The Things We Know

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The Things We Know episodes

  • Remind Me....Why is Inclusion Bad?

    In this thought-provoking episode, Kari and Lisa delve into the contentious world of inclusion, exploring why initiatives aimed at fostering diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) have sparked significant backlash. Starting with the question, "Why is inclusion bad?" they examine divisive buzzwords, unpacking their origins and the reasons behind their polarizing nature. As the conversation unfolds, Kari and Lisa transition to discuss the profound importance of inclusion for all individuals, including those with disabilities. They emphasize that every human deserves love, safety, and belonging, and explore strategies to clear misinformation and misunderstandings about what true inclusion means. Join them for an insightful journey from confusion and frustration to reaffirming the essential role of inclusion in building a compassionate and united society.

    We would LOVE to INCLUDE you in our upcoming retreat: Plot Twist! Getaway: Learn more and register now to join us and other fabulous women like you: March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    1 hr 9 min
  • Building Friendships as Adults

    In this episode, Kari and Lisa delve into the art of building friendships and creating meaningful community as adults—a challenge many face in a world that prioritizes productivity over genuine connection. Touching on the limits of our social circles and referencing work from experts, they explore why organic friendship opportunities dwindle with age, how busy schedules and fear of rejection can hinder new bonds, and why loneliness can be as harmful to health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day, according to research. Drawing on their own experiences—including cross-country moves and intentional efforts to maintain deep relationships—Kari and Lisa share practical tips for nurturing existing acquaintances, initiating new connections, and cultivating the kind of soulful camaraderie that enriches every facet of life.

    Retreats are the perfect setting for foreign new bonds of friendship. Perhaps attending the Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat with us is just what you need! Learn more and register now to join us and other fabulous women like you: March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    47 min
  • What Are Facts?

    Join us for a deep dive into why "facts" feel more elusive than ever in our politically divided era. We'll explore how memes, viral hashtags, and 24/7 partisan news have contributed to a world where echo chambers and filter bubbles are the norm. Using real examples—from "alternative facts" to late-night comedy bits—we'll unpack how social media algorithms, mistrust in institutions, and identity-driven politics make it harder to find a shared reality. Along the way, we'll look at ways to break through the noise, including media literacy, transparent fact-checking, and civil dialogues that let us tackle even tough topics with open minds. If you've been wondering how we got here—or how we move forward—this conversation offers both the backstory and some hopeful strategies.

    Facts: You need a getaway! Perhaps attending the Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat with us is just what you need! Learn more and register now to join us and other fabulous women like you: March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    56 min
  • Cycle Syncing at Any Age with Alyx Coble-Frakes

    Join us for this illuminating conversation with social entrepreneur and founder of The Agenda, Alyx Coble-Frakes. We dive into the often-overlooked power of cycle syncing—what it is, why it matters, and how it can help women at every life stage regain balance and vitality. Alyx breaks down practical steps for getting started, shares poignant breakthrough moments from her own journey, and explains how your rhythms can impact everything from productivity to well-being. We also explore some of the contentious issues brought forth in the recent election, discussing whether period-tracking might play a role in broader privacy or surveillance debates. Whether you're in your 30s, 40s, navigating peri-menopause, or beyond, this episode is packed with insights on tapping into your body's natural cues—so you can show up more vibrantly in business, relationships, and everyday life!

    Where to learn more about Alyx and the Agenda:

    https://www.theagendaperiod.com/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyx-coble-frakes-3b27845b/

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    1 hr 3 min
  • Misogyny Renaissance

    Are we in the midst of a "Misogyny Renaissance"? This episode takes a closer look at old tropes—unbelievability, suspicion, backlash—roaring back. We dig into Blake Lively's "We can bury her" allegations, Kate Beckinsale's disturbing echoes of retaliation, and the House of Representatives now having no women chairing any committees for the first time in two decades. It's a look at how quickly the backlash machine revs up—and what happens when women choose to speak up anyway.

    When women come together, there is sisterhood, support and oh so much laughter! If you crave more connection with other women like you, rhe Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat is just what you need! Learn more and register now to join us and other fabulous women like you:March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    46 min
  • Buckle Up Buttercup

    Join us for the launch of Season 3 as we raise a glass to the new year, explain why we're calling this episode "Buckle Up," and reveal why neither of us believe New Year's resolutions actually work—but what we do find more effective. We'll talk about practical ways to protect your mindset, cultivate genuine joy, and brace yourself for life's unexpected turns. Plus, get a sneak peek at the fun things we have on the horizon to offset the existential dread many of us are feeling. If you're ready to kick off the year with authenticity, optimism, and a dash of humor, this is your invitation to strap in for an uplifting ride!

    If your 2025 intention is to connect with other women in a fun, supportive and beautiful setting then we have just the thing! The Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat is just what you need! Learn more and register now to join us and other fabulous women like you:March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    40 min
  • 100th Episode!

    Join us as we celebrate our 100th episode, raising a glass to the end of 2024, wrapping up Season Two, and looking ahead to new horizons. We take you back to how The Things We Know began—born from a spark of connection, a shared vision, and a desire to help women step into their next chapter with clarity and confidence. Listen in as we share wisdom gained through unexpected twists, the delight of audience feedback, and all that we've discovered along the way. We'll also reveal plans for more ways to connect—through meaningful coaching options, upcoming retreats, fresh episodes, and deeper conversations. Dive in, celebrate with us, and get ready for a vibrant Season Three!

    Looking for a gift for YOURSELF in 2025? Perhaps a retreat with us is just what you need! Learn more and Register for the Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    1 hr 6 min
  • Living Deliciously

    In this episode of The Things We Know, Lisa and Kari explore the concept of living life to the fullest. Inspired by Kari's beloved nephew Stephen, who embraced a bold and curious approach to life, they discuss the concept of living life to the fullest, the barriers that hold us back—like fear, anger, and stress—AND how letting go can create space for joy, connection, and deeper meaning. They share personal reflections and practical ways to embrace the everyday moments that make life more enriching. This conversation invites listeners to rethink what living fully means for them and take small steps toward living intentionally and with purpose. Enjoy!

    Are you ready to RECEIVE connection and insight in a supportive container with amazing women? Perhaps a retreat with us is just what you need! Learn more and Register for the Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

    Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

    Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

    Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

    54 min
  • Life with Adult Children

    In this episode, Kari and Lisa share their reflections on doing life with adult children, a stage of parenting filled with humor, growth, and immense joy. They share how fortunate they feel to savor this time, as their adult kids have become some of their favorite people to hang with! While challenges like stepping back and trusting them to navigate tough times are real, they focus on the beauty of seeing their children grow into unique, independent individuals, who are teaching them new perspectives all the time. This heartfelt conversation celebrates the sweet moments of connection and the ongoing journey of parenting grown kids. Enjoy!

    Looking for a fun but also powerful retreat experience for yourself, or perhaps for you AND your adult daughter together? Perhaps a retreat with us is just what you need! Learn more and Register for the Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    47 min
  • Let's Reframe Lonliness

    In this episode, Kari and Lisa discuss loneliness, a feeling that often creeps in during the holiday season and winter months. They discuss how the feeling of loneliness often stems from disconnection—from ourselves, others, or what lights us up—and share practical ways to reframe it as an opportunity for growth and self-awareness. Flipping the script, they invite listeners to see loneliness as a chance to go deeper with themselves and find comfort or even amusement in unexpected places.

    Are you craving time around other women like you? Perhaps a retreat with us is just what you need! Learn more and Register for the Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

    Where to find Kari and Lisa:

    The Things We Know Podcast Homepage

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThingWeKnowPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thethingsweknowpod

    29 min

About The Things We Know

From the publisher's feed

The Things We Know is a space for honest conversations, hard-earned wisdom and the beautiful messy truth of being human-especially in midlife and beyond. We exist to remind women that the best is not behind them and that their voices, stories and dreams matter now more than ever. Through heartfelt dialogue, real-life experiences, and a touch of humor we aim to spark clarity, connection and the courage to create a life you truly love.