The Speakeasy

Founder of 24/7 Marriage, Shannan Labrador joins Blake to discuss her journey as a "crappy Christian" and the early challenges in her marriage. She shares how she struggled with unhealed trauma and became the main problem in her marriage during the first five years. Through mentorship and self-reflection, she recognized her destructive behavior, made shifts towards healthier responses, and experienced transformative healing in her relationship with her husband. Join them as they talk about the importance of breaking unhealthy cycles in marriage and fostering a mindset of growth and improvement, emphasizing the need for humility and empathy.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Explore the importance of breaking negative cycles in marriage by fostering humility and initiating positive changes.

• Learn how understanding and appreciating your spouse's background and upbringing can lead to a more empathetic and supportive relationship.

• Discover practical strategies, such as expressing gratitude and giving small wins, to cultivate a healthier love and respect dynamic in your marriage.

To connect with Shannan:

Website: 247marriage.org

Instagram: @247marriage

Facebook: @247marriage

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The creator of 1000 Hours Outside, Ginny Yurich joins Blake to share her personal journey as a mom, struggling with the challenges of parenting and feeling lost in the early years. The turning point comes when a friend introduces the idea of spending four to six hours outside whenever the weather is tolerable, leading to transformative experiences for both the mom and her kids. The conversation explores the impact of outdoor time on children's development, challenging societal norms around education, and the importance of individualized learning approaches. Join them as they emphasize the value of prioritizing outdoor activities for children's well-being and overall family happiness.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Uncover the profound impact of prioritizing outdoor time for children's development and a parent's journey, realizing the transformative effects of spending extended hours outside, fostering confidence and resilience.

• Explore the guest's personal journey of shifting from conventional parenting approaches to embracing simplicity, challenging traditional educational systems, and understanding the importance of allowing children to learn at their own pace.

• Gain insights into the drawbacks of excessive academic pressure, homework, and rigid educational structures, questioning the effectiveness of long school hours and advocating for a more balanced and holistic approach to childhood development.

Books mentioned in the episode:

• Teach Your Kids How to Read and 100 Easy Lessons
• Learning All the Time: How Young Children Learn to Read, Write, Do Math, and Investigate the World Without Being Taught by John Holt
• Smart Moves: Why Learning Is Not All in Your Head by Carla Hannaford
• Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Education by John Taylor Gatto
• Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne
• Take Back the Game by Linda Flanagan
• Grow Wild by Katie Bowman
• Nutritious Movement by Katie Bowman
• Learning All the Time by John Holt

To connect with Ginny:

Website: 1000hoursoutside.com

Instagram: @1000hoursoutside

Facebook: @1000hoursoutside

YouTube: 1000 Hours Outside

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Content creator Kevin Thom joins Blake to discuss her journey into the online space, particularly during the heightened discussions in 2020, highlighting the fear of man and the importance of standing on truth. Join their deep dive into the impact of music and how different genres of music affect the mind, soul, and spirit, drawing connections between music and societal issues in the Black community. The conversation explores the idea of submitting one's life to the Lord, questioning the impact of certain music genres on society, and examining the spiritual dimensions of music.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Explore the spiritual dimensions of music and examine its influence on cultural ideologies.

• Highlight the need for love and respect amid theological differences.

• Comprehend the profound impact of music, specifically R&B, rap, and hip-hop, examining their influence on the mind, soul, and spirit while drawing connections to societal challenges.

To connect with Kevin:

Instagram: @kingkat2.0

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Holistic Chiropractor and wellness advocate, Dr. Courtney Kahla joins Blake to discuss her journey to becoming a chiropractor with a focus on nervous system-based care. Join them as they dive into the profound impact of chiropractic care on various health issues by addressing the root cause through nervous system communication. Dr. Courtney encourages a holistic approach to lifestyle choices, emphasizing the need for practices that bring peace and avoiding unnecessary stress in health decisions.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Explore the transformative impact of chiropractic care on diverse health issues.

• Gain insights into the connection between chiropractic adjustments and mental health, particularly in addressing anxiety by modulating nervous system activity.

• Receive guidance on finding chiropractors who focus on nervous system care and understand the importance of assessing the nervous system's function for overall well-being.

To connect with Dr. Courtney:

Website: drcourtneykahla.com

Instagram: @drcourtneykahla

Blog: Read here!

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Your hormone health bestie, Emily Detrick joins Blake to dive into the intricacies of the menstrual cycle with a focus on empowerment and education. Join them as they discuss the phases of the cycle likened to seasons: menstrual phase (winter), follicular phase (spring), ovulation (summer), and others. They emphasize understanding these phases to harness energy, creativity, and social capacity throughout the month. The conversation touches on hormonal impacts, the effects of birth control, and the necessity of educating women about their bodies, challenging misconceptions and promoting self-awareness and healing. The aim is to debunk myths, empower women, and highlight the importance of embracing one's bodily rhythms for overall well-being and fertility.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Grasp a comprehensive understanding of the menstrual cycle's phases, linked metaphorically to seasons, enabling you to optimize energy, creativity, and social interactions throughout the month.

• Challenge misconceptions about birth control, delve into its effects on the body, and explore the necessity of educating women about their bodies for self-awareness and healing.

• Embrace the power of bodily rhythms, debunk myths about fertility and women's health, and empower yourself with knowledge to foster overall well-being and a deeper connection to your body.

To connect with Emily:

Website: balancedbabeblueprint.com

Instagram: @littleraeofhealth

Podcast: Little Rae of Health

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The hosts of the Blurry Creatures podcast, Nate Henry and Luke Rodgers join Blake to explore the shift from growing up in the church to questioning beliefs and exploring ignored Bible verses, leading to a deeper understanding of their faith. Their conversation extends to conspiracy theories, history, and the supernatural. They touch upon various conspiracy theories and the challenge of discerning between theories and proven conspiracies, while also acknowledging the importance of considering both data and anecdotal evidence. The hosts address topics like the construction of the pyramids, the questioning of mainstream historical narratives, and the exploration of why certain events happened, challenging the accepted norms in both history and faith. Join them as they have a candid discussion that encourages questioning established beliefs and exploring alternate viewpoints.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Navigate the conflict between paranormal experiences and religious upbringing.

• Merge theological discussions with paranormal topics, highlighting the avoidance of certain crucial subjects in both realms.

• Address unexplained phenomena and abductions from a spiritual perspective, urging Christians to engage with these complex issues.

Nate and Luke are the hosts of the Blurry Creatures podcast – listen here!

To connect with Nate and Luke:

Website: blurrycreatures.com

Instagram: @blurrycreatures

Facebook: @blurrycreatures

Podcast: Blurry Creatures

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Join us for today's episode while Blake reflects on the past year's challenges, admitting the show took a backseat due to personal demands but promises a revitalized focus for the upcoming season. Embracing changes, she hints at a return to the podcast's roots while introducing fresh elements like longer, impassioned discussions, including diverse guests regardless of religious beliefs. Excited about the prospects, Blake outlines plans for video content, homeschooling discussions, health ownership, and a more spontaneous, God-driven approach to episode planning. Expect uncomfortable yet transformative conversations that push boundaries and perspectives, all while maintaining the show's essence and growth from its humble beginnings in a closet to its impactful present.

To connect with Blake:

Website: thegirlnamedblake.com

Instagram: @thegirlnamedblake

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Author, speaker, and Bible teacher Nicki Koziarz joins Blake to discuss how life transitions relate to the seasons Moses experienced. They explore development, separation, cultivation, and being finished. Join them as they highlight how these seasons can intertwine and not necessarily follow a linear order. Join them as they talk about trusting God in each season, embracing change, and understanding that being in transition doesn't always mean knowing what's next. It's about actively participating in the present and having faith in the unfolding journey.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Understand the four key seasons of transition – development, separation, cultivation, and finished – and how they apply to your life's journey.

• Embrace the discomfort and uncertainty of transition, recognizing it as an opportunity for personal growth and faith development.

• Trust in God's timing and guidance, allowing yourself to surrender control and find purpose in each stage of transition.

Nicki is the author of a 4-session Bible study, Blessed Endings, Beautiful Beginnings – get your copy today!

To connect with Nicki:

Website: nickikoziarz.com

Instagram: @nickikoziarz

Facebook: @nickikoziarz.ministry

Podcast: Lessons from the Farm

Listen to Brittany Barbera's music here.

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Author, speaker, and dad Jay and his daughter, Rae Anne Payleitner join Blake to discuss the essence of being a girl dad. They emphasize the significance of emotional presence, entering each other's worlds, and fostering vulnerability in relationships. Both stress the idea that dads should encourage their daughters to build their own lives, embracing vulnerability and openness to navigate life's challenges together. The conversation revolves around practical tips, such as creating shared experiences, staying connected, and apologizing as foundational elements in the father-daughter relationship, urging dads to engage authentically and adaptively with their daughters across different life stages.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Gain practical insights on fostering a strong father-daughter relationship, including strategies for emotional availability and connection.

• Understand the importance of evolving together, embracing vulnerability, and navigating various life stages within the father-daughter dynamic.

• Learn actionable tips to build a lasting, evolving relationship based on genuine connection and mutual understanding.

Jay and Rayanne are the authors of Girl Dad – available everywhere now!

To connect with Jay & Rae Anne:

Website: jaypayleitner.com

Instagram: @jaypayleitner | @raeapay

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Today on the podcast, Eric Swithin, the founder behind the Fatherless Epidemic documentary and the Alliance for Ending the Fatherless Epidemic, joins Blake and dives deep into his personal journey and the mission to address America's greatest epidemic. Motivated by his own childhood wounds from growing up fatherless, Eric discusses the profound impact and staggering statistics—18 million children in the US without a father figure, underlying reasons, and the societal repercussions. He emphasizes the benefits of the nuclear family and addresses emotionally absent fathers. Eric advocates for a return to God's design and the church's pivotal role in ending fatherlessness, pointing out societal hesitations, church dynamics, and the urgent need for action.

Ultimately, Eric passionately underscores the need for collective action, urging churches to step up, take responsibility, and re-engage in a mission to heal broken families and communities affected by fatherlessness.

In this episode, you'll be able to:

• Explore the origins and impacts of the fatherless epidemic in America, delving into its multifaceted causes and the staggering statistics surrounding father absence.

• Understand the role of the church in addressing this issue and how initiatives like the Alliance for Ending the Fatherless Epidemic are collaborating to offer solutions and support.

• Witness a passionate call to action, challenging individuals, churches, and communities to actively engage in creating change by embracing God-centered family values and taking practical steps to end the epidemic.

To connect with Eric:

Website: fatherlessepidemic.org

Instagram: @thefatherlessepidemic

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