If your relationships feel intense, confusing, or like they teach you more than anything else in your life… there’s a reason for that.

In this episode of The Soul Architect Podcast, Charlotte Milda breaks down why your soul learns its biggest lessons through other people and how your relationships act as mirrors, activators and karmic teachers guiding you into your purpose.

We explore:
• Relationship Contracts & why certain people enter your life exactly when they do
• The “I relate, therefore I am” identity pattern so many sensitive or otherworldly souls carry
• The attachment–detachment dance (wanting closeness but fearing it at the same time)
• How relationships activate your karmic lessons: power, truth, boundaries, intimacy & emotional expression
• Why service-based souls experience intense relationships early in life and how that becomes your medicine
• The ancestral patterns you unconsciously inherit and how your soul came to break them

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your relationship patterns, pulled into deep mirrors, or confused by why certain people impact you so profoundly - this episode will help you understand the soul-level curriculum behind it.

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Feeling lost, stuck, or just over it? In this episode, Charlotte Milda - intuitive Soul Contract Reader and host of The Soul Architect Podcast - breaks down why those heavy emotions aren’t signs of failure… they’re signs of growth.

This is your reminder that the shame, guilt, or frustration you’re feeling right now it’s your soul communicating through your karmic patterns. You’ll learn how to decode that “shitty” feeling, identify your karmic frequency, and finally use it to move forward.

Before you jump in, Generate your free Soul Contract chart at: ⁠YourSoulContract.com⁠

In this episode:

• [00:00] Why you’re actually supposed to feel like sh*t→ Why discomfort is a compass, not a punishment.

• [02:00] Your emotions as spiritual GPS→ How to tell when you’ve taken an energetic “wrong turn.”

• [03:00] The hard truth about change→ Why most people avoid it, and how to start shifting through tiny choices.

• [04:00] The different kinds of “sh*t” each karmic frequency feels→ Charlotte explains the emotional signatures of karmic 1–9 so you can recognise your own patterns.

  • 1 = I’m seperate, I don’t belong

  • 2 = I'm a mistake, life is too much

  • 3 = I’m not good enough, I'm being judged

  • 4 = I’m bad, I'm wrong, I'm abandoned

  • 5 = I hate it here, No one gets me

  • 6 = I’m stuck, I'm trapped, I can't do it

  • 7 = I can’t be seen, I'm not safe, I must control

  • 8 = I don’t belong here, I feel too much

  • 9 = I can’t trust myself, people are out to get me

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Have you ever wondered how old your soul really is?
In this deep-dive episode, Charlotte unpacks soul evolution through the Soul Contract lens - exploring reincarnation, polarity, and the stages of the soul’s journey from young to transcendent.

You’ll learn:

• What incarnation really means (and why your soul keeps coming back)
• The five soul age stages - from young to final-incarnation souls
• How to tell if you’re an young, old or otherworldly soul
• What numbers in your chart reveal your soul’s age
• The difference between karmic polarity and service-based challenges
• Signs you might be in your final incarnation - and what that means for your life purpose

This episode brings clarity to the age-old question of why you’re here - showing how your Soul Contract numbers map the evolution of consciousness itself.

If you’re ready to go deeper into your own blueprint, you can:
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Book a 1:1 Soul Contract Reading to explore your chart in depth here.
Or apply for Soul-Aligned Mentorship if you’re ready to live your chart, not just learn it - contact me: [email protected]

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And remember - your soul didn’t come here to collect more information - it came to remember who you already are!!

Ever wondered if changing your name could actually change your life? Across cultures and history, names have always carried deep spiritual significance - from secret soul names to biblical renaming that marked profound transformation. But what does this really mean for you today?

In this honest and grounded episode, Charlotte explores the power of names through the lens of the Soul Contract system - why your birth name holds your original soul blueprint, how new names create overlays that can accelerate or hinder your growth, and why a name change is more than a legal choice: it’s a spiritual initiation.

Through real client stories, metaphors, and practical insights, you’ll discover how the sound vibration of your name shapes your relationships, career, and destiny, and why conscious name changes can shift the trajectory of your life path.

If you’ve ever changed your name through marriage, divorce, or identity, or you’ve wondered if your current name truly reflects who you are becoming, this episode will give you clarity, empowerment, and a deeper understanding of how your soul is expressed through sound.

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Have you ever wondered why you keep choosing habits, relationships, or patterns that drain you - even when a part of you deeply craves feeling more alive?

What if your nervous system has learned that depletion actually feels safer than vitality?

In this honest and grounding episode, Charlotte explores why so many of us unconsciously choose patterns, relationships, and habits that drain our life-force - and how your Soul Contract reveals the deeper karmic conditioning behind it.

Through the lens of your Soul Contract, you’ll discover why certain frequencies - like 2, 3, 4, or 5 - make it harder to feel safe in your own aliveness, and how understanding your unique blueprint can help you repattern these cycles, reclaim your energy, and rebuild safety in feeling good.

If you’ve ever wondered why thriving feels so unfamiliar, or why living fully can feel overwhelming, this episode will help you understand the root causes and guide you back to the vitality you were born to hold.

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Ever wonder if entrepreneurship is actually for you? The internet will have you believe it’s the only path to freedom - but what if your soul was built for stability, or your joy lives in creativity that doesn’t need to be monetised?

In this honest and grounded episode, Charlotte explores the myth that business ownership automatically equals freedom, why entrepreneurship is the fast track to personal development (and not for the faint of heart), and why there’s nothing wrong with choosing a 9-to-5.

Through the lens of your Soul Contract, you’ll discover whether you’re wired to thrive in the uncertainty of entrepreneurship or feel most alive within structure, security, and community.

If you’ve been questioning whether to leap into business or stay rooted where you are, this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and permission to define freedom on your own terms.

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Ever hit a point in your spiritual journey where everything starts to feel… off? Like your favourite rituals suddenly feel performative, and the spiritual identity you once loved now gives you the ick? You’re not alone - this is what I call the second spiritual awakening, and it’s more common (and necessary) than you think.

In this raw and affirming episode, Charlotte explores the experience of spiritual burnout and identity loss, why it’s happening, and how your Soul Contract reveals this as a destined part of your growth.

She talks about the merging of your physical triangle and spiritual triangle, what it means to truly integrate your soul and ego and why alignment often requires letting go of the very identity you worked so hard to build.

This isn’t about abandoning spirituality - it’s about becoming whole. We’ll ask the hard questions, laugh at the chaos, and remember that your humanity is your divinity.

If you’ve felt disconnected, confused, or quietly questioning your spiritual path, this episode will meet you exactly where you are.

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If you’ve always felt like you’re here to be successful, visible, or wealthy… you’re probably right. That quiet knowing is often written into your Soul Contract.

In this episode, Charlotte breaks down the spiritual blueprint behind wealth, visibility, and soul-aligned success - including the key Soul Contract frequencies (3, 4, 7, 8, 9, 10-1) that shape this path. She explores how sensitivity, polarity, and energetic capacity are all part of preparing to hold what you came here for.

If your vision feels far away, this is your reminder: the work isn’t about doing more - it’s about becoming the version of you who can hold it.

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What if your name wasn’t just a label - but a mantra your soul chose to manifest your entire life path?

In this deeply reflective episode, I’m sharing the most powerful and personal insights I’ve learned as a Soul Contract Reader - including why your birth name holds the vibrational blueprint of your karmic lessons, soul gifts, and life purpose. We explore what your name is really doing (energetically), why your talents feel invisible to you, and how your soul purpose isn’t a job title… but a frequency you’re here to remember.

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Whether you’ve had a Soul Contract reading or are completely new to this work, you’ll walk away with a new lens to view your life - and a deeper appreciation for the spiritual design behind your name, your story, and your becoming.

This is for the sensitives, the seekers, the ones doing the deeper work of remembering who they really are.

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Ever feel like you're behind in life? Like your purpose is close, but just out of reach?

In this episode, Charlotte unpacks the spiritual science of timing - blending soul wisdom, nervous system awareness, and quantum physics to help you understand why things haven’t happened yet… and why that might actually be a gift.

We explore:

- The deeper meaning of Divine Timing (and how to trust it)

Whether you're waiting on clarity, the next step, or a soul-aligned opportunity this conversation will help you feel less stuck and more in sync with your soul’s unfolding.

You’re not off track. You’re right on time for who you're becoming.

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