Even Self Marriages need to spice things up from time to time. How about a little role play? In this episode, Danette asks a lot of questions to spark your imagination for some safe, low-stakes experimentation.  

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A loving and honest pep talk if you are in a deep valley and need a reminder that there is beauty close by – even if you can’t see it from where you stand.

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It’s inevitable that as you grow, parts of you will be let go of. Some by choice, some by change.

In this episode, Danette explores the nuances of this experience and gives permission to welcome and release your many selves with the emotion that feels most true to heart.

But not before she nerds out on why you might surprise yourself by not choosing the darling of popular self care (a bubble bath) and going for a shower instead.

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Wait, what? Can’t remember what you were “supposed” to be doing? Deep into a project and then…you feel kinda lost? This is your pep talk about regrouping, redefining, realigning – and why it is not just something you do when you’ve gone “off track”. In fact, making reassessing part of your practice is its own gentle power.

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What if you think marriage is bullshit? Or a huge letdown? Or undeniably anti-feminist? What if you love the idea of loving yourself forever but the word marriage is just….ew?

In this episode Danette makes a case for reclaiming the idea of marriage, including the role it has played in the success of her 20 years of commitment to herself, and offers a prompt to help you find the gift you might need most from yourself.

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Sometimes the hardest thing to do is notice how easy it could be. And sometimes we do need some help to access our own strength. It’s not a willpower problem. Listen in to be reminded that you have everything you need right where you are.

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Making space for a new feeling? Decluttering is one of Danette’s favourite self care practices. In this episode, she shares her 5 favourite questions to ask when deciding what items to keep or release.

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Sometimes the win doesn’t look the way you think it should. And those are the sneaky celebrations – so sneaky they almost go unnoticed. But you deserve the confidence that comes with noticing how you have changed. Sometimes the growth is in out-growing goals you set when you didn’t yet know how much more amazing it could get.

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If you often rush from one project to the next without slowing down to feel your achievements, this is for you. This is a reminder to stop and allow yourself the fruit of your labour. In this episode, Danette shares some phrases you can use to practice receiving, and one little tweak that makes all the difference when you are using your senses to help you enjoy what you’ve created in your life.

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As things begin to “open up” after lockdowns, you may find yourself feeling pressured to move faster than you are comfortable. What if you took lessons from responsible kink to help you navigate your post lockdown transition? They have more in common than you might think.

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