10 Tips for Making Things Better. Things we cover this episode ... 

1. You must do SOMETHING, to expect it to get better. 
2. The #1 thing you must do to make things better. 
3. Remember THIS about your spouse.
4. Do the things you did when you fell in love. 
5. The answer isn't upgrading your spouse. 
6. Seek help by doing these three things.
7. DANGER, do not do this ... when it comes to someone you talk to. 
8. Communicate daily.
9. Pray together.
10. The best time to work on your marriage is THIS time. 

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Today we cover ... 

* How much time should you be spending on social media?

* Hiding things from your spouse on social media. 

* Should I share my password with my spouse?

* Being friends with an EX or old boy/girl friends.

* 3 things you should NEVER do on Social Media.

* 2 Things you MUST do on Social Media if you are married. 

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Some things we covered in this podcast ... 

• ALWAYS put your spouse first.
• Set boundaries. 
• Play fair when it comes to holidays and special events.
• Be a team.
• Keep an open mind.
• NEVER betray your spouse to your parents. 
• Strive to live at peace.
• DO be the bad cop when needed. 
• How to be the best in-laws EVER!

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Some things we covered ...

• Understanding your spouse's emotional needs.
• Why it's essential to communicate.
• The "10 Minute" Rule
• Be a good listener 
• Touch
• Be grateful 
• Be intimate
• Make time for one another

The joy of rediscovering one another. 

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Today we cover ...

• Don't be single in public.
• Flirting with people you're not married to. 
• Letting the world know you're married on social media. 
• Wearing your wedding ring.
• Putting your spouse before your family and friends.
• Not playing "hard to get" with your spouse. 
• Being cautious about complimenting the opposite sex.
• Wearing your wedding ring.
• Checking in.
• Being proud of your spouse in public.

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We discuss the following ... 

1. Come clean ... shoot straight ... no more lies.  
2. Take complete responsibility ... don’t blame.  
3. Completely end things with the other person. 
4. Be remorseful and apologetic. 
5. Listen with empathy.
6. Ask for forgiveness. 
7. Be transparent. Don’t hide things. Be where you say you will be. Regularly check in. Text back or call back immediately if possible. 
8. Answer questions they want to know.
9. Don't say, "Why can't we just start over?," or "Can't you just get over it?"
10. Be patient as your spouse heals. IF YOU’VE BEEN UNFAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE, YOU ABSOLUTELY CANNOT DICTATE HOW LONG IT WILL TAKE THEM TO HEAL. 
11. Be around and available.  
12. Make them feel like they are #1 again. 
13. Refresh your marriage. Counseling ... workshop. ETC
14. NEVER cheat again. If you get a second chance, feel very blessed ... rarely is there ever an opportunity for a third chance. 

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Questions Covered on this episode ...

• How often should we be having sex?
• What if my spouse isn't interested in sex?
• Why does sex matter?  
• Why God created sex?
• Is Oral Sex okay?
• What if I'm in a sexless marriage? 
• What causes a sexless marriage?
• AND ... that's probably enough. :) 

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1.  __________ your spouse regularly.
2.  Stop watching ___________.
3.  Share common interests.
4.  Be ____________________.
5.  Have regular sex. 
6.  Meet one another's needs.
7.  _________ to one another.
8.  Stop comparing. 
9.  Establishing healthy _________________.
10.  ______________ your vulnerabilities. 

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5 Books we Mentioned... 

His Needs Her Needs - Dr Williard Harley
Love Busters - Dr Williard Harley
5 Love Languages - Dr Gary Chapman
Sheet Music - Dr Kevin Leman 
Personality Plus for Couples - Florence Littaur
10 Ways to a Stronger Marriage - Trey & Lea Morgan 

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1. Give him lots of _____________

2. Do _____________ with him that he likes to do.

3. ____________ with him.

4. Be the __________ to ____________ sex.

5. Tell him what you _________, don't make him guess. 

6. Choose to be your husband’s lover, not his __________.

7. Pray for him.

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