexities of her family's legacy, and her journey towards healing and self-discovery. She discusses the impact of her upbringing on her life, the challenges she faced after leaving the cult, and the therapeutic processes that helped her navigate her trauma. Lisa emphasizes the importance of self-love and the ongoing nature of recovery, highlighting that it's never too late to change and grow.

Lisa Kohn grew up in the Unification Church, known as the Moonies.

Her childhood was marked by a stark contrast between her mother's cult and her father's lifestyle.

Kohn's mother joined the cult when she was 10, leading to a tumultuous family dynamic.

She often felt terrified and clung to her mother for security.

Ultimately, she believes in the importance of self-acceptance and understanding that others' opinions are not her responsibility. Codependency is a deeply ingrained issue that can affect relationships.

Cult upbringing can lead to significant mental health challenges.

Realizing the impact of past experiences is a continuous journey.

The struggle for identity often stems from childhood experiences in a cult.

Understanding the beliefs of the Moonies provides insight into their cult dynamics.

Healing from cult experiences requires addressing feelings of shame and guilt. The Moon family has a complex and troubling legacy.

Growing up in a cult can lead to deep psychological scars.

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In this episode of the Shanny Pants Show, host Shanny Payton welcomes Katrina Ford, a religious abuse life coach and author, to share her journey of overcoming religious trauma and facing stage three breast cancer. The conversation explores themes of vulnerability, community support, and the importance of maintaining faith amidst adversity. Katrina's story highlights the challenges of navigating life after leaving a cult, the power of love and kindness from unexpected sources, and the ongoing quest for authenticity in her faith. The episode concludes with reflections on the importance of creating space for vulnerability and the healing power of community.

The journey of recovery from religious trauma is ongoing.

Vulnerability is essential for healing and connection.

Community support can come from unexpected places.

Faith can coexist with doubt and struggle.

Katrina emphasizes the importance of authenticity in faith.

Love is a central theme in overcoming trauma.

Facing cancer brings new challenges and insights.

The importance of creating space for vulnerability in communities.

Katrina's story is a testament to resilience and hope.

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In this conversation, Shanny Payton interviews Katrina Ford, a life coach specializing in religious abuse, academic sabotage, and the 'good girl syndrome.' Katrina shares her journey, including her recent book project titled 'Religious Black Sheep.' The discussion delves into the complexities of religious trauma and the diverse paths individuals take after experiencing high control backgrounds.

Katrina Ford is a multifaceted life coach.

She specializes in religious abuse and academic sabotage.

Katrina has written a book titled 'Religious Black Sheep.'

The book is currently in the publishing process.

Katrina emphasizes the importance of diverse perspectives on trauma.

High control backgrounds can lead to various outcomes in faith.

Shanny appreciates the different viewpoints of her guests.

Katrina's recent book cover photo shoot was a significant milestone.

The conversation highlights the challenges of religious trauma recovery.

Katrina's coaching focuses on empowering individuals to reclaim their narratives.

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In this episode of the Shanny Pants Show, Shanny and her guest Carrie Bowin delve into their experiences growing up in a cult, discussing the challenges of leaving, the humor found in their past, and the impact of their upbringing on their current lives. They share personal stories, reflect on childhood memories, and explore the complexities of relationships formed in a cult environment. The conversation is filled with laughter, nostalgia, and a deep understanding of resilience and recovery.

The importance of community and shared experiences in recovery.

Humor plays a significant role in processing past trauma.

Childhood memories are often tied to the cult experience.

The concept of 'Christian poof' highlights the absurdity of their past.

Skating rinks were a place of both fun and strict rules.

Singing in church was a serious affair, devoid of joy.

The pressure to conform created a culture of pretending.

Women in the cult had specific roles and expectations.

Reflecting on the past helps in understanding present relationships.

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In this conversation, Shanny Payton and Carrie Bowin delve into their experiences growing up in a cult, discussing the challenges of recovery, the impact of strict dress codes, and the journey towards self-discovery and authenticity. They reflect on the shame associated with their upbringing, the importance of family dynamics, and the power of forgiveness and change. The conversation highlights the struggles of navigating childhood and adolescence within a high-control environment and emphasizes the potential for personal growth and transformation.

The importance of sharing stories from the cult experience.

Shame should not be a part of anyone's childhood experience.

The impact of strict dress codes on self-image and confidence.

Navigating family relationships post-cult can be challenging.

Forgiveness is possible, even after years of hurt.

People can change, regardless of age or past actions.

Authenticity is crucial for personal growth and self-acceptance.

The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about cult experiences.

It's important to acknowledge the trauma caused by cults. 

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Lyn Smith Gregory

• In this conversation, Lynn Smith Gregory shares her profound journey of leaving the Mormon Church, exploring the impact of her upbringing, the challenges of navigating life outside a high-control group, and the complexities of maintaining family relationships. She discusses her spiritual awakening, the role of women in the church, and the ongoing struggles faced by those who leave. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, the crisis of faith among younger generations, and the need for healing and understanding in the aftermath of religious trauma.

• Takeaways

• Lynn's family has a long history with the Mormon Church.
• Leaving the church can lead to feelings of shame and isolation.
• Spiritual awakening can occur after leaving a high-control group.
• Maintaining family connections can be challenging after leaving.
• Women in the Mormon Church often face restrictive roles.
• Toxic positivity is prevalent in high-control religions.
• Younger generations are leaving the church in record numbers.
• Communication barriers exist between those who leave and their families.
• The church's teachings can lead to internalized sexism.
• Healing from religious trauma is a complex process.

• Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to Lynn's Journey
• 03:10 The Impact of Leaving the Mormon Church
• 05:46 Navigating Life After Leaving
• 09:03 Spiritual Awakening and Exploration
• 11:59 Family Dynamics and Relationships
• 15:00 The Role of Women in Mormon Culture
• 17:58 The Struggles of Leaving a High-Control Group
• 21:00 The Challenge of Maintaining Family Connections
• 24:07 The Hypocrisy of Mormon Culture
• 26:45 The Impact of Toxic Positivity
• 30:08 The Crisis of Faith in the Younger Generation
• 32:50 The Role of Communication in Family Dynamics
• 36:02 The Future of the Mormon Church
• 39:04 Conclusion and Reflections on Healing

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The Shanny Pants Show Podcast: Kacey

Episode Title: Cults, Survivors, and Storytelling with Kacey

Guest: Kacey

- Background: Creator and host of *The Cult Vault* podcast

- Podcast Origin: Launched during the COVID-19 lockdown

- Initial Focus: Researching and presenting historical cult cases

- Evolution: Transitioned to a platform for survivors to share their personal stories

Podcast Overview:

- Theme: Focuses on cults and the experiences of cult survivors

 - Interviews with survivors and experts in the field

 - Coverage of current events related to cults

- Production: Kacey handles all aspects—planning, research, scripting, editing, and uploading

- Mission: Raise awareness about cults and provide support to survivors

Kacey's Vision

- Financial Viability: Aims to make *The Cult Vault* sustainable to support survivor charities

- Support for Cult Victims: Interested in developing more resources and initiatives for those affected by cults

Key Discussion Points

- The importance of storytelling in healing for survivors

- How *The Cult Vault* has evolved since its inception

- Challenges and triumphs in creating a survivor-centered platform

- Current events that highlight the ongoing issues surrounding cults

- Future plans for *The Cult Vault* and collaborations with survivor organizations

Takeaways

- The significance of raising awareness about cults and their impact on individuals

- Encouragement for survivors to share their stories and seek support

- The potential of podcasts as a medium for education and advocacy

Where to Find Kacey

- Listen to *The Cult Vault* wherever you get your podcasts

- Follow Kacey on social media for updates and insights

I thank Kacey for her invaluable insights and contributions to the conversation on cults and survivor support.

I encourage listeners to share the episode and support Kacey's mission.

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In this episode of The Shanny Pants Show, Shanny Payton engages in a heartfelt conversation with Jerald, who shares his journey from growing up in a strict Baptist church to navigating life after leaving the ministry. They discuss the challenges of childhood experiences in a cult, the impact of religious trauma, and the importance of breaking the cycle for their children. The conversation also touches on evolving beliefs, the complexities of family relationships, and the journey towards personal growth and healing.

Takeaways

Jerald's upbringing in a strict Baptist church influenced his life choices.

Leaving the church led to a significant personal transformation for Jerald.

The importance of addressing childhood trauma in adulthood.

Parenting styles have evolved to break the cycle of trauma.

The significance of open communication in family relationships.

Navigating the complexities of in-law relationships post-cult.

The struggle of reconciling past beliefs with current values.

The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and necessary.

Spirituality can evolve and change over time.

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In this engaging podcast episode, Shanny Payton interviews Shelly Snow Pordea, a novelist and screenwriter, about her journey of writing a new book that explores themes of abuse, control, and the role of the church in personal narratives. They discuss the emotional process of writing, the importance of storytelling in healing, and the target audience for the book. Shelly shares insights on the complexities of her characters and the societal issues they represent, while also providing resources for cult survivors. The conversation highlights the significance of asking questions and sparking discussions around difficult topics.

• Shelly's book aims to empower women who have experienced manipulation and control.
• The church plays a significant role in shaping societal views on women and relationships.
• Writing can be a therapeutic process that aids in personal healing.
• It's important to address the complexities of abuse and not oversimplify the narrative.
• Shelly hopes her book will spark conversations about difficult topics.
• The target audience for the book includes women in conservative circles who have faced abuse.
• Validation from others can help in recognizing past trauma and abuse.
• Exploring different therapeutic methods can aid in healing from cult experiences.
• The importance of storytelling in processing personal experiences and trauma.
• Shelly emphasizes the need for open discussions about the impact of cults and abusive relationships.

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Episode with Ryan George

Host: Shanny  

Guest:Ryan George  

Episode Title: Hurt and healed by the Church: Ryan George's Journey of Hope

In this powerful episode, host Shanny sits down with Ryan George, author and survivor of an abusive childhood rooted in religious trauma. Ryan shares his deeply personal story of resilience after facing unimaginable challenges, including the shocking revelation of his father's predatory behavior as a pastor.

What would you do if you learned from a podcast that your dad—a pastor—was a serial sexual abuser? For Ryan, this wasn’t a hypothetical scenario; it was a painful reality that forced him to confront the faces behind the stories he had heard. As he delved into the dysfunction and abuse within the cult of his youth, Ryan recognized that such predatory behavior was often woven into the very fabric of his former faith.

Rather than allowing this trauma to destroy his spirit, Ryan found solace in a different understanding of Jesus—one that is tender and redemptive. In his new book, *Hurt and Healed by the Church*, he recounts how he separated his faith from the harmful doctrines of American fundamentalism. Through candid reflections, Ryan illustrates the mental shifts and restorative relationships that guided him toward healing from church trauma and spiritual manipulation.

If you've experienced church hurt or are grappling with your faith in light of past abuse, Ryan’s insights offer a path to rebuild your faith without feeling like you’re abandoning it. His story serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration, demonstrating that unorthodox redemption is possible.

Key Takeaways:

- Understanding the reality of abuse within religious institutions

- The journey of separating faith from harmful beliefs

- Finding healing and restoration after church trauma

- The importance of community and supportive relationships in recovery

- How rebuilding faith can lead to a more compassionate and loving understanding of spirituality

Resources Mentioned:

- Ryan George’s new book: *Hurt and Healed by the Church*

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