Hey gorgeous friend.

🤯 Ever feel like your happiness is tied to how someone else treats you? Same here. I used to believe that if I could just manage the people in my life—especially that one guy I was totally crushing on—I’d finally be happy. Spoiler alert: it didn’t work. 🙃

In this episode, we’re diving into a mind-blowing truth that changed everything for me: your relationships are simply your thoughts about another person. Yep, it’s not about how much time you spend together, how often they text, or whether they remember your birthday. It’s about what you think about them, what you think they think about you, and—most importantly—what you think about yourself.

🎯 Here's what you'll discover:

Ready to reclaim your power and start creating better, more loving relationships? Let’s get to it! 💖

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💖 What if singleness isn’t a problem—but a place of growth, purpose, and creativity?  What if singleness is the door to love?

Hey gorgeous friends! If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I still single? What’s wrong with me? Is this just something to get through until life really starts?”—this episode is for YOU.

Here’s the truth: Singleness isn’t a waiting room. It’s a dynamic, active space where collaboration with God, creativity, and self-discovery happen. It’s a season full of purpose—a time to learn how to love deeply and unconditionally, starting with the person who matters most: YOU.

In this episode, we’ll explore how to quiet the drama queen in your brain, embrace this season as a time of limitless potential, and take steps toward building the life you love—with God as your partner, not your taskmaster. Ready to see your singleness in a whole new light? Let’s dive in! 🌟

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Welcome back to The Single Christian Woman! 💖 Today’s episode is going to challenge the way you think about God’s plan for your life. Have you ever wondered if you’re living the life God intended for you? Or maybe you’ve worried that somewhere along the way, you made a decision that veered you off course—like choosing a career over marriage or buying your own home before “the right time.” 🤔

Well, let me tell you something, my gorgeous friend: God’s plan isn’t about micromanaging every step you take. His Plan is about potential, purpose, and divine design—YOUR divine design. ✨

In this episode, we’re diving into what “divine design” really means and how you can take ownership of your life, discovering the gifts, passions, skills, and victories that make you uniquely equipped to live boldly in this season of singleness. This isn’t about waiting—it’s about moving forward.

Grab a pen and paper, because we’re going on a journey of discovery to help you unlock the life God has equipped you to live. Are you ready? Let’s get started! 🎧

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What if happiness isn’t the goal? What if there’s something deeper, more meaningful, and long-lasting that’s available to you right now—even in singleness?

In today’s episode, we’re diving into how you can move beyond fleeting moments of happiness and step into the true joy God has designed for your life.

You’ll discover what joy really is, how it’s different from happiness, and how you can cultivate it in your season of singleness.

If you’ve ever wondered how to feel truly fulfilled regardless of your circumstances, this episode is for you. Let’s unlock your potential for joy!

Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

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Are you wondering if your singleness is just a filler—a phase you need to endure until the "main course" of marriage arrives?

Maybe you’re asking yourself: What if I never get married? What if this isn’t the life I was supposed to have? Am I stuck on Plan Z while everyone else is living their Plan A?

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into these questions and flipping the script. What if this season of singleness isn’t a placeholder but your main course—a time full of potential, purpose, and divine design?

Together, we’ll explore a powerful shift in perspective that can help you embrace where you are right now, collaborate with God, and live fully in the present. Stay tuned, because this conversation might just change how you see your life—and yourself.

Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

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We all have them.  Those questions we are dying to ask but not sure who to ask and are embarrassed to ask.

Today we are going to talk about one such question that is probably in your head now or has been at some point.

If I’m so good, why hasn’t God blessed me with a husband?!

Maybe you phrase the question slightly differently, but you wonder why God hasn’t blessed you with a husband yet.

Let’s talk about it!

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Hello friend.

Who is running your life?  Is it you?  Or maybe it feels more like your mom, or your boss, or your ex, or sister is running your life.

You begin your week feeling you have a handle on things and feeling pretty dang good about the days ahead, when bam!  There she is your mom, doing the mom thing and now you don’t have a handle on things and are feeling pretty crummy.

Or it’s not your mom, it is your ex.  You thought you took back control over your life when you divorced  or broke up with him and then bam, there he is right back in control making you feel less than and angry again.

Listen friend, we all have them.  Those few people who seem to suck us right back to a place and the way of being we thought we had left behind. 

If this sounds like you, you are in the right place today.  I have exactly what you need to take back control over your life. 

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

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Hello friend.

Are you tired of chasing after your dream of being in a relationship with a good man, who loves you and wants to be with you?

Is the energy needed to keep chasing and pursuing love taking a toll on your self-esteem?

Are you finding yourself less and less willing and able to get excited about the whole dating scene?

Do you feel ready to throw in the towel and stay single even though what you really want is love?

Well, my friend, you are in the right place with this episode.  I have radical way for you to quit chasing your dream and instead attracting your dream.

No more chasing.  Instead, you will attract what you desire!  Listen up while I drop the steps of how to move away from chasing to attracting.  You are going to want a pen and paper for this one!

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

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Hello friend.

That magical time of year has arrived!  Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years.  About 6 weeks of magic or 6 weeks of misery! 😊

Right?!  Magical or miserable often seem to be the two choices we give ourselves. 

And we have a tendency to think that it will be one way or the other depending on who shows up for the gathering, how they behave, whether or not the turkey is dry and the pies are good. 

We mistakenly think that unless it looks and acts like a Norman Rockwell painting then it is a miserable holiday.

So not true my friend.  Your holiday season can be magical even if cousin Mary and her family show up late.  Even if uncle Bob yammers on and on about the recent election.  Even if the turkey is dry and the pies are not so good.  And even if you are show up as a party of 1!

Listen in and learn how to make your holiday season magical!

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

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1. Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider

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Hey my gorgeous friend,

This episode is for you if…

You are sick of being lonely.

You want to get unstuck and find love.

You know that God has more in mind for you than a life of fear and doubt.

You wish there was a way to overcome problems and obstacles.

You want the confidence to know your next step is the right step.

You believe that your future is yours for the making and taking.

The reality is you are having a hard time making all those wishes, wants and beliefs your reality.  So, you don’t think it can happen for you. 

Imagine if it can happen!  Just imagine.  I promise, it is possible.  You can have the life you imagine!

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop

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