The Sober Fix Podcast

In this episode of The Sober Fix Podcast, host Drew Moore is joined by Robert and Suzy for a deep and powerful conversation about recovery. This is more than just another sobriety story—this episode is a clash of perspectives between addiction recovery and Alanon.With years in the Al-Anon program, Suzy brings the unique voice of those affected by someone else’s addiction. Together, the trio explores how community, honesty, and surrender are essential—whether you're the addict or someone who loves one.They dive into the emotional depths of steps four and five, the damaging effects of shame vs. conviction, and how service, sponsorship, and spiritual growth play crucial roles in long-term healing. Whether you're in recovery, affected by addiction, or supporting someone else—you’ll find meaning here.🌐 Connect with Drew & The Sober Fix:🔗 Website: www.thesoberfixpodcast.com📸 Instagram: @thesoberfixpodcast🎵 TikTok: @thesoberfix📧 Email: [email protected] Pardon: @recoveryguy1986💬 Want to be a guest or collaborate? Message me! I'm always looking to highlight powerful recovery stories and connect with others in the community.⏱️ Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Recovery Journeys01:59 Personal Experiences in Recovery05:27 The Importance of Community and Support09:18 Surrendering to the Process13:06 Understanding Relapse and Commitment17:32 Navigating the Steps of Recovery22:17 The Role of Honesty in Healing27:58 Transparency and Sharing30:28 The Power of Honesty31:47 Recognizing Winners in Recovery34:47 Spiritual Guidance in Choosing Mentors37:45 Shame vs. Conviction: Moving Forward42:37 The Importance of Serving Others48:31 Treatment vs. Recovery Rooms51:29 Spirituality and Recovery Goals

In this episode of The Sober Fix Podcast, Ian Fee opens up about his emotional 34-year struggle with alcohol and the transformation that led him to sobriety. From growing up in a small town and bartending at a young age to hitting rock bottom and finding healing in rehab, Ian shares how journaling, gratitude, and forgiveness became the foundation of his new life.

He reflects on the pivotal moments that changed his path, the breakdown of his marriage, and how his relationship with his children evolved after sobriety. Ian also talks about founding Make It Great, a company inspired by his recovery journey that promotes positivity and personal growth.

Whether you're sober curious, in early recovery, or supporting someone on this path, Ian’s story offers relatable insight and inspiration.

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Timestamps:00:00 Introduction01:33 Ian’s Early Exposure to Alcohol05:02 Party Lifestyle & Escalation09:41 Ignoring the Red Flags11:36 Rehab & Turning Point18:16 Life After Rehab20:31 Writing a Book23:00 The Role of Forgiveness26:02 Alcohol’s Impact on Relationships30:36 Family & Fatherhood36:28 Navigating Temptation42:58 Creating Make It Great48:42 Cold Plunging for Clarity52:21 Gratitude in Sobriety57:56 Ian’s Advice for the Sober Curious

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In this compelling episode of The Sober Fix Podcast, host Drew Moore shares his raw and personal journey through addiction and recovery. 🎧

From hitting rock bottom to building a solid foundation for sobriety, Drew offers real-world recovery insights and tools to help you or a loved one on the path to healing.

Whether you’re sober curious, early in recovery, or supporting someone with addiction—this episode delivers hope, emotional awareness, and proven recovery strategies. 🙌

✅ Why rehab alone isn’t enough—daily routines matter✅ How emotional health and mental clarity support sobriety✅ The true impact of social media on addiction✅ How community and connection power long-term recovery✅ The deadly reality of fentanyl in street drugs✅ Why relapse doesn’t mean failure✅ Recovery is possible—and you’re not alone 💪

• ​Over 46 million Americans struggle with substance use disorders
• ​Only 1 in 10 receive treatment
• ​75% of people with substance use disorder eventually recover.
• ​Relapse rates can be 40-60% in the first year.(🎧 Tune in every Monday 8 am Pacific.

⏱️ Timestamped for easy navigation!

• ​00:00 – Introduction & Personal Journey
• ​03:12 – Building a Foundation in Recovery
• ​06:19 – The Role of Rehab & Time
• ​09:17 – Emotional Health & Daily Routines
• ​12:17 – Facing Consequences of Addiction
• ​15:24 – Perspective in Sobriety
• ​18:32 – Addiction & Recovery Statistics
• ​21:22 – Barriers to Seeking Treatment
• ​24:30 – Social Media & Substance Use
• ​27:29 – The Fentanyl Epidemic
• ​30:13 – Relapse Isn’t the End
• ​33:26 – Community and Support
• ​36:23 – Hope Through Data
• ​39:36 – Final Thoughts & Encouragement
• ​46:10 – Outro.wav 🎧

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In this episode of the Sober Fix Podcast, Jonathan Schwartz shares his powerful journey from addiction to recovery. Jonathan was a financial advisor to some of the biggest musical stars in the industry. His gambling and drug addiction started to take over and he had to live that double life that many of us are familiar with. It all came crashing down when one of his clients noticed millions of dollars missing, and he eventually went to federal prison. He discusses the impact of childhood trauma, his rise and fall in the financial world, and the consequences of his gambling addiction. Jonathan emphasizes the importance of community support, mentorship, and the amends process in rebuilding relationships. He highlights the significance of self-awareness, gratitude, and maintaining a strong recovery plan, while also sharing his future aspirations to help others through his story of redemption. Jonathan went back to school and is now a therapist helping people turn their life around. I admire Jonathan's honesty and his powerful story of transformation. You do not want to miss this episode!

Takeaways:
-Jonathan's journey highlights the impact of childhood trauma on adult behavior.
-He emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for one's actions in recovery.
-Community support plays a crucial role in maintaining sobriety.
-The amends process is vital for healing relationships affected by addiction.
-Self-awareness is a key tool in preventing relapse.
-Gratitude for small things can enhance recovery.
-Recovery is a continuous journey that requires ongoing effort and support.
-Building a relationship with a higher power can provide strength in recovery.
-Mentorship and sponsorship are essential for those in recovery.
-Jonathan aims to inspire others through his future book and film projects.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Stories
01:33 Childhood and Early Trauma
03:26 Career Success and the Rise of Addiction
06:05 The Downward Spiral: Embezzlement and Denial
10:42 Confrontation and Consequences
15:20 Life in Prison and the Path to Recovery
22:01 The Amends Process and Relationships
24:40 The Importance of Community and Support
28:40 Aftercare and Continued Recovery
31:21 Finding a Higher Power
31:51 The Role of Higher Power in Recovery
33:59 Therapeutic Rapport and Self-Awareness
38:59 Service and Self-Care in Recovery
42:19 Transforming Relationships Through Recovery
50:14 Maintaining Motivation and Avoiding Relapse
58:17 Future Goals and the Power of Redemption
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In this conversation, the hosts discuss the transformative journey of recovery, emphasizing the importance of community, service, and personal growth. They share personal experiences of overcoming addiction, finding fulfillment in sobriety, and the significance of helping others in the recovery process. The dialogue highlights the challenges faced by newcomers and offers encouragement and advice for navigating the path to a fulfilling sober life. In this conversation, the speakers discuss the journey of sobriety, emphasizing the importance of celebrating milestones, understanding the miracle of recovery, and addressing the challenges of codependency and guilt. They explore the complexities of controlled drinking and the nature of binge drinking, ultimately highlighting the significance of self-awareness and personal responsibility in the recovery process.

Takeaways:

-Recovery is a journey that requires patience and perseverance.

-Life can improve significantly after overcoming addiction.

-Finding a supportive community is crucial in recovery.

-Service to others can lead to personal fulfillment.

-Sobriety allows for genuine self-discovery and growth.

-It's important to remember where you came from to avoid relapse.

-Engaging in service helps maintain sobriety and fulfillment.

-Not everyone will understand the struggles of addiction.

-Fulfillment comes from helping others and connecting with like-minded individuals.

-Recovery is about finding joy and purpose in life. 90 days of sobriety is a significant milestone.

-Every day sober is a miracle in itself.

-Codependency can be a challenge in recovery.

-Relationships should not be about taking hostages.

-Self-reflection is crucial for understanding motives in relationships.

-Guilt and shame often accompany the journey to sobriety.

-Controlled drinking is not feasible for real alcoholics.

-Binge drinking can lead to alcoholism over time.

-It's important to recognize the signs of addiction.

-Sobriety is about becoming a better version of oneself.

Chapters

00:00 Recharging and Reflecting on Recovery

06:10 The Journey of Recovery and Personal Growth

12:07 The Importance of Community in Recovery

17:56 Understanding Insanity in Addiction

23:59 Navigating Relationships in Recovery

29:50 The Power of Connection and Helping Others

36:04 Advice for Newcomers in Recovery

48:57 The Challenge of Controlled Drinking

53:51 Guilt and Shame in Recovery

01:00:01 Binge Drinking and Alcoholism

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In this episode of The Sober Fix Podcast, I reflect on my five-year journey of living clean and sober. I discuss some of the challenges and triumphs faced along the way. I share insights on the importance of community support, the realities of addiction recovery statistics, and the transformative power of living a sober life. The conversation also touches on the role of education, career opportunities, and the ongoing pursuit of personal growth and comfort in sobriety. I always emphasize the need for consistency, and the importance of giving back to the recovery community. I find that it's not always about the years, but more so about the days. I can have years of clean time but be far removed from my present mental health. Come check out the episode and thanks to everyone that listens!

Takeaways:

-The journey of sobriety is filled with challenges and triumphs.

-Community support is crucial in maintaining sobriety.

-Sobriety can lead to unexpected opportunities and transformations.

-Education and career advancements are possible in recovery.

-Finding comfort in sobriety is an ongoing process.

-Goals in recovery evolve over time and should be personal.

-Service to others in recovery can enhance one's own sobriety.

-Sobriety does not guarantee a perfect life, but it offers clarity.

-The importance of being present and focusing on daily progress.

-Recovery is a continuous journey that requires effort and commitment.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

03:15 The Journey of Sobriety: Five Years Later

06:28 Statistics and Realities of Addiction Recovery

09:29 The Importance of Support and Community

12:15 Transformations Through Sobriety

15:14 The Role of Education and Career in Recovery

18:26 Finding Comfort in Sobriety

21:26 Emotional Growth and Stability

24:13 The Evolution of Sobriety Goals

27:11 Year Four: Podcasting and Giving Back

30:34 Looking Ahead: Future Goals and Aspirations

42:43 Outro

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This episode of The Sober Fix Podcast is part of the "Ask It Basket" series. Robert, Whitney, and I answer questions from those that are currently in rehab. Those that are just beginning their sober journey write anonymous questions that we talk about from our own experience. Drew and guests dive into their personal journeys in recovery, discussing milestones, the importance of community, and the challenges of navigating sobriety. Combined, we have 45 years of sobriety and are full of gratitude for what recovery has to offer. We delve into topics such as the significance of service, the reality of using dreams, and the process of becoming a sponsor. The conversation emphasizes the need for a zero-tolerance approach to substances, and the joy of living a sober life. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their recovery journeys and find fulfillment in helping others. Please don't miss this episode! 

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Celebrating Sobriety
02:22 Excitement for New Beginnings
03:55 Working in Recovery and Helping Others
05:08 Understanding Using Dreams
11:31 Becoming a Sponsor in Recovery
17:31 Relapse and the Steps
20:29 Letting Go of the Past
25:24 The Importance of Service in Recovery
29:20 The Allure of Addiction
34:32 Understanding the Cycle of Addiction
38:24 The Illusion of Control
43:16 Defining Minimums in Substance Use
47:22 Realizations of Zero Tolerance
54:21 Goals and Aspirations in Recovery
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Takeaways:
-Recovery is a journey that involves community support.
-Milestones in sobriety are significant and should be celebrated.
-Using dreams can be a common experience for those in recovery.
-Becoming a sponsor can enhance one's own recovery journey.
-Service to others is a key component of sobriety.
-Letting go of the past is essential for moving forward.
-Relapse can be a part of the recovery process, but starting over is important.
-Substances can lead to a slippery slope of addiction.
-Normalcy in substance use can be deceptive.
-Zero tolerance is crucial for maintaining sobriety.Robert:

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In this episode of The Sober Fix Podcast, Drew interviews Craig Perra, a coach and founder of the Mindful Habit System, who shares his journey through addiction, trauma, and recovery. Craig discusses the early signs of his addiction, the impact of childhood trauma, and the role of lying and compartmentalization in his life. He reflects on his success in business despite his struggles, hitting rock bottom, and the transformative experience of creating the Mindful Habit System. Craig also has a podcast called Sex Addictions and Port Afflictions. Craig also talks about traditional 12-step programs and discusses the emerging issue of digital addiction, emphasizing the need for personalized recovery approaches. In this conversation, Coach Craig shares his profound journey through addiction, recovery, and the impact of technology on mental health. He discusses the importance of vulnerability, connection, and gratitude in overcoming addiction, while also addressing the progressive nature of both substance and behavioral addictions. Craig emphasizes the need for proactive measures in recovery and the significance of relationships in achieving a fulfilling life. He also outlines his future aspirations in helping others through his work and upcoming projects.

Takeaways:
-Craig's early obsession with sex began at a young age.
-Trauma significantly impacts addiction and mental health.
-Lying is a deeply entrenched behavior in addiction.
-Success in business can coexist with addiction.
-Hitting rock bottom can lead to transformative change.
-Digital addiction is a growing concern in society.
-12-step programs may not work for everyone.
-Mindful Habit System offers a structured approach to recovery.
-Going public about addiction can be terrifying, yet liberating.
-Personalized recovery approaches are essential for success. Everything was exposed at my rock bottom.
-Going public was freeing and necessary.
=There was a vacuum in resources for couples.
The podcast became Craig's mental health treatment.
Porn addiction is increasingly common.
Technology is changing the landscape of addiction.
Gratitude is essential for a fulfilling life.
Self-care and relationships are paramount.
Addictions meet needs that must be addressed proactively.Craig Perra:

Free Training for Men: The Four Transformational Shifts You MUST Make to Break Free From Sex & Porn Addiction: https://mindfulhabithelp.com/free-video-training-craig-perra/

Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions Podcast

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This episode is part of the Ask It Basket series, or questions from rehab. In this episode of The Sober Fix Podcast, Drew speaks with Robert and Whitney about their personal journeys in recovery. They dive into celebrating milestones, the importance of service, sponsorship, and the 12-step program. They emphasize the significance of a higher power, living by spiritual principles, and the impact of community support in maintaining sobriety. Whitney shares her excitement about reaching one year sober, while Robert reflects on his 39 years of continuous sobriety. The conversation highlights the transformative power of recovery and the joy of living a fulfilling life free from addiction. We answer questions from those that are currently in treatment centers and want to know how this recovery thing works. Come join us on episode. Let's go!

Takeaways:

-Robert celebrates 39 years of sobriety, reflecting on his journey.

-Whitney shares her excitement about reaching one year sober.

-Service is a crucial element in maintaining sobriety.

-Sponsorship provides essential guidance in recovery.

-The 12 steps must be followed in order for effective recovery.

-Understanding addiction as a disease helps in recovery.

-Gratitude plays a significant role in the recovery process.

-Community support is vital for newcomers in recovery.

-Living by spiritual principles enhances the recovery experience.

-Sobriety opens the door to happiness and fulfillment.

Robert Pardon:

@recovery_guy

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Whitney B.:

@whitbeynon

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Let me know if you ever want to tell your recovery story.

In this episode of The Sober Fix Podcast, I am joined by Recovery Jon. Jon is a number 1 selling sober author, a podcaster, and a big advocate for sobriety. Jon also has a huge following on social media and is a big part of the recovery community. He shares his journey from addiction to sobriety, detailing the early days of his substance use, the consequences he faced, and the pivotal moments that led him to seek help. Jon graduated high school in 2008, right in the middle of the opiate epidemic. He details his journey to opiates and the consequences that he faced along the way. He also discusses the challenges of life after rehab, the importance of the 12-step program, and how writing his book, 'Life on Life's Terms,' became a form of healing. John also reflects on the impact of loss and grief on his sobriety and offers advice for newcomers in recovery, emphasizing the importance of open-mindedness and the potential for a better life beyond addiction. You do not want to miss this episode!

Takeaways:

-Recovery is a journey that often starts with a moment of clarity.

-Addiction can lead to severe consequences, including legal issues and loss of relationships.

-Moments of clarity can occur in the most unexpected places, like jail.

-Seeking help is a crucial step in overcoming addiction.

-Life after rehab can be challenging but also rewarding.

-The 12-step program provides a structured path to recovery.

-Writing can be a powerful tool for healing and sharing one's story.

-Grief and loss can impact sobriety, but they can also motivate change.

-Building a new life in sobriety requires patience and perseverance.

-Helping others in recovery can be a fulfilling way to give back.

Recovery Jon:

TikTok: @recoveryjon

YouTube: Addicts Truth with Recovery Jon

Jon's Book: Life On Life's Terms

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