The Superior Men Podcast

Matt and Jay discuss Sexual Imagination and Fantasy, Fish Sex and Dominatrixes, Four Rules To Get Her Thinking About Sex, the Dressing Rooms at Victoria’s Secret, the power of Erotic Storytelling, the risks of sexual fantasies, and much more! Surveys Page Link Our “Sexual Magnetism” book is coming soon! We’ll be offering limited advanced copies and deep discounts but ONLY if you’ve signed up for our email list! To sign up head over to https://www.wearesuperiormen.com/join/ For faster access, tell your mobile assistant or smart speaker “Play ‘The Superior Men Podcast’!” Make sure to listen to our 30-minute book review show “The Superior Men Bookcast” – available now with your TSMP subscription. Bookcast #7 “Extreme Ownership” coming November 12! Episode 34 Notes WASM Article: Exploring Sexual Imagination and Fantasy 5:00 – Today’s episode is part 3 of our “Sexual Satisfaction” series 7:30 – Biggest and most powerful sex organ 10:30 – Fish sex and Dominatrixes 13:00 – We have a record of every second of our lives stored in our subconscious 16:00 – Prepping a woman’s brain for sex 17:30 – Choreplay vs Foreplay 19:30 – Attraction isn’t negotiated / Why you need to be “large and in charge” 21:30 – Like it or not – it’s the man’s job to initiate sex 25:00 – Sexual Starter Question: “What’s one of your favorite romantic songs?” 28:30 – Judging women and having fun doing it 29:30 – Sexual Starter Question: “I really want to see you in XYZ sexy clothing” 32:00 – Your woman will remember the things you enjoy – so tell her about them! 33:00 – Sexual Starter Question: “Do you remember your first kiss?” 35:00 – The one question you should NOT ask her 38:00 – Four Rules To Get Her Thinking About Sex 41:00 – One of the most popular fantasies: Sex in the changing room 44:00 – Why you must use Erotic Storytelling 45:30 – Erotic Storytelling Starter: “What’s your favorite erotic book/movie?” 48:00 – Why you need to Lead her sexually vs Pushing her to be sexual 51:30 – Erotic Storytelling Starter: “What’s a sexy story from one of your friends?” 54:00 – The goal is to move her towards the question “What’s one of your fantasies?” 56:00 – Don’t ask her a sexual question unless you’re prepared for her answers – and also to give YOUR answers 58:30 – More naked than naked: Exploring sexual imagination and fantasy is much riskier and scarier than just having sex 1:00:00 – Discussing fantasies requires strong trust and communication 1:02:30 – Great sex means learning more about someone 1:04:00 – We don’t choose what turns us on / Fantasies aren’t a choice

Matt and Jay discuss Sexual Imagination and Fantasy, Fish Sex and Dominatrixes, Four Rules To Get Her Thinking About Sex, the Dressing Rooms at Victoria's Secret, the power of Erotic Storytelling, the risks of sexual fantasies, and much more!

Continue reading TSMP #34 – Sexual Imagination and Fantasy at We Are Superior Men.

Matt and Jay discuss how to maintain your important relationships while working long hours, 5 Tips To Improve Your Work/Life Balance, juggling multiple wives, energy healing over the phone, getting rid of Captain Save-a-Ho, a guaranteed way to be more attractive to your woman and staying close when you're away from home!

Surveys Page Link

Our “Sexual Magnetism” book is coming soon! We’ll be offering limited advanced copies and deep discounts but ONLY if you've signed up for our email list! To sign up head over to https://www.wearesuperiormen.com/join/

For faster access, tell your mobile assistant or smart speaker "Play 'The Superior Men Podcast'!"

Make sure to listen to our 30-minute book review show "The Superior Men Bookcast" - available now with your TSMP subscription. Bookcast #7 “Extreme Ownership” coming in November!

Episode 33 Notes

WASM Article: Staying Close When You're Away From Home

6:30 - Matt on the road for work a lot: He's spent 91 nights away from home in the first 9 months of the year

9:00 - Work and travel with a wife and 4 kids

11:30 - The major benefits of working from home

13:30 - Energy healing over the phone

16:30 - Even if you don't travel for work, improving your work/life balance is key

17:00 - 5 Tips to Improve Your Work Life Balance / Tip 1: Have a Great Partner

19:30 - If your partner isn't okay with you being gone long hours for work, eventually things will fall apart

22:00 - Know your partner, know yourself: Not everyone is emotionally capable of being apart from their SO for long periods of time

24:00 - The insanity of Captain Save-a-Ho

26:00 - Tip #2: Set Expectations and Revisit Those Expectations Regularly

28:30 - Using a shared electronic calendar to coordinate the family (Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, Cozi app, etc)

33:00 - The more organized and coordinated you are, the less stressed your woman will be and consequently the more attractive you will be to her

34:30 - Tip #3: Being Gone Doesn't Mean Being Absent / Staying connected

37:30 - Be aware of when your wife is available...and when she is NOT available

40:30 - Coordinate regular times for communication / adapt your system for what works for both of you

43:00 - Don't multi-task while having important conversations with women. Schedule uninterrupted time.

44:30 - Tip #4: Handle Your Shit

45:30 - Divide responsibilities into two sections: 1. Things you have to be home for, and 2. Things you can do remotely

47:30 - Tip #5: When You're Home, Be Present for Your Family

50:00 - How to coordinate your multiple wives

52:00 - Make sure you're rested and healthy when you get home so you can spend quality time with family

55:00 - Managing your tremendously valuable time with family when you work 80-100 hours a week

58:00 - The work is never done. Actively manage your travel, work and relationships so you'll always be staying close when you're away from home

Matt and Jay discuss how to maintain your important relationships while working long hours, 5 Tips To Improve Your Work/Life Balance, juggling multiple wives, energy healing over the phone, getting rid of Captain Save-a-Ho, a guaranteed way to be more attractive to your woman and staying close when you’re away from home! Surveys Page Link Our “Sexual Magnetism” book is coming soon! We’ll be offering limited advanced copies and deep discounts but ONLY if you’ve signed up for our email list! To sign up head over to https://www.wearesuperiormen.com/join/ For faster access, tell your mobile assistant or smart speaker “Play ‘The Superior Men Podcast’!” Make sure to listen to our 30-minute book review show “The Superior Men Bookcast” – available now with your TSMP subscription. Bookcast #7 “Extreme Ownership” coming in November! Episode 33 Notes WASM Article: Staying Close When You’re Away From Home 6:30 – Matt on the road for work a lot: He’s spent 91 nights away from home in the first 9 months of the year 9:00 – Work and travel with a wife and 4 kids 11:30 – The major benefits of working from home 13:30 – Energy healing over the phone 16:30 – Even if you don’t travel for work, improving your work/life balance is key 17:00 – 5 Tips to Improve Your Work Life Balance / Tip 1: Have a Great Partner 19:30 – If your partner isn’t okay with you being gone long hours for work, eventually things will fall apart 22:00 – Know your partner, know yourself: Not everyone is emotionally capable of being apart from their SO for long periods of time 24:00 – The insanity of Captain Save-a-Ho 26:00 – Tip #2: Set Expectations and Revisit Those Expectations Regularly 28:30 – Using a shared electronic calendar to coordinate the family (Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, Cozi app, etc) 33:00 – The more organized and coordinated you are, the less stressed your woman will be and consequently the more attractive you will be to her 34:30 – Tip #3: Being Gone Doesn’t Mean Being Absent / Staying connected 37:30 – Be aware of when your wife is available…and when she is NOT available 40:30 – Coordinate regular times for communication / adapt your system for what works for both of you 43:00 – Don’t multi-task while having important conversations with women. Schedule uninterrupted time. 44:30 – Tip #4: Handle Your Shit 45:30 – Divide responsibilities into two sections: 1. Things you have to be home for, and 2. Things you can do remotely 47:30 – Tip #5: When You’re Home, Be Present for Your Family 50:00 – How to coordinate your multiple wives 52:00 – Make sure you’re rested and healthy when you get home so you can spend quality time with family 55:00 – Managing your tremendously valuable time with family when you work 80-100 hours a week 58:00 – The work is never done. Actively manage your travel, work and relationships so you’ll always be staying close when you’re away from home

Matt and Jay discuss travel, work and relationships, staying close when you're away from home, the insanity of being "Captain Save-a-Ho" and a lot more!

Continue reading TSMP #33 – Travel, Work and Relationships: Staying Close When You’re Away From Home at We Are Superior Men.

Matt and Jay discuss females in heat, weird fetishes, affirmative consent laws, taking control in the bedroom and how to use your 3lb sex organ to drive women wild!

Surveys Page Link

Our “Sexual Magnetism” book is coming soon! We’ll be offering limited advanced copies and deep discounts but ONLY if you've signed up for our email list! To sign up head over to https://www.wearesuperiormen.com/join/

For faster access, tell your mobile assistant or smart speaker "Play 'The Superior Men Podcast'!"

Make sure to listen to our 30-minute book review show "The Superior Men Bookcast" - available now with your TSMP subscription. Bookcast #6 “Fitness Confidential” available now!

Episode 32 Notes

WASM article: https://www.wearesuperiormen.com/unlocking-her-sexual-imagination/

7:30 - Today's episode is Part 2 of our 'Sexual Satisfaction' series. Head here to catch up listening to Part 1.

10:15 - Sex in LTRs - "She used to like it, but not so much now"

13:00 - Jay's interest in ladyboys

14:30 - Everyone has a 3lb sex organ

17:30 - The difficulty finding actors for Snuff Porn

19:30 - The evolution of sexual porn

22:15 - Weird fetishes / 'Voraraphilia' takes the phrase "eat me" to a whole other level

26:00 - The biology of unlocking her sexual desire

29:00 - Men are hormonally driven to pursue sex, but...

32:30 - Study: Men AND Women with higher T-levels have more sexual partners

35:00 - Females in heat / Matt's horny cat

37:30 - Men in LTRs: It will continue to be your responsibility to initiate sex

39:00 - Women in strip clubs displaying sexual receptivity

42:30 - There's no guaranteed technique to get sex from a woman 100% of the time

47:00 - A woman's tremendous emotional perceptivity makes her better able to judge a man's sexual attractiveness

51:00 - Want more sex? Do the things that make a woman feel biological attraction to you

55:30 - Actions you can take to start unlocking her sexual desire

1:00:30 - If you want to turn her on, better to tell her "Do this" rather than say "Is it okay if we do this?"

1:03:00 - Affirmative consent laws killing attraction

1:06:30 - Learning to read contextual emotional cues

Matt and Jay discuss females in heat, weird fetishes, affirmative consent laws, taking control in the bedroom and how to use your 3lb sex organ to drive women wild! Surveys Page Link Our “Sexual Magnetism” book is coming soon! We’ll be offering limited advanced copies and deep discounts but ONLY if you’ve signed up for our email list! To sign up head over to https://www.wearesuperiormen.com/join/ For faster access, tell your mobile assistant or smart speaker “Play ‘The Superior Men Podcast’!” Make sure to listen to our 30-minute book review show “The Superior Men Bookcast” – available now with your TSMP subscription. Bookcast #6 “Fitness Confidential” available now! Episode 32 Notes WASM article: https://www.wearesuperiormen.com/unlocking-her-sexual-imagination/ 7:30 – Today’s episode is Part 2 of our ‘Sexual Satisfaction’ series. Head here to catch up listening to Part 1. 10:15 – Sex in LTRs – “She used to like it, but not so much now” 13:00 – Jay’s interest in ladyboys 14:30 – Everyone has a 3lb sex organ 17:30 – The difficulty finding actors for Snuff Porn 19:30 – The evolution of sexual porn 22:15 – Weird fetishes / ‘Voraraphilia’ takes the phrase “eat me” to a whole other level 26:00 – The biology of unlocking her sexual desire 29:00 – Men are hormonally driven to pursue sex, but… 32:30 – Study: Men AND Women with higher T-levels have more sexual partners 35:00 – Females in heat / Matt’s horny cat 37:30 – Men in LTRs: It will continue to be your responsibility to initiate sex 39:00 – Women in strip clubs displaying sexual receptivity 42:30 – There’s no guaranteed technique to get sex from a woman 100% of the time 47:00 – A woman’s tremendous emotional perceptivity makes her better able to judge a man’s sexual attractiveness 51:00 – Want more sex? Do the things that make a woman feel biological attraction to you 55:30 – Actions you can take to start unlocking her sexual desire 1:00:30 – If you want to turn her on, better to tell her “Do this” rather than say “Is it okay if we do this?” 1:03:00 – Affirmative consent laws killing attraction 1:06:30 – Learning to read contextual emotional cues

Matt and Jay discuss how to use your 3lb sex organ to drive women wild, weird fetishes, females in heat, affirmative consent and much more!

Continue reading TSMP #32 – Unlocking Her Sexual Desire at We Are Superior Men.

Fitness Confidential: Adventures In the Weight Loss Game by Vinnie Tortorich and Dean Lorey

America’s Angriest Trainer, Vinnie Tortorich, exposes the nasty underbelly of the fitness industry while getting you into the best shape of your life. For over 20 years, Vinnie has been Hollywood’s go-to guy for celebrities and athletes looking to get fit fast. Now, in this hilarious and R-rated memoir, he holds nothing back. What’s the best piece of fitness equipment money can buy? What’s the fastest way to lose weight: diet or exercise? Why are health clubs worse than used car lots? In "Fitness Confidential" Vinnie tells all. Get ready to get fit, get inspired and get the dirt with Hollywood’s most outrageous personal trainer!

Read and listen to "Fitness Confidential" on Amazon!

Listen to the "Fitness Confidential Podcast"

Want more great books? Check out our MUST READ LIST!

Fitness Confidential Notes:

0:00 - Intro to Fitness Confidential

Underlying theme: "Your good intentions have been stolen, I'm here to help you get them back"Intended audience: Anyone who is ready to improve their healthPurpose of the book: Help you lose weight, get fit, change your diet, kick your ass - all while being entertaining as hell

5:45 - How easy is the book to read?

Easy reading, great stories, super entertainingPrint: 250 pages (5-6 hours)Audio: 7 hours

6:45 - Reviews and Significance

Well known (1,550 4½-star reviews on Amazon)#84 in Audible Health and Fitness

WASM Article: The Best Diet You've Never Heard Of

11:00 - Bio of Vinnie Tortorich

Born September 27, 1962 - 57 Years Old Grew up in New Orleans. Attended Tulane University on a football scholarship. Became strength & conditioning coach (aka PE Teacher) for Newman High School and then branched out into personal training.Hosted “Talking Fitness” the top-rated radio show in New OrleansMoved to Beverly Hills and became an elite fitness trainer for HollywoodHis appearance on the Oprah Winfrey Show is #7 most-watched OWS of all timeUltra athlete. Has competed in multiple ultra distance races, including the world championships of 24-hour mountain bike racing and the legendary Furnace Creek 508Wrote a kid’s novel called “Monty: A Friendship Can Lead To a Miracle” (nobody has heard of this book)

12:30 - Major Themes of the Book

Growing up as a skinny, scared kid and how lifting weights changed everything for himTransitioning from personal training and radio show in New Orleans to Hollywood personal trainer Becoming ultra athlete - repeated failures - Furnace Creek 508Leukemia battleSuccess! Becoming a best-selling author and famous podcaster

Jay's perspectives

Super entertaining / Lots of personal stories about TortorichI learned: It's great to love your clientsCritique: Book is too short!Q for Tortorich: What do you eat on an 18-hour bike ride?Recommended reading: "Why We Get Fat and What To Do About It" by Gary Taubes

Matt's perspectives

The first nutrition book I got into / Tortorich is a true trainer that has changed thousands of livesThis book changed my paradigm about foodCritique: Too short - I want moreQ for Tortorich: If you have questions, listen to his podcast!Recommended Reading: "Eat Happy: Gluten Free, Grain Free, Low Carb Recipes Made from Real Foods For A Joyful Life" by Anna Vocino

Jay's favorite quote from "Fitness Confidential"

“Every morning in Africa, a gazelle wakes up. It knows it must run faster than the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning a lion wakes up. It knows it must outrun the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. It doesn’t matter whether you are a lion or a gazelle: when the sun comes up, you’d better be running (African proverb)....This is true for lions and gazelle everywhere, except in one place - captivity. They don’t run because they don’t have to. Their food is provided for them. All they have to do is eat it. So they sit there lounging and grazing contentedly, not realizin

Fitness Confidential: Adventures In the Weight Loss Game by Vinnie Tortorich and Dean Lorey America’s Angriest Trainer, Vinnie Tortorich, exposes the nasty underbelly of the fitness industry while getting you into the best shape of your life. For over 20 years, Vinnie has been Hollywood’s go-to guy for celebrities and athletes looking to get fit fast. Now, in this hilarious and R-rated memoir, he holds nothing back. What’s the best piece of fitness equipment money can buy? What’s the fastest way to lose weight: diet or exercise? Why are health clubs worse than used car lots? In “Fitness Confidential” Vinnie tells all. Get ready to get fit, get inspired and get the dirt with Hollywood’s most outrageous personal trainer! Read and listen to “Fitness Confidential” on Amazon! Listen to the “Fitness Confidential Podcast” Want more great books? Check out our MUST READ LIST! Fitness Confidential Notes: 0:00 – Intro to Fitness Confidential Underlying theme: “Your good intentions have been stolen, I’m here to help you get them back”Intended audience: Anyone who is ready to improve their healthPurpose of the book: Help you lose weight, get fit, change your diet, kick your ass – all while being entertaining as hell 5:45 – How easy is the book to read? Easy reading, great stories, super entertainingPrint: 250 pages (5-6 hours)Audio: 7 hours 6:45 – Reviews and Significance Well known (1,550 4½-star reviews on Amazon)#84 in Audible Health and Fitness WASM Article: The Best Diet You’ve Never Heard Of 11:00 – Bio of Vinnie Tortorich Born September 27, 1962 – 57 Years Old Grew up in New Orleans. Attended Tulane University on a football scholarship. Became strength & conditioning coach (aka PE Teacher) for Newman High School and then branched out into personal training.Hosted “Talking Fitness” the top-rated radio show in New OrleansMoved to Beverly Hills and became an elite fitness trainer for HollywoodHis appearance on the Oprah Winfrey Show is #7 most-watched OWS of all timeUltra athlete. Has competed in multiple ultra distance races, including the world championships of 24-hour mountain bike racing and the legendary Furnace Creek 508Wrote a kid’s novel called “Monty: A Friendship Can Lead To a Miracle” (nobody has heard of this book) 12:30 – Major Themes of the Book Growing up as a skinny, scared kid and how lifting weights changed everything for himTransitioning from personal training and radio show in New Orleans to Hollywood personal trainer Becoming ultra athlete – repeated failures – Furnace Creek 508Leukemia battleSuccess! Becoming a best-selling author and famous podcaster Jay’s perspectives Super entertaining / Lots of personal stories about TortorichI learned: It’s great to love your clientsCritique: Book is too short!Q for Tortorich: What do you eat on an 18-hour bike ride?Recommended reading: “Why We Get Fat and What To Do About It” by Gary Taubes Matt’s perspectives The first nutrition book I got into / Tortorich is a true trainer that has changed thousands of livesThis book changed my paradigm about foodCritique: Too short – I want moreQ for Tortorich: If you have questions, listen to his podcast!Recommended Reading: “Eat Happy: Gluten Free, Grain Free, Low Carb Recipes Made from Real Foods For A Joyful Life” by Anna Vocino Jay’s favorite quote from “Fitness Confidential” “Every morning in Africa, a gazelle wakes up. It knows it must run faster than the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning a lion wakes up. It knows it must outrun the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. It doesn’t matter whether you are a lion or a gazelle: when the sun comes up, you’d better be running (African proverb)….This is true for lions and gazelle everywhere, except in one plac