In this episode, Pip and Gerard Mann discuss their friendship and the importance of living in the moment. They reflect on their past experiences together, including Gerard's visits to the United States and their shared love for the fire service. They also talk about the value of authentic relationships and the need to go beyond surface-level conversations. The conversation touches on the excitement of upcoming trips and the joy of experiencing new cultures and traditions. The conversation explores the concept of aligning one's circle of interest with their circle of influence to avoid frustration and negativity. It delves into the importance of understanding what can and cannot be changed and the need for patience in implementing change. The theme of parenting and the parallels between parenting and leadership are discussed, emphasizing the importance of explaining decisions and being vulnerable. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the value of travel, building relationships, and the intimate atmosphere of teaching and instructing. They emphasize the need for instructors to be humble, curious, and focused on the growth and development of their students. They also highlight the role of instructors as coaches and leaders, guiding and supporting their students to become better. The conversation touches on the significance of experience and learning from mistakes, as well as the rewards of seeing the growth and success of students. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the importance of effective teaching and the impact it can have on students' learning and development. Because, what you do off the job, MATTERS!!!!