The Social-Engineer Podcast by Social-Engineer, LLC

April 07, 2025 Ep. 299 - The Doctor Is In Series - Why Do We Cry?

Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.

In today’s episode, Chris and Abbie are discussing Why Do We Cry? They will talk about the psychological and biological influence on our crying, as well as those that cry too much, too little, and how to get support to find the right balance. [April 7, 2025]

00:00 - Intro

00:16 - Dr. Abbie Maroño Intro

00:31 - Intro Links

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- Social-Engineer channel on SLACK - https://social-engineering-hq.slack.com/ssb

- CLUTCH - http://www.pro-rock.com/

- innocentlivesfoundation.org - http://www.innocentlivesfoundation.org/

02:55 - The Topic of the Day: Why do we cry?

03:23 - An Emotional Release

04:50 - Biologically Speaking

06:15 - Crying Too Much?

10:14 - Chemical Reaction

12:12 - Let It Out!

15:25 - Suppression Depression

18:38 - Symptom, Not Cause

20:32 - The Hormone Effect

21:22 - Best Next Steps

23:53 - Wrap Up

24:23 - Next Month: Emotional Regulation in the Workplace

25:25 - Outro

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- www.innocentlivesfoundation.org

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Bylsma, L. M., Gračanin, A., & Vingerhoets, A. J. (2019). The neurobiology of human crying. Clinical Autonomic Research, 29, 63-73.

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Gračanin, A., Bylsma, L. M., & Vingerhoets, A. J. (2014). Is crying a self-soothing behavior?. Frontiers in psychology, 5, 82046.

Holguín-Lew, J. C., & Bell, V. (2013). “When I Want to Cry I Can’t”: Inability to Cry Following SSRI Treatment. Revista Colombiana de Psiquiatría, 42(4), 304-310.

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